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writes:Well,I have a guy friend.We were more than friends a couple months ago,but not boyfriend/girlfriend.He doesnt want a commitment,and because of that I figured ill save myself the heartache and just be friends,who do friend things.He insisted on coming over late last night to bring me something.Its not important what that thing was,but ill just say it was very thoughtful of him.Its the first I have seen him since the whole friend category was established.We watched tv for awhile,and the entire time he continues to inch closer to me,finding any excuse to touch me.Not sexually,just a touch on the arm or the back and things like that.And eventually laying his head in my lap two seperate times as if he expected me to cuddle up to him or something...im not even sure.But I kept my hands to myself.Then he takes my hand as if he is trying to hold my hand,which I wouldnt allow.And when he saw that I wasnt having it,he put my hand back in my lap.And a couple minutes later said he was leaving.He seemed a little bothered,but its hard to tell with him.So anyways,he knows why I want to be only friends.Which is because he doesnt desire a relationship,and I do.He knows I have/had feelings for him,and dont want to be that way with him anymore because I dont want to get hurt.So why is he acting this way when he knows the situation? I dont want to lose a friend,but im not going to be wanting to hang out with a friend who keeps pushing the boundries. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): lol women are so thick sometimes..
he's using an excuse to see you so he can try get some action.
I bet he was perfectly fine with just having sex without seeing you as more than that. he wouldve kept that up til maybe he was tired of you at which point he'd just be a friend who is too busy to even have sex.
once he got what he wanted for as long as he wanted it he'd move on.
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reader, countrygal462 +, writes (12 December 2009):
 i know i am young, but i think you need to have another talk with him. ask him why he acted that way even though he knew how you felt. thats rediculous in my opinion. hey, maybe he changed his mind about the relationship. you never know. but yall shood talk :)
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