We've been trying for a baby for 4 months an nothing...!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for 4months now and nothing seems to be happening and i am beginning to get worried....am i over reacting a bit, and is there anything i can do to improve our chances..help please....
A. 29 December 2007: there's absolutely nothing to worry about my older sister took 2 years to have sex it'll just take time hopefully not that long for you though.
good luck!
xxx... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I fancy her?
Q. i fancy this girl who is a year younger than me (i'm redoing my first year at college) but she already has a boyfriend. i don't know wether i should tell her or if i should get over her and if so how?...
A. 27 December 2007: i think the best thing to do would be to move on.
because it'll hurt your feelings holding on to something that you don't know whether you'll ever have and even if she becomes single she'll need time to get over the break up.
hope i helped :)
feel... (read in full...)
How do I ask a girl out face-to-face??
Q. If i ask out a girl face to face tell her everything how do i? After i tell her i like her, ask her out? We're both 17. Should i expect a reply? If she needs time how do i give her time? Won't it be awkward until i get the answer? Lol easiest ...
A. 30 November 2007: i'd suggest just sitting her down and talking to her tell her everything that you feel.
she'll appreciate that.
then ask her out and if she needs time then give her time and ask her to ring or let her know as soon as possible.
you don't want t... (read in full...)
What can I do to change the fact I always tend to attract girls who cheat, fight, party, love dramas...?
Q. I'm wondering if anyone here can answer this question for me, or atleast attempt to. I'm wondering what it is about me that attracts a certain type of girl. I tend to attract girls who cheat, fight, party, and are in lvoe with drama. For the most...
A. 29 November 2007: well maybe socialising with guys will get you out more and when you all meet up they might bring some female friends with them.... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to be thinking about sex? I'm 16.
Q. hi i'm 16 and in the next year or two i'd like to lose my virginity but i don't know what it's like or anything. any advice? will it hurt? is it too soon to be thinking about? thx xxxx...
A. 29 November 2007: yes he probably is. so would you recommend talking to him then? i've been going out with him for over 15 months now so i think i'm rather safe with him unless something absolutely sudden happens. wb xxx... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to be thinking about sex? I'm 16.
Q. hi i'm 16 and in the next year or two i'd like to lose my virginity but i don't know what it's like or anything. any advice? will it hurt? is it too soon to be thinking about? thx xxxx...
A. 29 November 2007: ok thanks so much for your help!... (read in full...)
Why did he break up if he says he still fancies me? Could it be related to his home problems and self-confidence issues?
Q. my boyfriend dumped me but not because he doesnt fancy me which confused me more. i asked him if he was dumping me and said not in so many words but kind of yes, that he needed some time to be single and he doesnt want a girlfriend right now but ...
A. 29 November 2007: sometimes when people go through a rough patch they need some space and this seems like what he's doing but i wouldn't wait for him for too long. but all the while just be there for him if he needs you but don't just keep waiting around for him beca... (read in full...)
I have a fetish which I am afraid will annoy her: I need her feet to arouse me in any sexual activity.
Q. I have been with my girlfriend on and off for the past few years..I have had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember and i told her about it a few months ago. She didn't mind it, in fact she liked it. But it's a problem because I need her feet ...
A. 29 November 2007: maybe talk to your girlfriend and see how she feels about it. if she feels it's a little annoying then maybe try and reduce the severity of your fetish or find something else to arouse you but if it doesn't bother her then take it from her that its... (read in full...)
Is this Period or Spotting? I just missed 4 days on the pill and am concerned about my body.
Q. I'm taking birth control for about 2 months now. I'm in the process of moving and starting a new job, and I ended up missing 4 days on the pill. I did what the medication's webpage told me to do (im on ortho-trycyclin lo) and threw out hte pack ...
A. 29 November 2007: well try and remember when you had your last period. if it was roughly 28 days ago there's a strong chance it will be your period. if it isn't maybe the best thing is to see if the bleeding stops and try the pill once you've stopped and if i... (read in full...)
What can I do to change the fact I always tend to attract girls who cheat, fight, party, love dramas...?
