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*ash28
writes:hi im 28 im with my partner 7 years we have 3 beautiful children together, im a stay at home mum dont really go out with friends that often and when i do i basically get ignored 4 a day or 2 afterwards, i was out recently with few friends 4 couple of hours and didnt call home to see how everything was! my partner ignored me for 2 days and when i finally got out of him why he wasnt really speaking to me he said that i never called and havent the last 3 to 4 times i have been out he said he doesnt have problem with me going out which i think is a total lie i think he has and in ways is trying to control me he is not abusive he just makes me feel that i have done something wrong which i have never done and wouldnt ever hurt him like that, cause i wouldnt like to be hurt like that myself, i do love him but cant really put up with this anymore. i feel my confidence has been knocked quite alot no just from this but from having 3 children i dont feel as happy about myself as i did before i had my children. would just like to hear what other people think on this matter or am i wrong for not calling???
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reader, SillyB  +, writes (26 January 2011):
 If its only a few hours and everyone knows who is where, why call?
Sounds like you have another parent!
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reader, iicandyxoxo  +, writes (26 January 2011):
 Well your not right or wrong,
I guess it is in all perspective.
But in my perspective i think you should of called.
It is just the responsible way.
I guess if you want a good relation ship you should at least call once especially if you are going out for a while.
Because i am sure you would want your husband to call.
So he knows you are okay and yadda yadda yadda.
If you get what I am saying.
But for next time you'll know what to do, && what his reaction is. (:.
Hope everything works out between you to.
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