Am I in the wrong for getting upset over my girlfriend chatting to men late into the night?
Q. Hey everyone, I could REALLY use your independent opinions on a big issue I'm having with my GF! Help! Now, either I am nuts and the problem's all mine, or she's not treating me right! Please help me figure this out! We've been going out for...
A. 23 January 2010: Update: I talked to her about this again last night. I told her exactly how much I hated the fact she is chatting with other guys when we aren't together...her response? "It's not all guys!" (Okay...90% then!) I told her I _MAY_ be able t... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for getting upset over my girlfriend chatting to men late into the night?
Q. Hey everyone, I could REALLY use your independent opinions on a big issue I'm having with my GF! Help! Now, either I am nuts and the problem's all mine, or she's not treating me right! Please help me figure this out! We've been going out for...
A. 21 January 2010: I've gotta say, all of your responses have reassured me that I'm not being unreasonable. Other than this issue, things have been wonderful with her! But...god, it's just not worth the aggravation!...
She doesn't want me...She wants to have her... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for getting upset over my girlfriend chatting to men late into the night?
Q. Hey everyone, I could REALLY use your independent opinions on a big issue I'm having with my GF! Help! Now, either I am nuts and the problem's all mine, or she's not treating me right! Please help me figure this out! We've been going out for...
A. 21 January 2010: Thanks sarcy24.
"She probably sees it as harmless fun but if it is upsetting and hurting you then she needs to look at it again and re-evaluate if she wants a real relationship or a pretend online one." --- She seems completely oblivious to how t... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for getting upset over my girlfriend chatting to men late into the night?
Q. Hey everyone, I could REALLY use your independent opinions on a big issue I'm having with my GF! Help! Now, either I am nuts and the problem's all mine, or she's not treating me right! Please help me figure this out! We've been going out for...
A. 21 January 2010: Thanks Hunter99.
"that is just another way for one side of the party to get what they want through guilt."...is EXACTLY how I feel...... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for getting upset over my girlfriend chatting to men late into the night?
Q. Hey everyone, I could REALLY use your independent opinions on a big issue I'm having with my GF! Help! Now, either I am nuts and the problem's all mine, or she's not treating me right! Please help me figure this out! We've been going out for...
A. 21 January 2010: Thanks CaringGuy.
The thing is: she says that if I DO question her about it again, then it proves that I don't love her and she'll leave...I can't win! I really feel like I'm being played...... (read in full...)
How do I know my boyfriend wont break up with me again for the same reason?
Q. My bf's friends dont like me and they treat me like crap. I am not 100% sure why they dont like me, Ive never been mean to them or anything. I think its just they see me as a stereotypical "nerd" who is boring etc and a "goody goody" because I am a ...
A. 20 January 2010: Hey there, anonymous I feel your pain! Unfortunately, there's no way to know or prevent someone from breaking up with you! People break up perfectly decent relationships for the DUMBEST reasons! You just have to decide, for yourself, whether yo... (read in full...)
I have proof she was cheating, but she still denies everything
Q. what if you're you been a girl for with a year now, and she thought she could be slick and have a side relationship with a another guy, but when you caught her and even gave her sure proof, she denies it. Even when u have proof of them flirting...
A. 20 January 2010: Oh man! I knew there was someone out there in the position as me! Thank you for your post! The situation with my GF is exactly the same! I have the emails/chat logs of her conversations with her "friend"...complete and utter BS! 'blackc', you s... (read in full...)
Don't fall for me because I don't want you to get hurt... wtf???
Q. the guy i been with for the last four months comes to my house ever weekend and sleeps over he gets along with my family really good and enjoys being here, he makes me smile and treats me good but one day we were talking about our feelings he said ...
A. 20 January 2010: Hey anonymous, I'm really glad you posted this question, because my GF has been telling me similar things: She "loves me now and that's enough" (wtf), she's "only living in the present"... She even said "If I don't feel your love, I may just have to ... (read in full...)
