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writes:hey im a girl and im a virgin. never even used tampons. i want to but im scared i'll faint cause i read that somewhere. im so afraid of passing out! so any pointers on inserting tampons? also how do i masturbate? like what do i do? what feels really good? possibe orgasm?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): its easy enough just stick it in.i wasnt nervous when i started periods i just got a tampon and shoved it in.but then again nothing makes me nervous so hey.as a hint try using applicator tampons they are better.
on the masturbation side try a vibrator.they work wonders.or if you cant get hold of one just rub your clitoris.or finger yourself the possibilities are endless.experiment!
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reader, Jodie Louise Grigg  +, writes (30 July 2009):
I remember the first time i used a tampon, i was a virgin too and scared myself. The best type of tampon to use is Tampax, they come with an easy, silky insert applicator, all you need to do is open your legs wide and relax and not worry too much. Yes you can faint, but this is called TSS (toxic shock syndrome) and is caused by not changing your tampon regularly, so you need not to worry. Tampons are easy after the first use, just relax so the muscles don't tense and you'll be fine. Same with taking out, relax and just gently pull the cord until it slide out. Masturbation is completely normal for us girls, by yourself some toys and really fantasise sexually. Rub your clitorus and finger yourself at the same time. Make yourself wet. And use a vibrator. An orgasm made through masturbating yourself is completely different to one made through sex, but their all good :). You just have to find your own certain way of pleasuring yourself. Hope this helps!
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reader, Bee1992 +, writes (29 July 2009):
Everyone is nervous about using tampons at first but when you do you will find that they are soooo mutch better than using pad. It may feel abit uncomfortable at first but after that oyu carnt even feel them. Just simply part you leg and squat down the push the tampon inside youself if it feel to low down just take it out and ty again it may take a couple of attemps at first but dont worry you carnt loose you virginity to a tampon and you dont have to worry about the tampon getting stuck there is no where for it to go so you will get it out.
Hope this Helps you
Bee=]
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reader, athenas +, writes (4 July 2009):
Well your a virgin so it might hurt n plus loose ur virginity to a tampon lol my cousin did dat while being a virgin n she said dat it hurt a little but if ur down go for it. I use Tampax those have like a grip for ur fingers that way when ur inserting the tampon you know when to stop. so squat down a little bit and just insert the tampon once its in not completly remember theres another little peace that u have to push in onse u did that pull the carton n u should leave the string hanging dont go to sleep with tampons its best if u use a pad at night.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): Easiest way to insert a tampon: squat down and bend your knees kind of like you're getting ready to jump really high, then guide the tampon slowly aiming upwards and back. It doesn't go straight up or straight back - you'll feel it kind of stop if it's not the right spot. Buy tampons with a rounded tip applicator - its much easier and doesn't hurt. I use tampax pearl - works very well.
You won't pass out from inserting a tampon. Just take your time and go slowly it's not a race.
Masturbating is a personal choice and everyone touches themselves differently. When you're in private you should try to explore your own body and figure out what feels good for you. Try google-ing 'masturbation' maybe you could get some pointers there. It's always smart for a woman to be comfortable with her body, and you'll never learn about what you like if you don't try different things! Good luck!
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reader, Fifteen +, writes (4 July 2009):
Fifteen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): haha hey im a girl/virgin/never used tampons and dont have my period. lol. so i cant really help u on that, but masturbating. people alwayz talk about using vibrators but i mean what 13-15 year old knows how to get those without ur parent knowing? lol. well wat i do, and ive read this on the internet. and ive been doing it for a really realy long time is stack like 3-4 pillows on each other, and like idk but like put ur "area" on top of it, and just hump it. i mean i knowwwwwww it sounds like wtf ru talking about but trust me it works. do it for about 30sec.-1min and u should have this tingly good sensation. idk it might be an orgasm. not sure. but trust me it works :]
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (4 July 2009):
Read the directions that come with the tampon box. As far as your other question, I think that's something you should figure out for yourself. That's what most people do.
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reader, ugh101 +, writes (4 July 2009):
 If you do not change your tampon at least every 8 hours you could get TSS Toxic Shock Syndrome (read the paper in the tampon box). but you should be fine if you change it.
Make sure you have the right absorbency also. Lke start out wiht the light or regular ones.
Aim for your lower back. Itll take a few tries but you will get it.
Good Luck XX
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