Fingering was not pleasant for me!
Q. So I let my boyfriend finger me for the first time, and it wasn't pleasurable at all. It was sore sort of and was like friction. I was wet. But I don't know whether it was his being dry or me being tight. Help! It's really putting me off doing it ...
A. 8 October 2012: I sort of have this problem, in that I'm teaching my boyfriend how to do it right now.
Try guiding his hand and stuff. It's pretty important to talk about this stuff as well. Explain that it's not his fault, but he's not doing it right (ever so... (read in full...)
I have a great g/f but I'm bored. Do I keep her or let her go?
Q. Here's the Story. I'v been With this girl for almost 2 years, And she treats me better then gold and It's hard to find a girl that good. but must have gotten bored and my gf isn't big but she has curves I like thin in shape girls. Her sister i...
A. 8 October 2012: Urgh. End it. You can't stay with someone because it's "hard to find someone that nice". Don't settle, she deserves to be with someone who actually wants to be with her, not someone to fools around with her sister and is only staying with them ... (read in full...)
Nearing 25. Zero experience. Completely lost. Need all the advice I can get. Long rant.
Q. Okay, this is going to get a bit long but I have a lot to say and a whole lot more on my mind - been accumulating it for years now afterall ^^”… I would really appreciate anyone who reads this and offers up any similar experiences, advice, or any ...
A. 13 June 2012: Hey! Okay, I read most of it and skimmed other bits and you seem lovely, so I'm going to reply; I hope this is helpful and stuff. ^_^ Okay, firstly, from your description, you shouldn't find it that hard to find someone (I may be biased, being a ... (read in full...)
I really want to give him head. Is this normal?
Q. Dear cupid, I'm 19, I've been seeing this guy for 5 months, he's 23. I've known him for a year now, but only started taking it further in Sept 2011. We've been through our ups and downs, and we do communicate a lot, he's very straight up with ...
A. 5 February 2012: It's perfectly normal. Go for it; if you like it then great and if you don't, don't just do it again?
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We met at a party and kissed. Now what?
Q. Hello :) Basically, i had my first kiss last night, and i'm buzzing. It was at a party and i was talking to this guy for about 2 hours, playing a little hard to get and then it kinda happened. However, this guy is two years younger than me (h...
A. 4 February 2012: Did you get his number afterwards or know him in real life? Wait and see if he gets into contact with you and if you're interested in him and he doesn't, maybe text him or something saying hi. If it doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to be and ... (read in full...)
Can masturbating too often be harmful?
Q. I do masturbate 4 times daily - is it harmful?...
A. 25 August 2011: I'm 17 and i reckon i've done it 8 times or more in one day before. Now, I'm not saying that's a good thing or a bad thing. I think that as long as your privates don't hurt and you're not becoming obsessed, there's no harm in satisfying your high ... (read in full...)
I experimented with my best friend and now things are awkward between us!
Q. Recently I stayed over my best friend's house. I'm openly bi and she was bi curious. We were talking about sex and sexuality and she randomly asked me if we could experiment. I think she's gorgeous but I've never fancied her because we're so close...
A. 25 August 2011: I agree with bunnyblueeyes. You should tell her you feel awkward, but don't want to ruin your friendship, but also remember this kind of awkwardness won't dissapear over night. It could take a while. Talk to her and try to act as normally as ... (read in full...)
How can I tell her that I'm bi and I like her without freaking her out?
Q. I’m bi, a teenager and and I have never told anyone, all my friends are straight and they definitely don’t understand me so I’m a quiet girl, but I do smile and laugh a lot. I just moved to a new school for a few weeks and I’m quite close to the g...
A. 29 March 2011: I agree with thomas1214. She'll either freak out of be fine with it. There's not actually anything you can do to stop her from minding if she does. Also, ever heard anyone say "I don't care who they fancy, as long as it's not me." Many people... (read in full...)
How do I get him to French Kiss me?
Q. my bf and i have been dating for a while and i so badly want him to French kiss me.....Sadly have never done it before so i don't wanna make the first move. how can i get him to either french kiss me or get the idea that i want him to?...
A. 29 March 2011: This happened to me with my second boyfriend. You have two options- 1. Ask him about it- bring up the subject and ask if he wants to and if he doesn't find out why (he's probably just shy or scared he'll do something wrong). 2. Next time yo... (read in full...)
I love my best cousin's wife and she loves me too. Please advise!
Q. Hi, I'm having a problem. I'm 18 years old. Me and my family traveled away to see my cousins that i haven't seen in a long time, My best cousin just got married with a girl. I was really excited about it, and happy for them, but when i saw her i fe...
