Is sex supposed to hurt every time?
Q. im 13 and im not a virgin. ive had sex a couple times. i had anal sex with this guy but it only lasted like 3 min. and it didnt feel good at all. i had sex with this other guy where i was on top but i couldnt get his penis to go in though. is my ...
A. 15 July 2010: however maybe as you are both only young he don't know what doing. you should either wait till you're older however you're not going to do that so educate yourself buy a book or two... (read in full...)
Why do nice guys end up last?
Q. Hello ladies, I have a really deep question which I'm having trouble getting the answers. I'm currently 26, and I've had over 30 Relationships failed, I never gave up but I keep asking myself why. My friend (who is a gal) says that I'm "Too Nice", ...
A. 15 July 2010: seriously im a nice guy but i would have punched the guy my girl left me for. Oh and did which ended up with me getting her back because the twisted thing was she was turned on by having guys fight over her. Just a thought... (read in full...)
Do I love him?
Q. i have boyfriend whose 14. im 13 and ive known him for maybe 3 and a half years. ive always liked him and we havnt had sex or anything. i plan to but not now. i have really strong feelings for him. hes all i think about and i want to say i love him ...
A. 15 July 2010: you are in love. Tell him, you have nothing to lose... (read in full...)
Is sex supposed to hurt every time?
Q. im 13 and im not a virgin. ive had sex a couple times. i had anal sex with this guy but it only lasted like 3 min. and it didnt feel good at all. i had sex with this other guy where i was on top but i couldnt get his penis to go in though. is my ...
A. 15 July 2010: you might still be developing as your only a child... (read in full...)
I'm dating a married man, he wants sex, but if I give it he might break up with me
Q. i am dating this married guy, i am married too. i am 18 years old and he is 32. i know is kinda crazy but im really attracted to him. we met by our job, it was my first time i worked and damm! it happened, i am so into him, maybe is because i have ...
A. 23 January 2010: im going to start by saying i know you are inteligent however you are acting stupid. You do not come first in this relationship you are a fling the other woman is his bit of tail. How would you feel if your husband was shagging another women yo... (read in full...)
I'm giving off 'stay away' vibes to guys and want to change that
Q. I am a confident girl and I'm having trouble seeing why guys are not attracted to me. They never approach me or bother to look at me twice. However, the guys are not solely to blame. I will admit that I am intimidated by the opposite sex and it's ...
A. 23 January 2010: theres nothing wrong with what your doing. At some point a man who thinks you are worth the trouble will come along keep an eye out for him. He'll be average looking kind always nice and wont go away when other men will have let me know how i... (read in full...)
I think its time I raised the subject of sex with my girl, but unsure how to do it!
Q. What would be a good way to bring up having sex to mu gf? We have been together for well over a year now. We have gone as far as dry humping with only our underwear on. So what would be a good way to bring up the topic of sex to her?...
A. 23 January 2010: have you considered waiting untill its legal? do you think her dad would aprove? you are what 14? youre a kid stick to kissing and other stuff... (read in full...)
I am hot for my sister
Q. hi my sister is very hot and i have a thing for her should i tell her?...
A. 23 January 2010: ABSOULTY NOT! DO NOT FRIGHTEN THE POOR GIRL YOUR SISTER LOOKS TO YOU FOR SAFTY!. What you are confused with is passionate love with love of a family member no problem just remember you dont like her like that and that you just care about her alot ... (read in full...)
He just wants to be friends and free to flirt
Q. Well.. I firstly want to thank anyone who replys to this it means a lot to me. I am in love with a boy (lets call him T) I have been since August last year. Me and T dated a lot like not as boyfriend and girlfriend but it was dates as we kissed a...
A. 23 January 2010: there is a way of getting him back. You're not going to like it but i'm positive it will work. Tell him you want an open relationship. You want to flirt and kiss him but other people too and he can do the same. DRAW A LINE at sex that is to say tell ... (read in full...)
Where can I get free, confidential treatment for an STD?
Q. I think I might have an STD where can I get tested? is there anywhere to do it for free or cheap and with privacy? like not notifying my parents. I'm 17....
A. 23 January 2010: go to your doctor there fully trainned and have to keep confidentiality... (read in full...)
She textes me and reaches out to me and don't know what to do
Q. hi, my girlfriend and i broke up about 3 months ago. she said she loved me but not inlove with me. it seems like all of a sudden over the last month we have been talking or texting . she seem to reach out to me with a text or something. see we ...
A. 20 January 2010: sounds like you both still really care about each other. You need to sit down and work this out. Love is love at the end of the day and believe an argument is better than no comunication at all. It was only an argument you proberly both said thing ... (read in full...)
How do you break up with someone who says they will die without you?
Q. I'm bisexaul but I lean more towards females, I'm in a relationship that isn't working very well, my girlfriend has cheated on me multiple times and has once gotten pregnant, she told me it was rape. I really want to break up with her but I can't, b...
A. 20 January 2010: If she has been cheating on you she obviously can not be trusted it sounds like you dont believe that is was rape. you could tell her that you want an open relationship. If she brings you down then she is not good for you.
You say that you have... (read in full...)
How can we become more intimate without having sex?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months now. Earlier in the year we had dated for about 2 1/2 months, also. Recently he has been indicating that he wants to have sex, although I have made it pretty clear that I don't really want to do ...
A. 28 December 2009: Ok well im going to imagine your as old as you say you are. So there are loads of ways you can be more intimate with out sex. If its just sex then Forplay is your best bet use some hand cream and massage his penis that usually works. Or you could ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband think showing me his flaccid penis is a turn on?
