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I heard she liked me, so I told her I liked her and she got mad. What is going on?

Q.   ok , heres the deal . Im 13 and in middle school . This girl likes me and i like her alot. I feel so attracted to her. 3 of her friends told me she likes me. one of her friends said "She likes you, she didn't want me to tell you". I told her ( th...

A.   9 April 2011: I think her friends lied, and maybe she got mad cause you told her a thousand times that you like her, its not a bad thing por anything some girls like it, but more if your dateing, and if your not dateing most girls get annoyed. maybe thats why?. ... (read in full...)

Did something sexual with a guy friend

Q.   Ahh Hi, sorry i've just signed up cos i've got a couple of questions or things i'd like advise on if thats ok? I just freaking out about putting this on the net thats all and getting dissed by people, here goes.... Last night i did something ...

A.   9 April 2011: Uhmm, if you really wanna tell your gf?. if you just wanna keep it to yourself thats fine too. cause some things you should just keep to yourself, but if you know she wont like freak out or something you could i guess? its fully your choice. but ... (read in full...)

Why does he stare at me?

Q.   There is this boy at school I like but he does not know it and he does not no I'm gay. No one knows I'm gay. The boy I like stairs at me often that's how I started to like him because he stairs at me I use to stair back but he doesn't seem gay. He's ...

A.   8 April 2011: I would ask him, just like start a question on gays, then just be like .. ' soo are you straight gay or bi ? ' .. eer if your to scared to ask that maybe just be like , ' it's not a problem but i was just wondering why you always look at me. ' . & ... (read in full...)

He says he got rid of his porn for me. Should I believe him?

Q.   i have a question that is mostly for guys.. i want to start by saying that i am very aware that when a girl tells a guy she wants him to get rid of his porn, usually he just hides it.. but in my case, i never told him how i felt about it, the to...

A.   8 April 2011: If he said he did .. i would believe him cause if you say that you dont beleive him pretty soon he iwll think you won't beleive anything he says, sooo my answer is i would beleive him , i hopee i helped aswell (:. ... (read in full...)

I told people I have a boyfriend when I don't

Q.   i made up me having a boyfriend to impress my friends but now they want to meet him what should i do i dont want to tell them because then they wont like me and i hav already said that we broke up but they still want to meet him. Help??...

A.   8 April 2011: I agree with sweetsmoochy, don't make things up. sometiems havin a boyfrieend doesn't make yoou coool. Maybe tell them the truth ?. & poretty soon they will give up. cause you dont want to end up like, ' thee boy who cryed wolf ' . cause when you ... (read in full...)

Did something sexual with a guy friend

Q.   Ahh Hi, sorry i've just signed up cos i've got a couple of questions or things i'd like advise on if thats ok? I just freaking out about putting this on the net thats all and getting dissed by people, here goes.... Last night i did something ...

A.   8 April 2011: Well are you guys still friends after that?., & doo you guys like eachother ?. cause if sooo then maybe move on further?. if not then maybe pretned it didnt happen ?... (read in full...)

Should I try to move on and forgive?

Q.   I met him during my divorce and his divorce.We both have 2 kids from our marriages.We got serious immeditately.He moved us in after 6 months.Sex was constant and phenominal.Our kids got along fabulously.Then he found FaceBook and old crushes and new ...

A.   11 February 2011: I think you should just move on. DOn't fergive him cause he seems like those guys that dates you fer looks. && You don't want him to think that you are soft and gonna fergive him in a heartbeat everytime he doesn't have a GF. How do you know he ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him to kiss me?

Q.   ok well im 13 and i have a boyfriend and hes really shy and we have been dateing for awhile and he hasnt kissed me and he told my friend he was gonna kiss me awhile ago and he hasnt but i dont want to kiss him first so how do i tell him i want him ...

A.   28 January 2011: Leave some hints Get closer to himm. && look in his eyes and just smilee. That helped me ;D... (read in full...)

How do I improve my self esteem?

Q.   At school all the boys say how ugly I am to my face, and also behind my back. But all my Friends say i am pretty. and I try to eat less but i generally think i don't eat a lot but all the guys say how fat I am. But i don't weigh that much I ...

A.   28 January 2011: Thanks guys ;D... (read in full...)

How to Build Confidence and Squash Fear?