Her flirting with another man has got me REALLY angry. What do I do?
Q. Me and my girl have been dating for year and a half now, and she recently started a new job 3 months ago. But the past week shes been acting a little strange. Few days ago she had a problem with her phone,so i said let me try fix it,she said no ...
A. 19 January 2010: I second that motion!: Dump her!!!
Nobody needs that aggravation!... (read in full...)
His looking at porn could be a big problem for me, especially as he lies about it...
Q. My husband likes to look at porn. I don't mind as long as he is truthful about it and offers to include me sometimes. No it's not my favorite thing to do, but I love him and if it's something he likes then why make a fight of it so long as he is ...
A. 19 January 2010: "don't let it bother you" is a little easier said than done...! But if you can do that great!
"No it's not my favorite thing to do, but I love him and if it's something he likes then why make a fight of it so long as he is honest" what's so bad a... (read in full...)
Husbands dirty secret
Q. This morning my husband left for a business trip. He forgot to close out a hidden folder on our computer. I have never seen this folder. It was like I entered into a shrine of women...from porn, pics of famous women, to random naked girls......
A. 19 January 2010: Yeah, that sounds a little freaky...
But, there are porn sites that specialize one public pics...are you sure HE took those pictures? They could just be porn from one of those sites...
If they DO turn out to be taken by him...then YES, I would... (read in full...)
How do I let her go?
Q. I found a woman that I thought was the woman of my dreams. She seemed to fill every need I had as far as relationships go. She made me want to be a better person in all aspects of my life, personally, professionally, spiritually, etc. I was/ am ...
A. 18 January 2010: Wow! What a B----!!!
Man...Yes! Cut all contact off with her first...She doesn't deserve your friendship!
Dollars to donuts she'll regret her little game in the long run!!!!... (read in full...)
Guys, how do I get him not to pass out after an orgasm?
Q. My boyfriend and i have sex quite a bit, and it's usually at night because that's when we're with each other. I'm a night owl, and he stays up late, but not as late as i do. Oftentimes, he'll orgasm and be very tired and just want to crash ...
A. 18 January 2010: You said it CaringGuy!: "If he continues to sleep after that, then make sure he works really hard before you give him an orgasm."
I always make sure I give my honey at least one orgasm before I allow myself to...for some(most?) women it energize... (read in full...)
How to keep a relationship going
Q. a relationship is very important you dont want to loose it over something simple or small to keep a relationship going you need to do a few things always remember ur loved ones birthday and celebrate it in a special way always keep good coversations ...
A. 17 January 2010: I recently discovered the power of withholding my gut reaction to the little issues that pop up now and then...No matter how many times you've heard something from your mate, you'll be surprised at how much you've missed! Take the time to just ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't do anything for himself!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, I am now 21. He doesn't do anything for himself or me. He had a crazy past, being homeless etc. What should I do? Should I stick by him or leave? I'm really confused. I haven't been with anyone else....
A. 15 November 2009: Six years of doing nothing?!!!
That is WAY about the call of duty as a girlfriend! Dump his a--! This is ridiculous! What is it that you're confused about? Fine, so he had a crazy past...well, what's he doing now to better himself? Nothing?!
If ... (read in full...)
I'm 28, he's 43. He wants to have kids now, I don't. Any ideas to work it out?
Q. I'm 28, been married for 3 years, total of 5 years in this relationship. My partner is 43 and wants to start a family, have kids. I want to have kids with him, but I don’t feel ready to do it right now. I understand that cause of his age and all, ...
A. 15 November 2009: Heck no! That's not too inflexible! While it would have been much better to have this conversation BEFORE you got married, it's not too late for either of you!
Think of it this way: 50 is a full 15 years before the usual retirement age! Does he ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said no more sex...?
Q. I am 15 and my girlfriend is 14. We have been going out for two months and have done everything but sex. Yesterday was our two month anniversary and we were just about to have sex, but her dad came home. So i got a handjob under the blankets ...
