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*ody
writes:Dear Readers How are you and thanx for reading. I am a teenager 15 and there is a girl I like alot. I think she is the most spectacular girl I have ever met and I am too shy to ask her out She is about 5,5 and 120 pounds blond hair green eyes and a nice personalaty. I lke her so much and I am to shy, scared, or I don't know what call it stupidity for not takeing the chance to ask her. I beat myself up every day on the inside for not asking her and this is killing I would thank you all or any advice or tips thank you . -Kody
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reader, chunkymunky  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 I bet she'd really love to hear how much you feel for her because it sounds like you've well and truly fallen for her! Try play it cool and just be yourself! I know its not that simple, but maybe you should invite a group of friends out to do something (including her and maybe some of her friends too!) and then get closer friends and eventually when you're more confident with her you'll find the right way to confide in her. Good luck =D xx
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reader, mack23  +, writes (12 April 2007):
I'm a bit shy too, and exactly your age. I think that what would work for you is just knowing what you are going to say exactly to her. Even if you need to practice in front of a mirror, or your cat, or dog, do it! Then, one day when you see her, relax, breathe, and go up to her. Best thing, tell yourself relax, and breathe deep breaths. After you are done, it will seem like it was really easy and simple. It's exactly that. Don't stress about being nervous when you ask her, don't worry, she won't bite. Good luck!
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 Dear Kody,
You need to get over your shyness and dont ever put yourself down,alot of guys are shy my finace was too shy to ask me out and he almost lost me bc i was gonna go out with my ex, but what you need to do is just go up to her and ask her if she would go out with you befor she finds someone else, the worse thing that can happen is she says no of course you are goin to be upset but you will get over it, if you cant ask her out in person then write her a letter and explain to her why you like her and if she would go out with you, and give it to her or put it in her locker,and if it dont work with her you are still young and have more chances to get with girls but try it with her....good luck
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