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Is my penis big enough to satisfy a lady?

Q.   i have small penis of 4inches,should this is enough to satisfy a lady,if not than how can i satisfy a lady ?...

A.   19 December 2010: Sex is more of a mental thing for women, if they are turned on by big cocks, then seze matters. But it actually depends more on how thick your penis is. either way most guys will be able to satisfy a woman. but dont be selfish, think of her 1st,... (read in full...)

Is it possible to fall pregnant even with protection?

Q.   Is it possible to fall pregnant even with protection? I haven't had a period in 2 months and I never missed one in my life, I took a pregnancy test and it came out negative. Could there be a different reason why I have not had my period or was the ...

A.   19 December 2010: Is it possible to fall pregnant even with protection? YES.... (read in full...)

How do I shave without leaving stubble?

Q.   How do i shave my pubic area? My boyfriend has recently asked my to completely shave my vagina, but when i did it with a razor, it just turned stubbly so wasn't very attractive. How do i shave without leaving stuble for a more sexy look?...

A.   19 December 2010: Wax it. Hollywood Style. Shaving is not good.... (read in full...)

He has a thing for younger girls and I am worried he might try it on with me now I'm 18!

Q.   So I am a senior in high school and 18. For two years now I have been singing with diffrent musicians at diffrent venues. Now that I am "legal" I am able to sing in bars....I have a new musician Im working with named "tom"...tom is 33..he has an ...

A.   19 December 2010: Did you know, we are legal when we turn 16 in England! EW!... (read in full...)

Flatulence from my privates? At any time. I think this is so weird. Am I normal?

Q.   So I read a few things on here how girls sometime "fart" from their vaginas. It's not really farting it's like the air thing people have said. So I tested to see if I have it, and I do. I was laying on my back and lifted my legs up closer to my ...

A.   19 December 2010: lol.. Normal. Relax.... (read in full...)

In the hospital and my boyfriend was watching porn

Q.   I am in hospital (pregnancy loss related) and had an overnight stay, whilst I was in overnight,I found out my partner masturbated to porn. I feel angry and emotional over this, am I over reacting? ...

A.   19 December 2010: What do you expect him to do when he's horny, he can't help when he is. And I'm sure you'd rather him do that then sleep with another woman. OVER REACTING.... (read in full...)

Boyfriend caught wanking at work?

Q.   hi my name is sally :( my boyfriend (today ex) and i had an open very sexual relationshipd, we watched porn together often, until i found him doing it alone and found out he was doing it at work and even got caught wanking ? when i have conftonte...

A.   19 December 2010: Maybe he is imbarrised. DUHH, he got caught.... (read in full...)

I want to spend time with my family too...

Q.   my bf is upset that i am always leaving him behind to spend time with my family. and whenever he is upset about this, he ignores me and tells me that i should just leave him alone. i would really like to make him feel better. but how? i dont think ...

A.   19 December 2010: Sounds like he's like a kid. Wants all the attention. Family comes first. Possible things you could say to him: 1. It's not fair the way you treat me when I want to see my family (But then he might sulk seeing as he is a big kid.) 2. Th... (read in full...)

The long and the short of it!

Q.   I consider myself short at 5'8". I have always had a strong attraction to taller women. The taller the better. Is this normal... do most guys around my height feel this way and do very tall women feel that attraction to shorter men?...

A.   19 December 2010: No, it is not unusual dispite what "Sex counsellor" says. Different people like different things, period. I have seen tall women dating shorter guys, but most of my tall female friends prefer taller men. I do agree with "sex councellor" wh... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend have another account on Facebook... as a woman???

Q.   Been in a relationship with a guy for two years, we only managed to see each other at weekends. I thought our relationship was good and was ready to take it to the next level, when I discovered by chance he has a profile on facebook under a ...

A.   19 December 2010: It is a jokey account. Possibly to commit Jokes on other people.... (read in full...)

He doesn't want to spend christmas with my family...

Q.   My boyfriend has recently decided that he doesn't want to see his family anymore. They won't accept him being gay and after years of making an effort and trying to forget it, he's had enough. So with Xmas coming up, he won't be spending it with ...

A.   19 December 2010: 1st off, His family suck for not supporting him. 2nd. I'm not a talker either, I can't seem to say how I feel to my GF sometimes. So she told me to text it to her, even though she was right next to me, and it came out easier. I think, maybe... (read in full...)

I have a weakness for this other friend...

Q.   I am in a relationship ive been with him for a few months but i need help? I have a friend who ive liked for a few years but he lives in a different state now and we only talk every so often but everytime we talk i feel something so special for him ...

A.   19 December 2010: It's normal to have a soft spot for someone else. Just DO NOT cheat. Simples.... (read in full...)