Q. I'm wondering if anyone here can answer this question for me, or atleast attempt to. I'm wondering what it is about me that attracts a certain type of girl. I tend to attract girls who cheat, fight, party, and are in lvoe with drama. For the most...
A. 29 November 2007: well you meet the more bad girls types because you meet them at parties. plain and simple more bad girls go partying than not. also the typical party-goers fight, party, cheat etc. maybe try socialising at work or college or school or wherever yo... (read in full...)
Is it normal?
Q. Is it normal for couples to put up a poster of a woman in a bikini on their bedroom wall?...
A. 29 November 2007: yes i'd say its perfectly normal. just like they have bikini babes on their computer screen its much the same and its ok with girls to put posters or pics up of their celeb hunks etc. hope i helped :) xxxx... (read in full...)
Will I ever be pregnant?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been trying to have a baby for the past year. its not him its me. he has two other children. is there a chance i will ever be pregnant? i hope so......
A. 29 November 2007: some people do take longer to get pregnant. my friend took 3 years to fall pregnant. but thats coz it was in her genes so it might be in yours too but keep on trying and one day i have no doubt that you will have a baby hope i helped :) xxxx... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to be thinking about sex? I'm 16.
Q. hi i'm 16 and in the next year or two i'd like to lose my virginity but i don't know what it's like or anything. any advice? will it hurt? is it too soon to be thinking about? thx xxxx...
A. 29 November 2007: thx for your help. i have a boyfriend of just over 15 months but unsure whether i should talk to him about it. what do you think?... (read in full...)
Can anybody give me advice to improve my dating skills??
Q. I am nearly 21 and I have never in my entire life had a girlfriend. I always see couples being happy around each other, I have tried, but barely got passed the dating phase with girls. I think my failure is largely due to my problems. When I was yo...
A. 29 November 2007: ok i don't think it's what sex is your siblings determines anything.
coz i have a boyfriend and i have just one brother as a sibling and my best friends have had girlfriends and they have sisters as siblings.
my boyfriend has two sisters so i don... (read in full...)
My wife has given me permission to have a sex buddy....is it a bad idea??
Q. My 46 year old wife is going through the menopause and has lost her sex drive to the point she has no desire for me or any other man on earth. I asked her to use her hand or to give me oral sex and she refused. She told me to find a woman that is ...
A. 29 November 2007: hi,
i wouldn't say its a bad thing as she has given you permission but its whether you would be ok with whether you wouldn't feel guilty or anything coz ur not having sex with your wife.
hope i helped :)
all the best
xxxx... (read in full...)
I just don't know how to tell my mum we are sleeping together without her losing trust in me.
Q. Hey... I'm 17 and been with my guy for 6 months (he's almost 19) we've had sex like 6 times in the relationship and i want to tell my mum about it because i promised her that when i did i would tell her but i just dont know how as i cant give her...
A. 28 November 2007: just sit her down and say i was going to tell you before you went on holiday but i was a lil nervous and didn't what or how to say it but i'm want to tell you now.
i've been sleeing with my bf mum, i'm really sorry i didn't tell you sooner.
or so... (read in full...)
Worried about pregnancy....
Q. I need help... I am 16 years old and i am in 5th year. I am the only one in my year who hasn't had sex yet. I am afraid of getting pregnant but this guy has had a lot more experience than me. He told me he wants to start seeing me but i don't even...
A. 28 November 2007: ok dont have sex with him unless you are completely sure YOU are ready and thats what YOU want!
don't let peer pressure get to you either just coz they've lost their virginity doesn't mean you have to.
i'm 16 and have my bf for over 15 months a... (read in full...)
His ex is pregant with his child, he says he just wants to be in the babies life but what if he feels different when its born??
Q. I fancied this lad from work for eight months but was too scared to ask him out but recently we have been texting and arranged to meet up and he told me he really liked me and has done for ages but was too scared to ask me out. Anyway we had sex ...
A. 28 November 2007: i'd maybe not take the relationship too far untl the baby is born.
if he says he won't then maybe believe him but don't get to attached coz some men change their minds and then you'll get hurt.
which isn't gd for you.
i'd take it slow and after 1 ... (read in full...)
