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writes: i sure can use some advice. I went to the store early morning and told my boyfriend of 6 years i would be back in an hour. i got to the store and realized i forgot my coupons. ran back home and there was my boyfriend in the middle of the living room. p*rn in a dvd on the tv and magazines all around him of p*rn. i am beside myself and can't get this picture out of my mind. is this common for people to do? it seems like he was just waiting for me to leave. is this a problem or natural?
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reader, fairhalflin  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 dang...that's a scene that i would never want to see.
well think about it...is it really that big of a deal? i mean, men are horny...and he was probably shamed of his porn and that is probably why he didn't tell you. dont worry about it, at least he's not out there doing something else. if i were you i would make fun of him...egh, dont let it bother you...its not such a big deal. laugh about it...and make sure he knows its all in good humor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2007): if i was you and i walked in and seen that, i would have left him on the spot. if i ever see my bf looking at any porn, even if he is not gettin off to it, i would still leave him, as its cheating. and yes he did wait for you too leave, because he is ashamed. if he had nothing to hide or was not ashemed then he would do it infront of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2006): You and your boyfriend get to decide if it is a problem or not.
In the end, it comes down to if it is something you can tolerate or accept.
Those two words will depend on how you think, feel and what you, after discussion and reflection believe to be the right decision.
Trust in yourself and understand the whys of you.
Best of Wishes and Happy New Years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2006): Wow, the whole scene you described just happened to me yesterday. I went to the store and came bk to drop something off before going bk to wk, my bf was in the living room watching pron at 2 in the afternoon. I didnt say anything but when I got bk to wk I called and told him to get one off for me too. I rather make humor of it instead of feeling awkward. We watch it together and we have an understanding that we watch porn even when the other is not hm. I think that you shld watch it together so he doesnt feel he has to sneak and watch when you are gone, its more fun that way any way. good luck and have fun
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