Q.   How does a man gain confidence around women and strangers? I enjoy talking to others and learning about them, but that's only with my friends. I've started a new semester at a new school, and I'm shy around all the people that I do not know. I want ...

A.   26 January 2011: Maybe wait till you start getting to know people. Like you did at your old schoool. Maybe just follow the steps at your new school, as you did as your old school. And chances are, if you didn't make a fool outta yourself at your old schoool. Ch... (read in full...)

For the girls -- shaving?

Q.   hey everyone ! so i have a question for the girls , do you most of you shave the hair from your vagina? most guys i know do not like hair. so i want to shave mine, but ill shave it one day it will be smooth and the next day the hair will grow ...

A.   26 January 2011: I have done it before. But i don't know?. Maybe try to put lotion on it or something?. And it isn't a wierd question .. Alot of people ask it. ... (read in full...)

Should I be concerned about her friend?

Q.   Hey everyone. I have been with my girlfriend for three years. We have been seperated twice and I think it's because of her "friend". I broke up with her the first time because I felt that I was a control freak and that she deserved someone better. ...

A.   26 January 2011: Try talking to her about it again?.... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for not calling?

Q.   hi im 28 im with my partner 7 years we have 3 beautiful children together, im a stay at home mum dont really go out with friends that often and when i do i basically get ignored 4 a day or 2 afterwards, i was out recently with few friends 4 couple ...

A.   26 January 2011: Well your not right or wrong, I guess it is in all perspective. But in my perspective i think you should of called. It is just the responsible way. I guess if you want a good relation ship you should at least call once especially if yo... (read in full...)

I really like this girl and need some good ideas!

Q.   ok i like this girl in high school and we talk in class i have three periods with her she doesnt know i "Like" her like her but we talk and laugh! but i want to talk to her more! but she sleeps through all of her classes with me she talks to me but ...

A.   26 January 2011: Ok. Well one thing... Myabe in class if you guys sit beside her maybe pass her notes.. Flirt with her . And blah blah blah. And one question ... Why hasn't she had a valentines before?. && Maybe buy her some flowers && chocolates? [[ ... (read in full...)

Help! Do I give up on the girl of my dreams or be there for her and hope she gives us a chance later on?

Q.   Alright so I've been talking to this beautiful girl I met at my friends bday party for about a month now on the phone. We have awesome convos and sometimes we talk for hours on the phone. She always jokes about us getting married and tells me how ...

A.   26 January 2011: No. Don't give up on her. Just be there for her still. Be open.. If you give up now there may be no chance. Just keep the way you are && maybe some day in life you guys will be together. Hopefully sooon (:... (read in full...)

How to make my ex jealous?

Q.   i want to make my ex as jealous as possible. he really broke my heart. we ended it "mutually" but it was more him wanting to end it than me. i want to make him regret breaking up with me. we dated for a year, and we're both 15. he was the first guy ...

A.   26 January 2011: For one... Don't make your ex jelouse!. Just causes more DRAMA. && He probally dumped you for a reason. && By maing him jelouse probally won't make him want you back.... (read in full...)

He cares more about them than himself!

Q.   Why is my boyfriend doing this? I don't understand:(? my boyfriend is always depressed.. he says everything is not fine with his family ever since his dad died. he keeps saying his sisters and brother are not happy..but all 3 of them have universi...

A.   26 January 2011: Have you tried talking to him about all this?. have you tried talking to his family about this?. If you haven't maybe try doing that as the first step. If he doesn't seem to talk about it maybe get him some counseling?. Also .. I am srry to hea... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend's mom doesn't like me!

Q.   I have been dating my bf for over a year. I go to his house at least once a week and so I see him mom alot. I feel like she doesn't make an effort to get to know me. I am shy and soft spoken and bad with small talk but I try to say hi and maybe give ...

A.   26 January 2011: That is quite normal, happens with alot of people. Just deal with it. Don't give up of what you are doing.. Just show that you care for your boyfriend very much. Be nice && everything just don't try to hard to be nice, && don't make it obvoise ... (read in full...)

Should I make him choose between drugs and me?

Q.   Wow, so I don't really know where to start. This may be longer than I expect, so I apologise in advance. I started dating this guy not long ago, he is older than me, which is fine, age to me has never been a barrier. But is it not strange how things ...

