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I think I love him and I think he likes me back. I want to have sex... but will it fit?

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Question - (14 November 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2009)
A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have a couple questions.

my first question is that I have know this boy since i was 2 years old and i always thought of us as just friends and now i think i love him. I am 14 and he is almost 17. I think he likes me back but i just dont know wat to tell him

and my second question is that i am ready to have sex but i am scared that he wont fit in me?

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A male reader, old lover Australia +, writes (15 November 2009):

Unless his penis is a foot long you will love the sex. Don't listen to all the old women who are just jelious, have the sex you wont regret it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009):

The night i lost my virginity to the man i loved...i never even wondered if it would fit....this is not love or passion or sponteniety or anything remotely close. this is just about gittin' shagged...and i think you will regret it when someone you actually have strong feelings for comes along. if they have to ask or be asked...the feelings arent there. Im reminded of a guy that came to see my oldest daughter several years ago. He came to our house and never even took her anywhere and bought her a hamburger or a coke or held her hand. As he was leaving she walked out on the porch, he asked..."can i kiss you?"...she said, "umm,..NO"! He said, "ok i didnt really want to anyway." hahahaha the point is you are not even in a relationship with this guy and you are stressing over fit....*sigh* work on the relationship first sweeti. good luck, mal

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A male reader, duce00 United States +, writes (14 November 2009):

duce00 agony auntMr Q does have a very valid point even thought you may have been searching for a view with a little less moral fiber.

The fact is he will fit inside you and you are also physically capable of bearing a child. You are also quite foolish if you think that birth control is 100% percent effective. Take a deep breath and imaging how painful THAT would be in comparison. Abortions scar more than your uterus if you decided to take that route as well.

One thing about the cuffs...he will have to be superman in order for the cops to get them on him because your father will likely try to see if he is faster than a speeding bullit.

Seriously my dear...this is a bad idea and you WILL regret it.

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A male reader, Digiman Japan +, writes (14 November 2009):

Digiman agony auntGreat response q1605!!! I totally had to LOL!

But seriously, anonymous, take the time to learn just who YOU are as a person first! For goodness' sake, don't mess up your (and possibly his) life by wanting so much, so soon! You're just asking for trouble!

I know it's not easy (what with raging hormones and all that), but please, just wait and give your mind a chance to develop until it catches up with your body, okay? It'd be such a waste of potential not to use these growing years to feed your young mind with knowledge!

Best wishes

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A female reader, Sweety123 United States +, writes (14 November 2009):

Sweety123 agony auntI think you should wait if your having doubts and i'm not sure what to say about him fitting except that all guys are different sizes down there.

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