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writes: Hi me and my girlfriend tried to have sex a couple of days ago but i couldnt get it in .... are the any positions that will help us two virgins? Reply to this Question
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reader, lola manola  +, writes (4 February 2007):
 relax relax relax! harder than it sounds, keep trying and maybe use lube? be careful though some lube doesnt work with condoms so dont go using cooking oil or anything! dont set a date for sex just do it when ure both horny enough. xxx
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reader, ebonyrose  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 It just sounds that ur both nervous and to tell you the truth everyone is their first few times. Any position will do you might find ur girlfriend will relax more if its in the missionary position with you on top. I would suggest plenty foreplay to get u both relaxed also try putting ur fingers up inside ur girlfriend and playing with her plenty of lub should do the trick. Just remember if ur girlfriend says its sore stop and go back to foreplay to relax her again. Most of all it might ease the nerves a bit if u talk bout contraceptives. She might want to go on the pill but i would recommend u also use a condom too. Good luck and have fun.
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reader, fairhalflin  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 you're too nervous! relax and make sure that you know that you want this. you can put it in however you are positioned...just relax.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (7 January 2007):
 You need to both be relaxed and make sure this is what you both want, first of all. Think about contraception as well. Once these things are considered, you can get down to what matters!
One of you on top is probably the best place to start. Get some lubricant to make sure there's enough moisture. Play with her for a while to make sure she's relaxed and physically ready to have you enter her. With one of you on top, you can see better. It doesn't have to be like it is in the movies, you can talk and help each other and say where everything goes etc!
Just relax and go slow, make sure you let each other know if it's hurting or whatever. She could help you enter her by opening the lips of her vagina. As I've said, it's gonna be clumsy and exciting but relax and enjoy this special time!
Just keep trying, it can happen at first if you're both nervous. Just remember not to be embarressed to communicate and help each other. It's both of your first time remember!
Good luck
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