Won't see him for over a week, hope the feelings don't change
Q. it is now the christmas holidays and i wont see my boyfriend for over a week,, we can keep in contact by texting but i hope things wont have changed after not seeing eachother for this lentgh of time. what can i do to stop this from happening? ...
A. 19 December 2009: it's just a week...... (read in full...)
Goodbye to all at Dear Cupid
Q. Well, this is not a question. I have just decided to opt out as an agony aunt, "uncle". I seem not to have had much success lately. I think it is just an age thing. I am probably to old to give advice to the questioners who seem to be of a much ...
A. 31 August 2009: the older you are, the more you have learned and expierenced. therefore you can help give great advice that others may not be able to provide.... (read in full...)
I need ideas for a job for me!
Q. Hi, I am a 13 year old girl and I am looking for ways to make money. All the jobs I have found so far appear to be scams and they ALL turn out to be just that. I need money because my mom is married to a jerk and he won’t pay for anything so and she ...
A. 5 August 2009: babysit?... (read in full...)
I feel my mother's actions are completely unreasonable. Any suggestions?
Q. hello. i am 15 years old. and i would just like to hear some opinions on my situation. basically, i don't understand why my mother doesn't see that i'm responsible and mature and i dont know why she doesn't trust me. first of all, i do plenty o...
A. 3 August 2009: thank you for your answers. i probably wont be returning to this site because i bet my mom will look on the computers internet history, and since this website gives advice on sex she will not approve. which i dont know why she would object because ... (read in full...)
How can I help my friend who's using weed as an escape?
Q. please someone help me. my best friend is depressed and he is mentally addicted to weed. he explains to me that its the only way he can escape. he knows its stupid and he knows its ruining his life. hes 17. and i just know that its a cry for help...
A. 2 August 2009: legioness,
well i ask him to hang out but i have been trying for two months and i havent seen him at all. he chooses to go be with his "friends" that smoke
weed instead of his real friends that are here for him and always will be. as for the shoc... (read in full...)
What DearCupid means to me
Q. I wanted to take the time to say a bit about how Dear Cupid has had a positive impact on my life. Well, I first joined this site in April. I had some free time on my hands, as I had to give up my demanding college course so I could focus on r...
A. 2 August 2009: wow that really touched me. im so glad you found this site, you really are a huge help to a lot of people, never forget that! x... (read in full...)
How do I get in good physical shape to do basic combat trainning?
Q. this is not a relationship question but i get great advice from this website so i might as well see if anyone can help. well i'm 15 years old and i would like to join the army national guard when i turn 17. i would like to know if anyone can give me ...
A. 1 August 2009: thankyou! also after college i was planning on training for the FBI or something similar. but i'm starting now so i'm ready. i'll start with running a mile each morning and doing sit ups, push ups, pull ups, and increase the amount as i progress. ... (read in full...)
Do you think I'm OK?
Q. hey im 5'4" and im a size 00, is this a bad thing? also my bra size is only 34A. im pretty confident with my nody because im quite thin and habe a six pack. is this bad though?...
A. 1 August 2009: i eat 3 meals a day along with fruits and vegetables(: thank you for your answers ! ... (read in full...)
I have some concerns about the new vaccine, Gardasil.
Q. so my dad is telling me and my sister that he's willing to pay the expensive price for us to get the vaccine, gardasil. I know its a new medicine so idk a whole lot about it or side effects and what not. I was reading some stuff online but not a...
A. 31 July 2009: i got it and had no side affects. it didnt hurt. its worth it(:... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend but is there any way to get him to like me more?
Q. Okay ... i like this guy , but theres quite a few problems , hes 3 years older than me , my friends have already reacted and called me a slut , but i like him too much to care , he has a girlfriend , but hes had a sort of 'crush' on me. He was alwa...
A. 31 July 2009: well idk if this will help but its worth a shot. im 15 years old and theres this guy whos 17. about 10 months ago i developed strong feelings for him. the problem was hehad a girlfriend. they broke up and he started dating another girl. i was ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend but is there any way to get him to like me more?
Q. Okay ... i like this guy , but theres quite a few problems , hes 3 years older than me , my friends have already reacted and called me a slut , but i like him too much to care , he has a girlfriend , but hes had a sort of 'crush' on me. He was alwa...
A. 31 July 2009: well i don't know if this will help but its worth a shot. im 15 years old and theres this guy whos 17. about 10 months ago i developed strong feelings for him. the problem was he had a girlfriend. they broke up and he started dating another girl. i ... (read in full...)
Should I give up on us being more than friends?
Q. This guy tells me all the time he loves me and wants to be with me and I really do believe him and its not just a friendship love. And I love him too, so much. But he doesn't want to go out. What does that mean? Should I just give up on us being ...
A. 29 July 2009: wow i actually had to check and make sure this wasnt my question. im in the exact same situation. i need help... (read in full...)
Guys, what kind of presents do you like?
