I need to leave, but I'm scared.
Q. I have a bf that I've been with 7 months... Egh things aren't that greta I can say. He just doesn't care...he ditches me for being lazy... Its been like that for a long time...in the begining I could've left him for 3 other guys but I stuck with...
A. 10 February 2008: I finally told him. I told him as gentle as I could and he seemed to understand. He told me that he wishes me the best and that I could call him whenever I wanted. Then towards the end he just started trying to make me feel bad. But I und... (read in full...)
The guy I'm seeing has been gone for a week, but now he's back in town...and he hasn't called me! What should I say and do?
Q. i started seeing this guy i dont know exactly what it is about him that made me like him a lot. But he's great. i dont know what's been wrong with everything lately. like, i've always given the guy space whenever he needed it. i guess i've always b...
A. 29 September 2007: Well the last time I checked we've been seeing each other for a month.
I think I know if I am or not.... (read in full...)
I have a problem when it comes to trusting people due to past relationships. Any idea of how I can deal with this?
Q. I don't understand. I am an honest, nice, dependable, loyal person but yet I keep meeting these men who manipulate me and seem to take advantage. They gain my trust then lie or cheat and thankfully I usually catch it early on before it goes to ...
A. 18 June 2007: Eeek! Oh man...
Don't worry its not you at all! Most men are like this...
Its natùral to have trùst issùes with people but don't let that bring you down to your next relationship. Don't bring baggage...just start everything new.
Be positive... ... (read in full...)
I feel that I need some commitment from him but don't know where to start in talking to him about it. Help!
Q. hi I really need some help To bring you up to date been seeing my great bf for 1 year He is my first bf I'm 23 Started long distance but he now works close to me (not because of me Just where his job sent him)I hate it when he goes away and cr...
A. 18 June 2007: Well...its very difficùlt.
He seems to be in a bad state.
I'm sure he's thinking of you but you need to tell him that if there is anything wrong...he could tell you. Tell him that you see that he's miserable so it affects your mood.
About a... (read in full...)
I want him in my life, but I want to get over him..HELP!!
Q. I recently mentioned about not being able to stop thinking about my ex and was wondering what is the best way to try and get over him and move on with my life, without completely cutting him out of it because I still want him to be part of my life. ...
A. 18 June 2007: Well, I know from personal experience that having your ex in your life after all the things you two went through is extremely difficùlt. When they linger about...you tend not to move on & you suffer in the long rùn...you need to realize that ... (read in full...)
Does he love me or not? I'm confused!!!
Q. I loved one boy and he said me that he dont love me.Now after 9 months we are best friends.I find out that I still love him.I didnt tell him.But few days ago he told me that he loves me on very romantic place and on very romantic way.We were holding ...
A. 18 June 2007: Sit him down...
Have a one on one talk.
& ask him exactly what's going on.
Tell him to tell you the straight truth...no jokes...no lies.
Do the right thing, love.
... (read in full...)
Absolutly head over heels for my girl, but I know she's been cheating. What should I do?
Q. Ladies any advice will do. Well here it goes well i'm a male in my 20's who for the last 2 years have been in a realanship on and OFF. I'm madly in luv with this girl, the problem is that she walks in and out of my life 4 the last two years. I know ...
A. 18 June 2007: Well....I know that you love her but think about yourself for a minùte...
Do you want to be happy the rest of your life?
You say it makes you happy when you're with her?
Seems to me you are still miserable with her...
Here you are bùsting your... (read in full...)
I still hold something in my heart for my old fling.
Q. I'm sitting here in this party....its pretty lame. Yoù know I've been thinking aboùt how I'm feeling. I gùess I've noticed that for some reason I still hold something in my heart for my old fling. And I gùess also that I don't know exactly how I'm ...
A. 30 April 2007: I'm not sùre exactly what I want...I feel two ways. I want to forget him if there's no hope at all. And I want to be with him and be happy having a relationship. Bùt I'm stirred into both ways and they both seem to make sense to me so I'm split in ... (read in full...)
He said he loved me but I didn't reply as I'm not sure about him! What should I do?
Q. So my old fling and I have been hanging out...and I'm willing to admit that I still have feelings for him bùt I'm not sure about him...one of the times that I took him home...he told me he loved me. I didn't tell him anything...I just said goodbye. ...
A. 11 April 2007: I don't love him...bùt I'm jùst confùsed aboùt everything. He gives me mixed hints and ùgh...I don't know what he feels exactly. And I don't want to make a move ùnless I'm sùre aboùt my own feelings.... (read in full...)
My ex is upset, my friend is upset, how do I fix things?
Q. So, me and my ex were texting each other...things were going great...we were joking around and then he said, "hey, well my sister told me that she found out that I fingered you." And then I freaked out because his sister is my friend...and now ...
A. 31 March 2007: Me and my ex started talking again...
Everything seems to be okay.
We're closer than ever...
And now...I think I'm okay.
I still have that strange feeling when I'm with him.
I dunno...just when you know they're thinking of something. That sort... (read in full...)
Will this feeling of missing her disappear ? it was only 2 weeks ago we split!