A. 15 November 2009: Aunty Bimbim is right on: you have to respect her wishes. She showed a lot of class and self-respect by choosing to "slow down", so be a gent (if you really care for her) and accept her decision...
This is your first step in learning to respect ... (read in full...)
I think I love him and I think he likes me back. I want to have sex... but will it fit?
Q. I have a couple questions. my first question is that I have know this boy since i was 2 years old and i always thought of us as just friends and now i think i love him. I am 14 and he is almost 17. I think he likes me back but i just dont know wat...
A. 14 November 2009: Great response q1605!!! I totally had to LOL! But seriously, anonymous, take the time to learn just who YOU are as a person first! For goodness' sake, don't mess up your (and possibly his) life by wanting so much, so soon! You're just asking for ... (read in full...)
Ever since we got really drunk one night and had sex, he'!s been acting weird
Q. So my best guy friend and I got really drunk and had sex one night. He doesn't remember a thing, but ever since then he's been acting weird. Before I go any further I think I should give some background information: Before the sex, we were a...
A. 14 November 2009: tux is right: sex changes things! Unfortunately it isn't always easy to make the change from best friends to sexual intimacy. Obviously he's having problems making adjustments to how he views your relationship with him... I wouldn't be too ... (read in full...)
He's moving away for school, can this work?
Q. heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our friends ...
A. 7 November 2009: Just my two cents, but I think, at 16, you're still too young to know about love. Now is not the time to be tying yourself into an LDR...You still have so much growing to do, and so many experiences to enjoy, it really doesn't make sense to "wait ... (read in full...)
Do you think I'll ever get a boyfriend?
Q. Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf?...
A. 7 November 2009: Xoxokatie: More than body size/shape, you should just work on being/becoming the best person you can be. Be true to your personal values, think about what you like about other people, what you value in a friend, etc. and try to be that way! If you... (read in full...)
Losing interest in an LDR?
Q. Hey everyone, I'm in a LDR right now and i have been for about 3 months now. I love her, a lot, but i only get to see her about 2 times a month. I feel like im losing interest but i think it's just a feeling of not being able to be with her. I d...
A. 7 November 2009: Hey man, I truly feel your pain! I'm going through exactly the same thing, although I'm working on month 8 of my LDR...it's painful! No doubt about it! I am committed to bearing this out for another 4 months, but after a year, if I feel this sam... (read in full...)
How do you socialize and make friends? I feel hopeless.
Q. I guess I don't understand - how do you socialize with people and make friends? It feels impossible. People don't want to be your friend, they've already got enough. They don't want to take a risk on you - you could be crazy or dangerous and they're ...
A. 4 November 2009: I feel for you, man....no I feel WITH you! I've always had a similar problem making friends because the way I think it very different from your average Joe...! But maybe you're not like me: the main thing you have to do is just do the thing(s) you ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife the truth that I don't find her sexy unless she is slim?
Q. Hi all. First time poster. I've been with my wife for 10 years and we have been married for 4 years and I love her very much. She is my best friend and we get along really well. Sure we have the odd argument but we normally talk things through ...
A. 3 November 2009: That is freakin' awesome OP!
Good for you two!... (read in full...)
Help, my parents wont give me any freedom. What can I do?
Q. My parent's wont give me any freedom. Im 16 and Im getting my license in a year which means I have to rely on my parents to drive me places the problem is they wont let me go anywhere without them. I can't go to the mall alone. I can't go to the ...
A. 3 November 2009: Listen to what people are saying here, you're getting great advice! I know it might sound like a load of crap to you at your age, but I swear on my life that it's not! You are lucky to have parents that try to look out for you. The key to your ... (read in full...)
I want my girlfriend to try new things to spice things up!
Q. My wife doesn't like: anal sex (tried once too painful), deep throating, facials or cum swallowing (the last three only on rare occasions, very rare. I don't need her to compromise and do them all, all the time, but wouldn't it be fair for her ...