Q. heyy i really need suggestions for my boyfriends birthday present! im 15 and hes turning 17. guys what kinds of presents would you like, or what was the best present you ever got? and girls what was the most appreciated present you ever gave? i need ...
A. 27 July 2009: thankyou:)... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant, help!
Q. I am 14 pregnant to a 17 year old it was a drunken mistake, i am 1 month gone and not showing yet only small bump no one knows, i have already got morning sickness (i dont know why they call it this i'm sick throughout the day) i cant get rid of i...
A. 25 July 2009: hey i'm your age, and i just read your conversation below. just wanted to say congradulations! and i really like the names you marked as your favorites(: ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get my best friend back?
Q. i have a friend, he is 17 and is mentally addicted to weed(so he says) and i want him to stop. he used to talk to me every single day and everything was perfect. we were like bestfriends and i told him everything. i tell him to stop but he doesnt. ...
A. 24 July 2009: thankyou. anyone else have any opinions? i'd like a variety of answers. please.... (read in full...)
If he likes me why isn't he speaking to me!!
Q. So me and this boy like each other We used to talk or actually text everyday Now it all stopped We would talk like once or maybe twice a week Recently I was talking to him through text and he asked me " I know this sounds wierd but do u still...
A. 24 July 2009: talk to him! if he really likes you, a simple text from you will make his day! (: good luck! message me if you need anything else ... (read in full...)
I just don't know why no one likes me. Can you help me?
Q. Why am i so lonely? I mean, I am 14 and I have never been kissed and have only ever had one gf but I dont understand because I think Im a nice guy and im quite sensitive but I just dont know why no one likes me! can u help me please??...
A. 23 July 2009: us girls arent the smartest. we tend to fall for the asshole players. i cant tell you why, thats just what seems to happen.... (read in full...)
I know I like him and I think he likes me, but he has a girlfriend!
Q. Well, there's this boy who I really really like. He goes to my school, and ironically we never really talked in school, but then I went to summer camp and surprisingly he was there and we started talking and now we're really close. Anyway, he ...
A. 23 July 2009: hey im in the same situation. if he really likes u he will leave his gf for you, not play u both. good luck.... (read in full...)
Why do people judge other people because of their size?
Q. i know this isnt relationship... but what exactly is wrong with 'fat' people? people slag them off, call them names, pick on them, bully them, talk about them! i dont get what the difference between a fat person and a thin person is? is it not the ...
A. 21 July 2009: i also wonder this.... (read in full...)
Does it hurt to get fingered?
Q. my boyfriend wants so finger me but im still a virgin and ive never used a tampon, so im affraid its goin to hurt, can anyone help me please?...
A. 20 July 2009: finger yourselr and find out(:... (read in full...)
I can't get any girls to notice me!
Q. hi I'm a 14 year old male and I have a problem. I can't get any girls to notice me. every where I go even in my neighborhood there are pretty girls(even at church). I don't know how to act or approach them. that's why I can't ever get girlfriends. 1 ...
A. 20 July 2009: if you see a girl you like just go say hey and start a conversation. be confident:]... (read in full...)
She's way too pretty for me but I like her!
Q. last night i went to the cinema with my friends and and there was this girl who went with us and i ended up stareing at her more than the movie. i think that this girl is way to pretty to go out with me but i still like her has anyone got any ideas ...
A. 20 July 2009: why do looks matter?... (read in full...)
Is it true for some people that you don't remember your dreams upon waking?
Q. Is it true for some people that you don't remember your dreams upon waking? I wake up and remember quite a bit of what I have dreamt that night, and I thought that was quite normal, but many family members tell me that they never dream (or simp...
A. 20 July 2009: i remember my dreams but people i know usually dont remember theirs.. so yes this is true... (read in full...)
Period cramps and no medicine
Q. period cramps.. any ideas on how to help? other than medecine because i have none. thanks...
A. 18 July 2009: i would try it but im just a little grossed out by the blood. i get queasy when i see blood so im not sure it'd helo me but thank you for the suggestion
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Should I let my parents in on this relationship to help me see him?
Q. For over a year, me and this guy have tryed to have a relationship but it hasnt worked out. He lives in a different town then me and only comes out here with his best friend,which is my best friends boyfriend,and so on. We really like eachother and ...
A. 18 July 2009: yes you should its so much easier!... (read in full...)
Period cramps and no medicine
Q. period cramps.. any ideas on how to help? other than medecine because i have none. thanks...
A. 18 July 2009: thank you anonymous(:... (read in full...)
Vomiting phobia.
Q. i am so terrified of being sick or seeing someone else sick. i have such a phobia of vomiting i cant take it anymore! out of everyone i know, im the one whos always feeling sick. helpppp! what can i do?? i need as many answers as possible. thanks....
A. 13 July 2009: more answers please it would help me as well as these other people with the same phobia. thanks!... (read in full...)
I want to see him, but afraid of getting in trouble with my parents, what do I do?