How come my friend doesn't care about being single??
Q. Well i have this friend she is fun out goin athletic pretty and everything but she cant get a boyfriend for some reason. I mean she has had lil boyfriends in the past but no one serious. I've been telling her that having a boyfriend is so great th...
A. 28 November 2007: some people don't feel like they want a partner coz they have other prospects and goals they want to achieve before they look for a boyfriend.
sometimes being single saves you heartache.
but then they miss out on the love from their partner.... (read in full...)
I've got cramps and spotting...could I be pregant??
Q. I came off the pill because it was makeing me ill. I was off it for 3 weeks. I had my period on the 15th of November and i came off it on the 19th of November on the 26th there was a spot of blood in my knickers and i had like a small cramp feeling....
A. 28 November 2007: try not to panic too much hun!
you need to decide now or faily soon what you ar going to do if you are pregnant
find out who could be the possible father if you don't already know or suspect anyone.
be prepared n organised for any possible out... (read in full...)
I cant figure her out...when I'm gone she misses me but when I'm around she doesn't want to hang out with me.
Q. I have been going out with the same girl on and off for the past few years. I can't seem to figure her out. When I'm gone, she yearns for me and wants me badly. But as soon as I come around, she'll make any excuse not to hang out with me. What ...
A. 28 November 2007: i'd talk to her.
she's taking advantage of you.
if she denies out flat then get rid of her, you deserve better than to be treated like that.
hope i helped :)
feel free to mail message me about anything if you wanna chat
xxx... (read in full...)
Never been kissed...but there is a boy I like and I don't know what to do.
Q. I'm 16, and I've never been kissed . . . I feel like a pathetic excuse for a 16 year old . . . But there is a boy I really like, and i've liked him since June this year . . . I like him so much that I don't know how to act or what to do... an...
A. 28 November 2007: just try and act like urself around him as much as possible.
hang out n do stuff that u both like together with no-one else.
see how he reacts to this and acts around you.
hope i helped :)
feel free to mail message me about anything if you ... (read in full...)
I'm madly in love with a boy but my parents wont let me go to his house.
Q. I'm 14 years old, and im madly in love with a boy thats 17 and will be 18 in January and his paretns let him do what ever he wants.. Mine won't even let me go to his house. What do I do?...
A. 28 November 2007: his parents are letting him do whatever he wants coz he's older.
and your parents arn't letting you round his coz they want to protect you.
most boys at that age want sex and that might be whats concerning your parents.
they need to know they ca... (read in full...)
He isn't ever open about his feelings...should I tell him how I feel or keep quiet??
Q. I like this boy and i don't know whether he likes me or not. I can't ask him because he isn't ever open about his feelings. He goes around kissing girls on the cheeks and stuff but I'm the only one he kisses on the lips. I don't want to lose him as ...
A. 28 November 2007: thats the gamble you'd have to take in all relationships.
coz u'd have to be a friend of the guy to know him and to ave a crush so its up to you whether you take the risk.
but many relationships that do end some of them end up still being friends.... (read in full...)
Should I act less interested so she wakes up??
Q. Sorry to bother you all with such a petty situation but: i go to some social club and i recently found out that a girl likes me. She was really upset with the fact that she found it so hard to tell me, eventhough i liked her back (which i never to...
A. 28 November 2007: since when is a man meant to be in control?
in a relationship you should be equal.
if anything the emae should be in control coz its gotta be at her own speed in which the relationship develops.
i'd talk to her and ask why she is playing hard... (read in full...)
How long will a guy wait for sex??
Q. So heres just a general question to see what everyones point of view is. How long is a unreasonable amount of time to expect a guy to wait for sex? What I mean is, say a girl isnt ready to have sex with her bf (whether she be a virgin or not) but...
A. 28 November 2007: well i've been going out with my bf for over 15 months now with no sex. so i think if he loves you then he should wait until you are happy and ready. if he doesn't he's not worth having. my bf is ready but im not and i told him if he can't wai... (read in full...)
We have been intimate for 4 yrs yet he is awful to me in public and denies we have a relation. Why?