A. 29 March 2011: Okay, i think i get the idea of what you're saying here- You went to visit your cousin and fell in love with his wife and she loves you too and so you've kissed and hugged behind his back and she's pregnant with his baby. You feel bad about what you... (read in full...)
He thinks he's gay. Is there any hope for this relationship?
Q. I've been with a guy for 8 years and have a child together. Recently he came to me and said that his confused and thinks he's gay. I told him to find out if he is or not. The other day he came to me and said that he gave a guy a bj, he said he liked ...
A. 29 March 2011: Maybe he's bisexual and needed to do some experimenting? He probably is if he likes having sex with you and enjoyed giving a man a blow-job. I'm pretty sure most bi people have a preference (as in, they'll like women a bit more, or men) so i suppos... (read in full...)
My marriage proposal sucked! Should I let him do it again?
Q. SO I’m engaged but my proposal Sucked!!! he didn’t even decorate there was no romantic music and he knows that I love flowers and he didn’t even give me one!!! He used a beat up candle that was already used and I didn’t even get to dress up nor ...
A. 14 January 2011: I can see your point of view here and LOL. The scrubs reference by dirtball made me laugh.
I think if you love him and want to marry him any but the proposal was abit naff and he's willing to do it again then just go for it. I mean, what harm can... (read in full...)
Had sex with straight best friend, VERY confused!!
Q. Hey, Firstly this is gonna be really long, but i need help because this is really confusing me! Im 17 and gay, my best mate is the same age and straight. He is very much the typical straight guy and would never involve himself with anything that wou...
A. 29 December 2010: Well he's certainly not 110% straight. He's clearly having some doubts about his secuality and seems to be interested in you only doesn't want to admit it because he's afraid of being bi or gay. Be completely honest with him and explain how you're ... (read in full...)
Feelings for my ex are ruining my life. Why can't I move on?
Q. I went out with this boy, (let's call him Ben) who was in my year, last March. We were perfect for each other- into all the same stuff, liked each other and we got along so well. I've never found any boy as easy to talk to. We went out for about 6 ...
A. 16 August 2010: Thanks so much for the advice and i tried nottalking to him to get over him and it didn't work. Maybe i didn't do it for long enough?
Thing is, even if i do stop talking to him i'll have to see him every day because he's in my new tutor next yea... (read in full...)
Girls, how often do you think about sex?
Q. I was talking to a male friend the other day. We were talking about sex and he mentioned to me how men think about sex practically all day. He asked me whether women think about sex and I said yes. He asked me how often. I told him I didn't know, ...
A. 15 August 2010: I think about it loads. At LEAST several times a day. I think girls are just as horny as boys but girls are less vocal about it generally.... (read in full...)
My best friend dumped now I love him and she's trying to get back on with him
Q. I know how bad being in love with your best friends ex sounds and I know people will think instantly "Don't go there. You're risking yuor friendship" but it seems different to me because SHE was the one who messed up their relationship. They'd be...
A. 15 January 2010: Thanks for both answer I see what you're saying about being loyal and true to my friend and take that on board. I don't want to lose her and wouldn't go out with him in less she was okay with it anyway. ... (read in full...)
Do all girls think that masturbating is gross?
Q. Hey, im a male 16 and i had a question to ask, i know all about sex and stuff like that and i do myself masturbate, but when girls i've gotten close to have asked and i've admitted they've said it was gross, and that they would never do something ...
A. 5 June 2009: I can't speak for all girls but it's possible that they either really do think it's discusting or do it themselves and are tryinng to cover that up.
I'm a 15 year old girl and I don't think there's anything wrong with guys OR girls doing it (i do... (read in full...)
Why am I so scared?
Q. hey I'm 15 years old and I don't what to do. I really want to be in a relationship and have a boyfriend, but the thing is I'm too scared. I don't no why I am so scared, when I talk to boys I start shaking and go all shy. My last relationship I w...
A. 4 June 2009: Aww, I'm ver sorry to hear about such awful past experiences with a guy but it's good you're out of that relationship now.
As for why you're so scared, it's probably because this experience has ruined your veiw on men and are worried a future b... (read in full...)
Could having an orgasm help my period start?
Q. Hi, im 14 and havent had my period yet! idk if theres something wrong with me but all my friends have it. Im not under developed. Ok but i was wondering if maybe an ogasm could have had an effect on me getting my period or not?? i need answers! ...