Q. hey well im kind of involved with this guy.. were friends with benefits i guess and welove eachother. the thing is i dont get to see him alot. i want to sneak out to his house tonight( its in walking distance) just to see him. seriously im so sad ...
A. 13 July 2009: Thanks everyone but I guess I should've been more specific... were like dating its just not official yet. We're not having sex or anything... (read in full...)
What color mascara and eye-liner would look good with blue eyes?
Q. hey i have a make up question. i have blue eyes and i was wondering what color eyeliner and mascara would look best? thanks for the help...
A. 11 July 2009: thankyou thankyou!!... (read in full...)
Have you cheated or been cheated on?
Q. I am just curious how frequently people cheat or get cheated on? By partners, fiances, spouses? And if you have cheated, why did you do it? Is cheating unavoidable in long term relationships? Do all partners get bored at some point?...
A. 11 July 2009: ive been cheated on and cheated with:/ but id never cheat on anyone... (read in full...)
Are blow jobs now an expected part of making out?
Q. I read recently that kids as young as 11 and 12 no longer "make out" by just kissing, hugging and caressing, but that many boys also expect their girlfriends to give them blow jobs. In other words, oral sex among the young is getting to be pretty ...
A. 11 July 2009: im 15 and gus are always asking me for blowjobs and hand jobs and if they can eat me out or finyer me. guys also ask for sex. im not dumb enough to let them use me but yeah where i live every guy is into sex from 10 years and older. but then again ... (read in full...)
What color mascara and eye-liner would look good with blue eyes?
Q. hey i have a make up question. i have blue eyes and i was wondering what color eyeliner and mascara would look best? thanks for the help...
A. 11 July 2009: thanks everyone:) ill experiment with blacks and browns(:... (read in full...)
How do I use tampons?
Q. hey im a girl and im a virgin. never even used tampons. i want to but im scared i'll faint cause i read that somewhere. im so afraid of passing out! so any pointers on inserting tampons? also how do i masturbate? like what do i do? what feels really ...
A. 4 July 2009: thanks everyone(:... (read in full...)
Summer makeover tips to be less ugly
Q. Hey,I'm 14 years old I'm getting my braces off in less than ten days. I'm scared that it's gonna look gross cuz i actually liked wearing braces. Plus I'm gonna use crest white strips for whiter teeth and stuff but im still nervous.. I'm not u...
A. 4 July 2009: i had my braces off in january and at first i thought it looked really weird but i love not uaving them now it looks
so much better. just takes some getting used to. imsure your beautiful.(: just about every girl is... (read in full...)
How should I maintain my small figure for the duration of pregnancy?
Q. So, i'm about 10 weeks pregnant and my husband has a thing for thinner models like kate moss and the like. He once told me he married me largely because he knew I'd always be one to stay naturally slender, because of how naturally skinny...
A. 3 July 2009: wow im the same height as you and i weifh 20 pounds more. im not pregnant. im healthy and skinny and im 15! GAIN SOME WEIGHT!... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing to say goodbye?
Q. Ok so me and my ex were going out for about 4 months and i have been feeling a little captivated in our relationship. Like he expected more out of me than i can give, he also did little things like tell me what i couldnt wear (cloths, make up, ...
A. 3 July 2009: hey im 15. been there. you did the right thing. you can find someone so much better that loves you and only you.... (read in full...)
If things don't go the way he wants it then he gets mad.
Q. I just need opinions! Heres what its about. Well i have a boyfriend and ive been going out with him for ten months now, but the big problem is that he treats me like his little B**ch. See he sais its all because his ex girlfriend cheated on him t...
A. 3 July 2009: Sit down and talk with him and tell him exactly how you feel. Explain to him that you love him and would never cheat on him. Also tell him he can't control everythng you do. Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
I'm a silly big girl who's in trouble with boys
Q. Hi.. I'm a 17 years old girl.. and i'm not as all the girls my age because i've never been in a relationship and i've never kissed a boy. Sometimes i talk with boys but because of my insecure i don't know what to say. And i think that if i have a ...
A. 3 July 2009: Just act like yourself boys will like you for you, and if they don't they're not worth it... (read in full...)
Advice needed? Is he using me for sex?
Q. hiya :) I'm 15. There's this boy I've liked for a while. we'll call him connor. I've been on a date with him but that was months ago. He knows i still like him and he says he likes me too. we're quite close friends and have been for about a ...
A. 2 July 2009: Hey I'm 15 too and I know exactlywhat you mean. I'm in the same exsct situation. I don't want to admit it or believe it myself but all he wants is sex. Guys that age just look at it as a competition between friends. Who can "score" the most. Don't ... (read in full...)
Do these comments seem like another woman is flirting with me???
Q. I am female, 40 years old, and on a neighborhood tennis team. I am madly attracted to the female coach who is about my age. Sometimes I think she is attracted to me. But sometimes I don't think so and that it's all in my head. Take this conv...
A. 2 July 2009: It sounds like just a compliment but I could be wrong... (read in full...)
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