The darker side of sex...

Q.   I'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy I really like. He's awfully sweet and really cares about me. He does does everything in his power to make me happy, so when I told him that I wasn't so sweet an innocent and liked things to be darker, ...

A.   19 December 2010: Dominate him in bed.... (read in full...)

Is she annoyed at me for something I did?

Q.   I talked to a girl for 3 months. Fell in love. I asked her out 1.5 months after meeting. She had a bf but they broke up 2 weeks later. We finally went 'out' (i dunno if it was a date) but I didn't make a move. I thought I messed up but we talked ...

A.   19 December 2010: Mixed CD... How cheesy. Define Date - there're really no such thing if you think about it. It's just two people meeting up, spending time and getting to know each other. So hanging out really. Theres no difference. And FB doesn't mean anythin... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's sister keeps trying to break us up!!!

Q.   We're in middle school and I'm going to change the names for protection. Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a month and we really like each other. However, my boyfriend's sister, Mary was my friend but when i started ...

A.   19 December 2010: If I were her, I would be thinking... "My friend was spending time with me, now she doesn't because she spends time with my brother. She used me!" Possible the case. But she sounds silly.... (read in full...)

First kiss under the mistletoe: Good idea?

Q.   I was wondering if a good way to have your first kiss would be under mistletoe? I'm going to this Christmas party on Tuesday and my crush (who is also my best friend) is going. It's a mutual friend's party and she said that there will definite...

A.   19 December 2010: Yes. But it's not a big deal. If it doesn't happen then, it will happen soon enough.... (read in full...)

I lost all contacts in my phone! Should I wait for him to text me?

Q.   So I like this guy, he has a ton of friends, so it's hard to ever get him alone. He's SUPER sweet and nice, and always smiles at me and says my name when he says hi. There have been times where we'll text each other for hours. I lost all the ...

A.   19 December 2010: "we'll text each other for hours" He will text you. Period. Then tell him the story of the 'lost contacts' and laugh.... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend but want to kiss another guy!

Q.   I'm so confused. I like this boy and he's coming over in the week and I really wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but I have a boyfriend and we argue like cat and dog. My boyfriend always says that he is going to kill my next boyfriend if I ...

A.   19 December 2010: "I really wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me" You: Guess what! Guy: What? You: I want to kiss you. Guy: Really? You: Yes. Guy: Guess what! You: What? Guy: I want to kiss you too. P.S. "kill my next boyfriend if I finish him" Yo... (read in full...)

Nothing makes me horny. Does this make me abnormal?

Q.   Is it normal not to find the act of sex enjoyable? It's nice for the first five seconds and then Im no longer in the mood. I know it's a "mental" thing but I cant even imagine anything while having sex. I really can't ....nothing makes me horny, and ...

A.   19 December 2010: Possibilities 1. He is selfish 2. He is not that attractive (sex is completely different with a person you find amazingly attractive) 3. His penis doesn't feel good inside you (not his or your fault) 4. none of the above.... (read in full...)

Has he just grown 'used' to me now, after just eight months?

Q.   When I first became sexually active with my current boyfriend, it was really easy to make him cum though sex, oral or by hand. But 8 months later and its a lot harder too. Obviously he still does, but it takes a lot longer. At first I thought it was ...

A.   19 December 2010: Never heard of a complaint that a guy lasts too long. Experiment, its normal. On top of a desk, him holding you against a wall, nutella...etc. ... (read in full...)

Is she just being friendly or is there more to it?

Q.   Hi all, nearly 22 year old male and never been on a date etc. A few nights ago I went out with my coursemates including this girl I didn't know very well. This girl and I got on pretty well. She asked me to dance with her (I refused at first...

A.   19 December 2010: If what you say did happen, without you twisting small parts of what happened. Then Yes, she does like you. If you twisted things or left things out, as in she held other peoples arms at the same time. You're just cheating yourself. Only you ... (read in full...)

He's a waste of space!!!

Q.   I'm a 26 year old female with a 2 month old babe, my boyfriend is 22 and all he wants to do is rap, and worry about what he needs done or paid off, but anything i have to do is not important to him, his actions give it away, he doesnt do anything ...

A.   19 December 2010: Waste of space indeed. He does not sound like a good role model for your child. Your child comes 1st. You do not want him to turn out like that do you?... (read in full...)

My girl friend is sending naked pictures of herself to her ex. Is that cheating?

Q.   So the girl I've been dating for 6 months now has been sending naked pictures to her ex, and having conversations with him while telling him that she loves him too, and that he should come over to have sex with her, all while telling me that she's ...

A.   19 December 2010: She's sending naked pictures of herself to people. Dump her simple as. Why are people so... opposite of thin.... (read in full...)

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