A.   26 January 2011: Hmm. i don't know where to start Lol. Well.. Maybe talk to him about it?. If he doesn't except the fact that you don't want him doing drugs, and maybe help him Get out of it like send him to rehab, maybe some counseling, and after you try all th... (read in full...)

Why am I so angry?

Q.   I just need some kind of advice..or i feel all this will get too far and destroy my family relationship. Im a 16 year old girl, eversince i met my boyfriend, i seem to blow up easily at my family. First it started with my brother, he dislikes my ...

A.   26 January 2011: These are things that might be interfering with your family/friends. - your boyfriend did something that made you mad at everyone?. - To in love with your boyfriend, && you family doesn't like him, && you care to much for him, && don't want an... (read in full...)

Boyfriend seen with another guy in the room, assumed the worst

Q.   Please Help! My Boyfriend caught another guy in our room! Okay so this is what happened. I had a boyfriend who was living with me. Saturday morning he picked up his things and broke up with me because we argued about the father of my children...

A.   25 January 2011: Have you tryed talking to him about it?. Telling him that it was your kids dad?. Or that you were drunk and the guy was just helping you come home safely?. Did you try to tell him that you were overly drunk and didn't know what was happening?. ... (read in full...)

I'm really not that bad...why don't girls ever notice me???

Q.   I am a pretty average guy, at least I think. I weigh about 84kg or 185lbs, and I'm about 6ft 1inch or 185cm tall. I've never been made fun of for being ugly or anything. I'm 21 and stay in pretty good shape by working out most days of the week. ...

A.   25 January 2011: Do you think maybe the girls that see you actually like you?. But are in your position?. Maybe they are thinking the same as you?. Maybe if you see a girl at school you like go up to her and talk?. Because what if she thinks i don't want to wa... (read in full...)

She wants me to get my penis pierced!

Q.   Hey everybody! I've been in relationship with this girl for 2 years now... She wants to spice things up so she got a tattoo and she asked me to get my dick pierced!! Is this too much? Is it gonna hurt? Should I do it? So many questions...

A.   25 January 2011: If you don't want to do it then don't. Because if you guys decide to break up then you have a pierced dick. && What if your next gf doesn't like it?. You can if you want to. But you are who you are and don't let anyone change you.... (read in full...)

Her friends are gonna get in the way if I ask her out

Q.   Hi guys i have another question. There is a girl who i have half way fell for, its not a deep love or anything but the problem is if i ask her if she wants to be together she has about 7 other girl who will say no and that can affect her descion ...

A.   25 January 2011: I have bin in that situation where guys have tried to ask me to be together but my friends have interfered. It is pretty normal. But maybe ask her when she isn't with her friends. && If you have her number maybe call her. If she asks why are ask... (read in full...)

Beauty tips please on how to get this guy to like me!

Q.   This is a very topical question, but I will appreciate all answers! Well basically I want a guy to notice me. I want him to see me and think "wow shes hot!" Do you have any fashion and/or beauty tips that will make me seem more attractive to him? ...

A.   25 January 2011: Don't wear to much makeup. && if you don't normally wear makeup then you don't have to just be yourself and if the guy doesn't like you, then you know he isn't using you for anything if you just be yourself and he likes you then you know he like... (read in full...)

My boyfriend "forgot" to get me a birthday and Christmas present!

Q.   My BF forgot to buy me a bday gift and an Xmas gift...well he did not think it was necessary to buy me an Xmas gift (he bought gifts for his friends and family). I was SO hurt by this I did not talk to him for like 2 weeks, and then I told him how ...

A.   25 January 2011: Maybe you should talk to him about it. Ask him why he isn't giving you presents. Tell him how hurt you feel and so on.... (read in full...)

I just want to stay friends!

Q.   my close friend is ver sexy and I think that she is trying to seducing me . she has big boobs and when we are alone (studying...) she always try to show me her boobs by bending over without reasons or wearing low cut clothes(sometimes I see her ...

A.   25 January 2011: That isn't the best choice because she will think you like her when you just wanna see her body just tell her that you want to be friends && && that you don't wanna mess anything up between you guys.... (read in full...)

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