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writes: Hi, My Husband says that if i don't sleep with him, then i don't love him. I don't like sex, but he does get at least twice a week. i also recently had a back operation which makes things a bit difficult, but he doesn't see it that way. If i am sick in any way then he says that i am making excuses, which i am not. He also comes extremely quick. What is the problem and what do i do about it? My marriage is on the rocks. Reply to this Question
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reader, fairhalflin  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 hmm...well comfront him about it. if he doesn't understand then that's his problem. he obviously doesn't respect you. tell him to make a hole in the wall and deal with that. jeez. just make sure not to give in to his little games.
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reader, I can solve any problem +, writes (5 January 2007):
He's bang out of order no means no and if he loves you he should understand and could go without and find a way to show you love eachother in a different way don't give in to him if you dont want to then dont if you keep giving in he'l never stop because he KNOWS you'l give in tell him hoe you feel and make your reasons and issues clear
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reader, lena +, writes (4 January 2007):
 this is emotional black mail. don't let him say things like this. tell him of you loved me you would let me get better and stop obsessing about sex. tell him to wait or if he can't get out and find a prostitute and tell him not to come back. it may be hard for you to do this but its better than being in a bad marriage
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): Tell him to back off and get himself a blow up doll!!! Don't be forced or bullied into this, he has to respect your wishes. You probably need to find someone who loves you for you and not just for the sex.
take care
xx
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (4 January 2007):
 It sounds like he treats you as an orifice. Find someone that respects you. Your husband obviously doesn't.
Good luck.
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