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writes:I have been with my girlfriend on and off for the past few years..I have had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember and i told her about it a few months ago. She didn't mind it, in fact she liked it. But it's a problem because I need her feet to arouse me in any sexual activity and I feel that she is soon going to get fed up with my fetish. And all I ever want to do has to involve her feet, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): I cannot see what the problem is. You need to let your gf know thoroughly all about this and maybe she will be over the moon with it and do it all the more to help you out. I think there is nothing wrong here, so go on and have that chat.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): I think that it'd actually be kind of flattering to have my feet admired like that, but I am 100% with kenny in not neglecting other body parts, and checking in on her about if she's sure she doesn't mind your fetish would show that you care and are a sweetheart, as you clearly show in your concern!
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 What should you do? ? ? Work in a ladies shoe shop! You'd be so aroused for your girlfriend when you drove home each evening, it would be dangerous for anyone else to be on the roads!!
Seriously though, you are very lucky. Very, very lucky. You know some people, when they're born, have a little extra in their sexuality but they can't explore it when they are old enough because it's either impractical, illegal or impossible! And others, well they just get the basic, standard issue, sexuality. No extras, no frills, no lace. But you are so lucky. Because you have been particularly fortunate to get the regular sexuality with an extra bonus included, the special deluxe pack.
So don't complain about it. Don't worry about it. Celebrate it.
Personally I don't think your girlfriend will ever want to let you go, but don't let it go to your head, just enjoy it with her.
I normally wish people good luck as I sign off. You don't need it!
Richard
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reader, kenny +, writes (29 November 2007):
 Personally i don't think its that bad a fetish to have really, i have heard of worse ones. Im sure she won't get fed up with your fetish, just try to focus on giving other parts of her body attention from time to time. Use her feet to obtain your arousal, then slowly work you way up her body kissing & carressing her, she will love this, and realise you are not neglecting her other body parts.
All the best
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reader, clh91 +, writes (29 November 2007):
 maybe talk to your girlfriend and see how she feels about it.if she feels it's a little annoying then maybe try and reduce the severity of your fetish or find something else to arouse you but if it doesn't bother her then take it from her that its ok with her and get on the two of you together.hope i helped :)xxxx
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