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writes:hi my name is sally :(my boyfriend (today ex) and i had an open very sexual relationshipd, we watched porn together often, until i found him doing it alone and found out he was doing it at work and even got caught wanking ? when i have conftonted him he has denied it and lied.. is he not attracted to me anymore :(
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reader, Agony Aunt Annabel  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Hello,
This is not uncommon, even though it is inadvisable to "jerk off" at work. Ask him to do it in private purely because it is indecent to do it in public.
Ask him to save it for the home or a bathroom/toilet cubical. However some men get erections and ejaculate from the risk of getting caught, which isn't their fault.
He may still be attracted to you, and want to watch porn with you... but it's not just a "two person dance", he should be allowed to do it on his own; he's not cheating. If he was masturbating with someone else, then you'd have a BIG problem, but your only real problem here is to get him to not do it in public places where he could get caught.
Good Luck:)x
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reader, honest_human +, writes (19 December 2010):
Maybe he is imbarrised. DUHH, he got caught.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 It is not unusual or abnormal for anyone, male or female, to masturbate on occasion. It's usually a good idea, however, to be fairly discreet about it - meaning to keep it private and at appropriate times. Perhaps your boyfriend needs more discretion and common sense in his activities. If he has lost interest in sex with you, then that is another (and probably more serious) matter.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (18 December 2010):
 This really has nothing to do with you. You are still attractive. What he has is an all-consuming porn addiction.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (18 December 2010):
 Sounds like he attracted to everything at the moment. Don't they have locks on the toilets at work. There is a time and a place for everything. He may need sex therapy or he could get himself in to a lot of trouble for exposure or something. Ask him to keep it in the bedroom.
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