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writes:Ok, I'm a 15 years old girl who's a little scared and confused about her sexuality!I'm attracted to guys by their appearance and personality. But, I'm attracted to girls sexually, appearance, and personality! Does this make me gay/bi or what?! I'm not sexually attracted to a male at all. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Hey I am 14, I am sexually confused and have been doing some deep thinking on it. I have worked out myself, I should go with the flow, keep admiring guys and going out with girls. This is because of the pressure pepole put on homosexuality. My advice, you don't have to do anything now, just think, screw everyone else, I will do what I think best.
It's working for me, kinda
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reader, Confused_123  +, writes (14 October 2008):
I kinda know what you mean. It's opposite for me. I'm attracted to guys physically and their personality but I think some girls are very attractive.
I would say, stay casual. I don't say I'm bi or straight. I just go with the flow on who i like whether it's a girl or a boy (though i've never actually fancied a girl properly, just thought some of them are hot).
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): I went through the same thing, I have dated guys recently though. I was confused about my secxuality as well. With time however I realized that I like both, I am not really sexually attracted to guys, but I have liked some very much. I find girls to be more attractive, but it is just a matter of what you like at the time. You just have to let go of your worry and enjoy yourself, you are still young. Don't worry about this kind of stuff. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've had boyfriends before; never had a girlfriend though.
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reader, SarahOwen +, writes (14 October 2008):
Hmmm. I prefer to think of sexuality as a continuum - people don't necessarily have to cut themselves off from either sex. And at 15, you're pretty young to start labelling yourself as one thing or the other. Just see where it takes you, enjoy the ride, but make sure you look out for your personal safety and your sexual health. Don't rush into anything.
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reader, youloveit  +, writes (14 October 2008):
I just went through that myself.. I dated guys all my life until recently I am now dating a girl.. I dont think it should be a matter of labelling yourself. you should just date who you like.. rather if they are male or female.. experiment.. now im not syaing go sleep around lol just dont limit yourself to a particular gender..
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