Q. Hi. My ex and i broke up 2 weeks ago after a 3 year relationship. It was a mutual decision to split and we both feel we did the right thing. The problem is that i spoke to and saw her for the first time today since we split and I started to get the ...
A. 2 March 2007: dont worry.
the feeling will fade.
time.
how cruel...i know but it will fade.
just hang on there.
keep your head up high.
do something in your spear time.
read a book.
go out with friends.
just keep your mind occupied.... (read in full...)
He is right for me in everyway but I don't want to have sex with him! Will this come in time?
Q. I have the most wonderful male friend who is right for me in everyway. I know he would love to take things further but for me, there is no sexual spark which is very important to me. Does it come in time or this destined to be only friends? I ...
A. 2 March 2007: its not about the sex.
as soon as you start having sincere feelings for eachother it shouldn't be a problem.
dont think about the sex...it doesn't make a relationship.... (read in full...)
I need to put him out of my mind! How can I get over him?
Q. to make a long story short, i like this guy, however i know he's bad for me (for a string of reasons, and believe me they're valid) so im trying to get over him. we never had a relationship, but have admitted to having feelings and caring about each ...
A. 2 March 2007: you need to stop looking at all the good things about him and look at his flaws. learn to WANT to not have him around. you dont seem very enthusiastic about getting over him. either that or just shut him off completely from your world...it works. ... (read in full...)
He said he was confused, that I deserved better, he's not worth it. Should I wait till he gets his mind together?
Q. Alright...I started feeling a little itch. This weird feeling came over me one day when we were together. It was doubt. I mean not from my own feelings but from him. I don't know why but I did. The next few days I began to think and think about the ...
A. 1 March 2007: Today we were texting each other and I asked him how he was doing...he said, "Here and there. Bored. How about you?" I said, "Here and there. Gears of war and things you wouldn't care about." He said, "Like what?" I said, "Nah nah, it wo... (read in full...)
He's dating the girl he cheated on me with. I just ignore them and act happy--is this best thing to do?
Q. Well, lately I've been thinking about things. I recently split with my bf and things ended bitter. He cheated on me and what not and he's done things to me that I've always been quiet about and I never told him that it bothered me. I felt I was ...
A. 19 January 2007: Okay, here is what happened recently. I was in class and my cast was helping me put up my set for my play. My ex called over my friend. I was busy putting things up and then my friend comes to me and tell me "he wants to know if we're gonna have ... (read in full...)
He's dating the girl he cheated on me with. I just ignore them and act happy--is this best thing to do?
Q. Well, lately I've been thinking about things. I recently split with my bf and things ended bitter. He cheated on me and what not and he's done things to me that I've always been quiet about and I never told him that it bothered me. I felt I was ...
A. 15 January 2007: I hope ur right.
I guess I miss that feeling when a guy hugs you and you with the world could stop and u could be there an eternity.... (read in full...)
He's dating the girl he cheated on me with. I just ignore them and act happy--is this best thing to do?
Q. Well, lately I've been thinking about things. I recently split with my bf and things ended bitter. He cheated on me and what not and he's done things to me that I've always been quiet about and I never told him that it bothered me. I felt I was ...
A. 14 January 2007: Thank you all. I'm trying so hard to be calm, cool, and collected. I just wish it was easier. But, you see he asked me to marry him and at one point I did love him. It hurt that he no longer loved me. He told me he did when we were split and my ... (read in full...)
I want to let him down easy when breaking up. How do I o this?
Q. I'm 14 and i've been dating this guy for a few weeks now, and when we first started going out i thought i realli liked him and i thought it was going to last, but i've started liking other boys and flirting with them behind is back (not doing ...
A. 8 January 2007: Tell him that u care about him...
Don't lie to him....do not lie! That is the worse thing to do! Tell him that u don't feel the same like u use to but he can always find a friend in u no matter what...tell him its not his fault...it just turned out ... (read in full...)
He isn't being straight about his feelings towards me - what's going on?
Q. So, i got dumped 8 months ago, he said he didnt know what he wanted. then came back to me took me out planned to go on holiday then i got rid of him ( fedup of not knowing where i stood) he then went back to his ex, went on holiday with her. Then...
A. 8 January 2007: ask him if his feelings for you are genuine...
but, sounds to me like he still doesn't know what he wants...
dont waste your time with someone like that...
they aren't worth your time...egh...go out...meet new people.... (read in full...)
He keeps playing games with me...why can't he leave me alone?
Q. Please help! My boyfried of 6 months dumped me without any warning or explanation....6 months ago. I was madly in love with him and really thought he felt the same way. Anyway, we recently got back in touch...we met up, and whilst I was trying ...
A. 8 January 2007: what is it really that you want out of this?
you still have feelings for him?
ask yourself whether you're happy when he's breaking your heart...
no man is worth your thoughts...
nothing will be the same when you guys get back together.
but i... (read in full...)
I hate being compared to his ex! What should I do?