Q. I have been sleepin with this boy for 4 years but hes awful to me infront of people and denies sleeping with me?...
A. 27 November 2007: like everyone else said leave him!
you deserve so much more!
don't be a doormat and let him get whatever he wants.
walk away and find yourself a decent guy!
hope i helped :)
feel free to mail message me about anything if you wanna talk
xxx... (read in full...)
She's amazing but I'm just not sure what to do in this situation!
Q. I dated this girl when i was 15 and we broke up and i didnt see her again till this year we are now both 20 and we started dating agian, there is something about this girl that i cannot stop thinking about! she is amazing and i feel things with her ...
A. 27 November 2007: if you love her so much you could try a long distance relationship for some people it does work out. and save money and go and see her or get her to go and see you every now and then to keep the love together. hope i helped :) feel free to ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's boyfriend, and he likes me too! Help!
Q. Hi A few weeks ago my friend started to date this boy. I new him but i never spoke to him before. I thought i might aswell talk to him cause i would be seeing alot of him cause he was dating my best friend. I said hi and we started to tlk o...
A. 27 November 2007: ok you probably should either try n stop these feelings for this boy if he's staying around with your best friend or not hang out with him as much coz even if he dumps her you can't really go out with him for a couple of months coz then your best ... (read in full...)
I wanna go down on my boyfriend, but my mouth is too small!
Q. hey, well the thing is: i wanna go down on my bf, i tried it once but my mouth is small, and his thing is big, and i wanna do it for him. any solution? :S...
A. 27 November 2007: ok you don't have to have his thing all the way in.
even if its at the tip it still turns him on alot.
hope i helped :)
feel free to message me about anything if u wanna chat
xxx... (read in full...)
Was it just a kiss, just this once?!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. Last week he kissed a girl that works at the gas station by his house. He's told me before that he's cheated on all of his girlfriends from the past, but that he didn't think he could do it to me. How do I ...
A. 27 November 2007: ok i'm telling you what to do but do you really want a boy who's cheated on previous girlfriends and just done the same to you despite him telling you that he didn't think he could.
he's obviousy no good at keeping his work, in my eyes this isn'... (read in full...)
I found photos of her naked ex in our room!
Q. I (we've) got a little problem (or not). My wife is always very honest with me. She has never slept with anyone but me, but I know the first names of a few guys she dated and fooled around with some prior to me. Anyway, we bought our house a little ...
A. 27 November 2007: i'd probs just ask her in a calm voice that u were clearing up and you stumbled across these pictures and was wondering of who it was just in case and why she had kept them.
therefore by keeping a calm voice it won't seem like ur making this into... (read in full...)
He said he wished I was near him, when I suggested visiting he avoided the subject however. What is going on?
Q. Hey Ive been with my boyfriend for a couple of months, I never fall badly with guys as i have trust issues from previous stuff. But when i met him i fell completely in love with him. I can think of no one else, In fact i know no one else in this...
A. 25 November 2007: hi hun! i know how you feel. my current boyfriend does that to me.
one minute he's saying he misses me n the next he acts like he doesn't care.
i talked to him about it and he didn't really listen or take much notice so i'm gonna have to do somet... (read in full...)
Suggestions on stimulating your partner's breasts?
Q. What are some fun things I can do with my woman's breasts? They are beautiful. What kind of touching and kissing would she like? Any advice for giving her a pear neckless? Thanks...
A. 25 November 2007: by pear do u pearl neclace?
if so then yh sure.
every girl or woman loves jewellery.
as for the breasts stuff every woman is different.
try different ways of doing fun things.
even if its just resting on them or asking her how she likes them t... (read in full...)
She takes my love for granted and gets mad if I broach the subject, what should I do?
Q. Hi, I've been seeing this girl for roughly 5 to 6 months and loved her so much but now it seems like she just makes me miserable and she just takes advantage of my love. She sort of takes it for granted. The worst part is if i try to talk about it...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey! if she is taking your love for granted then thats no real girlfriend for you not if you've talked to her and she's still not taking any notice.
i'm going through what you are at the moment with my boyfriend. but it's got to stop coz in the end ... (read in full...)
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