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writes:Okay ... i like this guy , but theres quite a few problems , hes 3 years older than me , my friends have already reacted and called me a slut , but i like him too much to care , he has a girlfriend , but hes had a sort of 'crush' on me. He was always looking at me , his friends kept coming up to me saying he thought i was fit.Hes told me on msn he still likes me , and that he would go with me , but the problem was he has a girlfriend , is there anyway i could get him to like me more , so he would go out with me ? Or any advice , id really apreciate it Thanks xxx
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reader, Fifteen  +, writes (31 July 2009):
well idk if this will help but its worth a shot. im 15 years old and theres this guy whos 17. about 10 months ago i developed strong feelings for him. the problem was hehad a girlfriend. they broke up and he started dating another girl. i was devistated. but he kept telling mehe loved me and we would be together. i believed him and we started hanging out.. we made out alot and he felt me up and what not. meanwhile he still had a girlfriend. they broke up back in june. i asked him when we would go out.. and guess what,he didnt want a girlfriend at the moment. yet he stillwanted to hook up with me and he continued to tell me he loves me. well its almost 2 months later and still nothing has happend. yet he continues to text me and ask to hangout and kiss me. so basically foe the last 10 months ive been letting myself get hurt by waiting around for him. id advise you to not wait around or try and get him to like you more, because honestly i know from expierience that guys with girlfriends that tell other girls they like them are just looking to get as many girls as they want without any consequences. and i also know that being cheated on hurts so incredibly bad and also letting a guy cheat on his gf with you hurts just as bad(im not saying u would do that) but honestly just forget about him for now. if he truely likes you he will break things off with his girlfriend and ask you out. because i waited around and still am waiting it has only caused me pain and now im emotionally attached and letting go wouldbe the hardest thing ive everhad to do. im preparingmyself to let go but that means preparing for depression. ive gone through this before, and its not something you want to fet yourself into.i hope this helped at least a little.best of luck.x message me if you need anything
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reader, Fifteen +, writes (31 July 2009):
well i don't know if this will help but its worth a shot. im 15 years old and theres this guy whos 17. about 10 months ago i developed strong feelings for him. the problem was he had a girlfriend. they broke up and he started dating another girl. i was devistated. but he kept telling me he loved me and we would be together. i believed him and we started hanging out.. we made out alot and he felt me up and what not. meanwhile he still had a girlfriend. they broke up back in june. i asked him when we would go out.. and guess what,he didnt want a girlfriend at the moment. yet he stillwanted to hook up with me and he continued to tell me he loves me. well its almost 2 months later and still nothing has happend. yet he continues to text me and ask to hangout and kiss me. so basically foe the last 10 months ive been letting myself get hurt by waiting around for him. id advise you to not wait around or try and get him to like you more, because honestly i know from expierience that guys with girlfriends that tell other girls they like them are just looking to get as many girls as they want without any consequences. and i also know that being cheated on hurts so incredibly bad and also letting a guy cheat on his gf with you hurts just as bad(im not saying u would do that) but honestly just forget about him for now. if he truely likes you he will break things off with his girlfriend and ask you out. because i waited around and still am waiting it has only caused me pain and now im emotionally attached and letting go wouldbe the hardest thing ive everhad to do. im preparingmyself to let go but that means preparing for depression. ive gone through this before, and its not something you want to fet yourself into.i hope this helped at least a little.best of luck.x message me if you need anything
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reader, kez411 +, writes (31 July 2009):
 3 years older!! thats not a big gap at allso firstly you are not a slut...!and secondly if this boy likes you sooo much y has he not finished with his girlfriend!my ex and i went outfo 9 months and for 3 of those months he told a girl that he liked her and that he had dumped me for her, but he hadnt and when she found out, both of us where very hurt....what im trying to say is be sure that if he does ask yu out tha he is completly single and he has a girlfriend so there is not much not that u can do... but if heliked you and wanted you... hed be with you!!xxx
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