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Should I carry on trying to take things further?

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Question - (5 October 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi. I know this might sound a bit stupid but i am totally unbearablely obsessed with this guy. We don't know each other very well but we have been going to the same hockey club for 1 or 2 years and he's recently started at the same school as me. Everytime I see him I go all weird and jumpy. I just like really really want him. But the problem is I don't think he would want to go out with me, because i feel like he's way out of my league. My friends all say he's not and but they might just be trying not to hurt my feelings. I'm getting paranoid that he's interested in other people and not me. Should I carry on trying to take things further or just give up? I just can't get over him!

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A male reader, xnickx United States +, writes (6 October 2009):

xnickx agony auntAtleast try. Seeing as how i cant see you/dont know you or him, i cant tell you whether he is out of your league or not.

There really is, however, no such thing as "out of your league" with a little perserverance, you can get about any guy to have feelings for you.

Good luck =)

Nick

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A female reader, sunnycomet Canada +, writes (5 October 2009):

sunnycomet agony auntGet to know him and see what he is like. You might realize that he is not the guy you thought he was.

Once you get to know him and become friends you will not be so nervous around him and will have more of idea of who he is interested in.

Good Luck! (He's not out of your league if you will want him and he's interested I'm sure you two will be together in no time.)

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A female reader, countrygal462 United States +, writes (5 October 2009):

countrygal462 agony auntgirl go for it!! talk to him and hang out outside shcool and hockey!! nothing is more hot to guys than girls whose wana hang with them. just always be urself :)

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A female reader, Blod United Kingdom +, writes (5 October 2009):

Blod agony auntCarry on and don't give up. You've said yourself that you're paranoid and your friends are encouraging you. It's just you who believes he's out of your league and the reality is that he probably isn't. Just go for it.

And good luck. X

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (5 October 2009):

No, don't give up!! He's not out of your league at all! You just don't know him yet!! Keep getting to know him!!

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