Q. Married 6 years and very happy. My husband is 15 years older than me but eveyone who knows would say I am the mature party in our relationship. We have a toddler and our sex life is gearing back up now that nights are less interrupted and back to ...
A. 28 December 2009: I think the only thing that needs to be done here is to talk. You are lacking in comunication. Tell him you think its weird just tell him "ye thats just weird, dont do it" Be up front
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He says "sike!" in response to "I love you"! What does that mean?
Q. What does it mean when my boyfriend of two years says an I love you and when I respond with "I love you too" or "I love you more" he says, "sike" or "yeah right"? Does he really love me or does he really not believe I love him?...
A. 10 July 2009: well it could mean that he is joking with you. I have often argued with past partners about who loves who more and often its just a joke.
Secondly he might just not believe you ... (read in full...)
Is phone sex wrong?
Q. I was wondering if someone could tell me if phone sex is wrong with my bf...we've been dating for 41 months and pretty much do it every other nite....
A. 10 July 2009: no not at all. What ever you do with you boy friend is perfectly find as long as you are both concenting. ... (read in full...)
We did meet at school, but he was never my teacher. Now I'm wondering what my next move should be?
Q. I have liked a teacher from my high school for about 4 years now. Im almost 20 and hes 28. Ive dated older so the age difference doesnt bother me. I graduated in 2007 and i kept in touch with him by email and i would visit from time to time (Btw ...
A. 10 July 2009: I have been where you are now and i left it. If i could go back and make the decission again i would and i would take my changes with rejection.
Go and see him tell the truth dont pussy foot around just be honest with him. IT CAN WORK... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and my 17 year old bf is always mad at me!
Q. hi. i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. we have been together for 11 monthsz now and almost a year. the thing is he always gets mad over little things and always thinks i am lying to him...he doesnt trust me at all. and this one time he got really ma...
A. 10 July 2009: Get out of this relationship before you end up hurt and he ends up in jail. This is not only illegal but it is a no brainer you know you shouldn't be with this guy you the one saying his using you so that must be the way you feel also.
I say get ... (read in full...)
My best friend is in danger of taking the wrong road. Why?
Q. Ok,So my Best Friend is a guy,we will call him "JT". He is a senior in high school,he has gotton straight A's since he was little. Has a 4.0. He comes from a family of six sisters and two brothers,a mom who constantly works,and a verbally abusive ...
A. 15 April 2009: ok. Well he needs you right now. Try spending some more time with him do stuff together that dont involve drinking or shopping. That will help heaps. Its a cry for help and you can help him. Big macho man type thing here. The guy wants help but c... (read in full...)
Creepy new teacher tells me I need to be a "good girl"
Q. we have a creepy new teacher cause the original lady left on pregnancy leave. ok. now ill admit i look a little mature for my age (long bleach blonde and black hair, make-up and a Monroe piercing) but in no way was i provoking this guy. he...
A. 15 April 2009: there are particular words of power in a situation like that. And they will be very effective because of your age. take teacher to one side and quietly say. Now dont do this with the rest of the clas in ear shot or even your friends do it on... (read in full...)
How could I have 2 guys walk out on me?
Q. hi,i'm 24 years old, and i am also 24 weeks pregnant.I already have a 4 year old daughter,who's dad has neglected her because i refused to stay in the abusive(physically,verbally, and emotionally) relationship with him. we have been over for about a ...
A. 15 April 2009: Stop, relax a little and calm down. Your world hasn't fallen apart and its not yout fault. First off the first guy didnt leave you you decided to leave him because hest a T*at who likes to hit women. This second guy i guess got your pregnant. S... (read in full...)
13 year old step daughter out of control!
Q. My 13 year old step daughter moved in with my husband and I a few months ago. She is out of control and I fear for her safety. A month ago she was kicked out of school for giving a blow job to a boy at a school dance. One of my neighbour said ...
A. 15 April 2009: ok. Calm down this cant be delt with by yourself. I think your best bet is to talk with the mother. If thats at all possible. 13 is an extreamlly young age for her to be having all this sexual activity and i think it could be doing her some damage. ... (read in full...)
Something she's not telling me?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now that I love but lately I've noticed her acting very strange towards me in the last couple of months. When we have talked about it she says she doesn't know why she's been acting this way towards me ...
A. 2 April 2009: I would say dont jump to conclusions. She may just be moody which dont mean its your fault or indeed her's. Dont assume just because she starts acting different that she is hiding something. Trust her and support her. You might find thats all s... (read in full...)
What does"take care"mean?
Q. I got in a lil argument with my bf he txt me 10 min later and said sorry i meant not disrespect take care.. does the "take care" mean hes breaking up with me?...
A. 2 April 2009: no it dont and you best bet is to ask him what he means... (read in full...)
I just don't think I can cope with just being his friend.
Q. Dear Aunts, I really need some advice, as I think I am going crazy. I have just ended a three month relationship. I thought we were close, we went out numerous times a week, we were intimate, although we never had full sex, we did everything else ...
A. 2 April 2009: Some time apart is best for both of you.... (read in full...)
I just don't think I can cope with just being his friend.
Q. Dear Aunts, I really need some advice, as I think I am going crazy. I have just ended a three month relationship. I thought we were close, we went out numerous times a week, we were intimate, although we never had full sex, we did everything else ...
A. 2 April 2009: well i would say that it is best that you dont see him at all. For a few weeks at least to let you get over it. I have tried to do it myself but it dont work. Have some time apart and then think about it again... (read in full...)
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