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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Met her online about 4 years ago, and have pretty much talked everyday since. We have both confessed that we love each other even though we're currently far away from one another. Would plan to go up to a college/univeristy close to her to really be with her but she's afraid of the idea believing her family won't approve of our relationship as they are strict on who she sees. Also aware that her sister was set up in an aranged marriage which I know she doesn't want for herself. Not sure what to do since we love each other but I don't wish to harm any relationship with her family or seem like im pressuring her to let me come to her...but I feel I should at least try to meet her and possibly try to convince her family about me, if they choose who she can see. Reply to this Question
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reader, Itxi +, writes (4 October 2010):
 It's a great idea meeting her, but definitely don't make any decisions that affect the rest of your life based on this.
Meet her first, and take it easy, enjoy your time together and don't focus on winning over her friends or family. The best way to do that is to make her happy, and you will if you just have fun.
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