A. 3 November 2009: Other good things to try might be blindfolds/masks, or tying her up (softly, not too tight)! My gf LOVES that!... (read in full...)
He criticizes my weight and I feel very unloved...how do I get him to stop?
Q. I really need advice on my marriage. I have been married 6 years and am at my breaking point. My husband has gotton to the point that I get tense just being around him. He is constantly criticizing me about my weight (I weigh 112 pounds and have ...
A. 2 November 2009: LISTEN to these women who have replied: you need to get away from this loser! From a man's perspective, there is NO EXCUSE for his behavior! He doesn't love you, so why would you stay?
If you're concerned about supporting your child with only a p... (read in full...)
I asked why she wanted to marry me and she couldn't answer
Q. should i be concern my girlfriend get alone well because i adapt to people well but we are not really compatible and she spend all her time looking at wedding sites,venues shows etc... iask her why she wanted to marry me couldn't really answer....
A. 1 November 2009: I would be concerned, yes. You say you two are "not really compatible" but that you "adapt to people well"...I worry though: do you really want to have to "adapt" for the rest of your life...even though you're not compatible?!.... I would really... (read in full...)
Is there any way of making a threesome comfortable for all involved?
Q. About a year ago I was with a girl, and one night we almost had a threesome with one of my best friends (male), that I wasn't particularly comfortable with. Just after we'd got things started off we were interrupted by a couple of friends having a ...
A. 30 August 2009: Easy: find two other people who are into threesomes! What you can't do, however, is talk someone into it if that's not his/her thing...... (read in full...)
I love my husband but our sex life is dull! Can I really last a lifetime of this?
Q. Me and my husband have been married for just over a year and have been together since we were 16. We were each others firsts and used to really ennjoy sex. However, recently (past 4-5 months) I have found that our sex life is almost non existant. My ...
A. 30 August 2009: Great advice from "softtouchmale2003"! You deserve that level of intimacy! All I want to add is to note that your husband avoided your question by turning it around on you. Don't let him get away with that, as his wife you deserve a decent answer to ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife the truth that I don't find her sexy unless she is slim?
Q. Hi all. First time poster. I've been with my wife for 10 years and we have been married for 4 years and I love her very much. She is my best friend and we get along really well. Sure we have the odd argument but we normally talk things through ...
A. 30 August 2009: You should be able to be open with her about this, however, you must make certain that you broach the issue in a non-judgmental sort of way! You can even do it in reverse by telling her that YOU have weight that you want to lose and ask her to join ... (read in full...)
Both were drunk and couldn't keep it going, was that being "whiskey drunk'?
Q. ok so im an 18 yr old female, the last 2 guys ive had sex with, ive only slept with once each, with both guys in both situations we had been friends with a little bit more going on, both times the guys were drunk but i wasnt. both of them during ...
A. 30 August 2009: It may just be a coincidence: too much alchohol can do that to a guy. Were they both really, really drunk? Or just a few drinks? All I know is that, for me, with a few drinks, I can go all night! But with too many drinks, I'm useless...so it's ... (read in full...)
She won't go to a hotel to have sex because she says its "dirty"
Q. Hello, I have been dating my gf for close to 2yrs. The first six months we had great sex. However we stopped for a while since her mom started staying home and we had no place to have sex. We love each other very much and we often talk about ...
A. 30 August 2009: I agree with Gina that "you both need to talk more in greater depth about this issue" because it sounds like she's just not that interested in sex(which, by the way, doesn't mean she's not interested in you), different people have different sex ... (read in full...)
How do I know I"m not in the relationship just for sex?
Q. hey guy simple question but might have a complicated answer. how do i know im not just in a relationship for sex? im a 17 year old male andim just wondering how i could know if im not just in a relationship subconsciously just for sex, i r...
A. 30 August 2009: Ah! To be 17 again!
But seriously, at 17, you are just getting started learning about yourself and about having a relationship. But you might just ask yourself this question:
What do I like to do with this girl/woman when we're not having sex? ... (read in full...)
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