Q. dear cupid, i always ask about my boyfriend's ex, but he can't even tell anything about what they've gone through and they were together for 1 yr. and 3 months. did he even love her? all he says is that she's really pretty she looks like this one...
A. 8 January 2007: so in other words you want him to lie to you? he doesn't want to talk about his ex! period! if you dont want to hear about her, then dont ask...simple as that!...if you saw her and she isn't as pretty as you or whatever then...you should feel better ... (read in full...)
Went to the store-came home and caught my bf with porn! Is this a problem?
Q. i sure can use some advice. I went to the store early morning and told my boyfriend of 6 years i would be back in an hour. i got to the store and realized i forgot my coupons. ran back home and there was my boyfriend in the middle of the living ...
A. 8 January 2007: dang...that's a scene that i would never want to see.
well think about it...is it really that big of a deal? i mean, men are horny...and he was probably shamed of his porn and that is probably why he didn't tell you. dont worry about it, at leas... (read in full...)
Im only 13 and watching porn sites. Is this normal?
Q. I need some help. I've been looking at porn sites, but i'm only 13. i do it almost everyday, but a few weeks ago i stopped. Just last week i' starting to view them again. is this normal?...
A. 8 January 2007: dont worry about it...
its normal...
just try not to get in trouble.
be careful on the internet.
there are some weirdos out there...
teehee...... (read in full...)
How can you forget somebody you love?
Q. I split from my ex because I was constantly cheated on and lied to. She slept with a guy over 100 times over the space of 6 months. I finished her many times, only to take her back about 90 times. I felt like I needed her in my life, because there ...
A. 8 January 2007: dont take her back.
she doesn't feel the same way that you feel about her and why should you care for someone that can hurt you soo much. i mean, i know you feel you still love her but think about your own happiness. cool off, take time for your... (read in full...)
Walked in on my boyfriend bashing the bishop...
Q. I went into the room that my bf was at and caught him masterbating. He had pictures taped on the wall, all of them with blonde hair. (his ex gf has blonde hair) He got upset with me, like I was interupting him!! I went out of there real fast. Was ...
A. 8 January 2007: he overreacted and he just felt embarrised...egh, dont worry its nothing to dwell on. i dont think he was thinking of her...just bc the pic of the chick was blonde doesn't mean that it was his ex...dont worry...its nothing too big.... (read in full...)
Someone in my family is watching animal porn. Is there something wrong with him?
Q. Should I be concerned if someone in my family is watching animal porn? Is there something wrong with him or is there a reason why they like to watch that? It makes me feel sick about it, but i'm not sure what i'm supposed to think about that. ...
A. 8 January 2007: i dont think you should tell him anything...
everyone to thenselves...
its creepy, i admit.
and i would stay clear away as possible...
well think about it in this way.
they surely wont be bugging you.
and poor person to who is in fancy with... ... (read in full...)
I'm a 15 year old virgin and he's 20. Should I give up my virginity to him to make this relationship better?
Q. i am only 15 years old and my boy friend is 20 years old i now this relationship is not good..i say this because of the age. well my question is should i give up my virginity to him? i am scared to end up pregnet.but i cant control my orgasums no ...
A. 8 January 2007: you dont have to have sex to keep a man. and dont feel the pressure to. when you're ready you are ready...dont speed things up. believe me, it will ruin the relationship.... (read in full...)
He lies continuously and cheats on me. Why do I put up with this?
Q. I have been involved with a man for 7 years. When we met i was 21 and he was 35, married with 3 kids.(he did get divorced), supposedly for me. over the years he has lied and cheated, yet he says that i am the only one he really loves and would ...
A. 8 January 2007: He's a liar and full of grade-a crap! blow him off! he's not worth your thoughts or anything for that matter...yes, you might say that you love him right now but, think about it, what's better? sit at home and mourn about it? or go on with your ... (read in full...)
I don't like sex, but he's pushing me even though i'm ill. What can I do?
Q. Hi, My Husband says that if i don't sleep with him, then i don't love him. I don't like sex, but he does get at least twice a week. i also recently had a back operation which makes things a bit difficult, but he doesn't see it that way. If i am sick ...
A. 8 January 2007: hmm...well comfront him about it. if he doesn't understand then that's his problem. he obviously doesn't respect you. tell him to make a hole in the wall and deal with that. jeez. just make sure not to give in to his little games.... (read in full...)
Some advice for a virgin please!
Q. Hi me and my girlfriend tried to have sex a couple of days ago but i couldnt get it in .... are the any positions that will help us two virgins?...
A. 8 January 2007: you're too nervous! relax and make sure that you know that you want this. you can put it in however you are positioned...just relax.... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and never had sex! I want it so what do I have to do?
Q. Ok here's the deal I'm nearly 19 and I've still never had sex with a guy or even had oral. I know loads of you are gonna give me rubbish bout not popping my cherry with anyone and how special it is and how normal I am but no offence I really don't ...
A. 8 January 2007: ask urself how much you really want to have sex? i mean, honestly its not that big of a deal...dont get me wrong sex is amazing as long as u share it with someone that is speacial to you...not just some random guy, get some dignity. my solution is ... (read in full...)
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