A. 29 May 2009: Lol at all the replies so far.
Yeah, they tought us about periods in about year six when i was 11 and then I spent the next few years desperately waiting for mine to start!
...Then I got it...I'm telling you, it's the most annoying thing E... (read in full...)
Virgins: the next endangered species soon to become extinct
Q. why wait? thats what everyone is asking. in this world virgins have become an endangered species and are fast becoming extinct. waiting for marriage is now outdated. i wonder why. in the begining sex was a celebration of love between two people who ...
A. 29 May 2009: Don't get me wrong, I also beleive in waiting for someone you truly love and not doing it before it's legal or you're ready. However, I don't beleive in no sex before marriage, what if you don't connect sexually? You'll have married someone who may ... (read in full...)
I am having terrile pain from my period. Can anyone suggest something to do or take that will ease the pain?
Q. i really need some help quick cuz im in reallyyyy bad pain. ive just come on my period and ive had them for four years so they aint new but this one is killin me. ive never bin in so much pain, ive bin curled up on my bed rockin to try and stop it n ...
A. 25 May 2009: Ah, join the club. I had to go to my doctors about incredibly bad period pains. She said I could either go on the contraceptive pill or have some pills specially made for it. My periods aren't even that heavy so it might not be that. Go to the ... (read in full...)
Female professor in love with me?
Q. I have a big problem. It's been two years know since I've been seeing my professor. In the beginning I felt extremely strange being that I never had inclinations towards the same sex. She started by asking me to stay after class to help. I found it ...
A. 25 May 2009: Not a dyke but if your curious then I don't see the problem, maybe give it a go? If the kiss felt so good then you might just be Bi? The fatcyou miss her so much indicates you really like her and maybe as more than a friend? Only you know so just do ... (read in full...)
Do women find penises attractive?
Q. Do women find penises attractive? As a guy I know I'd get easily turned on by thinking of vaginas and boobs, but do women think the same way about a man's penis?...
A. 26 October 2008: Yesss, believe me.
They are equally attractive to how Boobs are for men.
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Pregnant at 14 and in care. What do I do?
Q. I am 14 years old.I was recently put into the care system but i have just found out im pregnant. I want to keep the baby but i have no support from my family or anyone else to be hounest.the father isnt in the picture either.i also have no where to ...
A. 24 October 2008: Well as you said any advice would be useful I'll give you my pretty limited advice as I too am only 14.
Have you told your care worker or anyone for that matter? If not, tell someone who you trust. See what they have to say I'm sure they'll ... (read in full...)
Lesbian affair?
Q. OK.. I am 17 and she's 17. We're best friends, and one day we were laying in my mom's bedroom and she said she has never had anyone feel her up (Squeeze her boob) So I squeezed her boob for her playing around and stuff and she was laughing and then ...
A. 20 October 2008: Hmm...Well i know how you feel. not as much, but kinda. Me and my friend muck around and stuff but have agreed we will make out for the fun of it once we have both kissed a guy.
I'm no expert on whether it is a good idea for you to be with her inti... (read in full...)
My self esteem is crushed, WHY can't I get a boyfriend?
Q. I am 14 years old and so many of my friends have boyfriends, and I haven't had one before. No guys seem to be interested in me, they just pass over me and look at my friend who has a nice face and dd cups. I hate my nose, it's sorta big, and I ...
A. 20 October 2008: I agree with Aunty Rach in parts.
Yes, this guy sounds like a complete asshole and i am amazed that you still refer to him as a friend. If he ever says anything like that to you again tell him to f*** off and stop talking him.
I understa... (read in full...)
I'm confused about my sexuality - do these feelings make me gay, bi or what?
Q. Ok, I'm a 15 years old girl who's a little scared and confused about her sexuality! I'm attracted to guys by their appearance and personality. But, I'm attracted to girls sexually, appearance, and personality! Does this make me gay/bi or what?!...
A. 14 October 2008: I kinda know what you mean. It's opposite for me. I'm attracted to guys physically and their personality but I think some girls are very attractive.
I would say, stay casual. I don't say I'm bi or straight. I just go with the flow on who i like... (read in full...)
Am I just not mature enough for a relationship?
Q. Hi... I'm 14 and have never been in a proper relationship (basically i've never kissed a guy) I have "been out" with a few but those have only really lasted a few days becasue i got scared about it for some reason. Problem 1.I recently s...
A. 13 October 2008: Thankyou so much for the advice so far! It's already helped me abit. It's true i really do need to properly concider if i really do have feelings for him and so i'm not going to rush into anything yet. As for the kiss you're all right and it's ... (read in full...)
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