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writes: saw him with 2 other girls!!okay I know I dont own him and allbut when A guy says he likes youand shit and always wants to hang out and have sex with you and shit means he really likes you right??after we talked on msn and the phone for like ever last night and all he was saying is how much he likes me, and how fun I am to be withh I see him all the time in the hallways and we are always joking around with each other saying "ew" or "what a fag" or one of us will go and jump on each others back, were goofs like thatand all that happened like usual today and then I see him near fifth period with his ex. doing the exact same thing we do. :S ohh then at the end of the dayplaying with some next girllike am I doing something wrong?? Im pretty sure Im notI know how to play the feild. and Ive given up 2 guys for him. and now this. he's suppose to come over today well screw that. Am I just over-reacting??
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reader, ***la belle vida***  +, writes (4 November 2006):
 He sounds like such a total player! i bet he said to them other girls he wants to hang out and have sex with them too. Just forget this loser.
take care hunni xxxx
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reader, chunkymunky +, writes (4 November 2006):
 You are not over reacting. When you're adolescent you act very drastically and maybe feel confused about stuffy. Im sure he's just not too sure of what he wants or how to feel. But if he was goofing off with other girls then maybe its not worth it, he doesnt sound like hes boyfriend material! Hope everything works out for the best ;) x x
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (4 November 2006):
 Trust your gut feeling on this one. It does sound like your getting played.
A man should respect and love you and you him, before you even consider any sexual relations with him. Mom's tell this to their children to try to keep them from the heartache of being played.
To just like a guy and have sex with him, makes you seem a bit easy to get. If a guy perceives you as easy to get then you're easy to play, easy to be used, and easy to get rid of. That is the definition of being easy.
There is someone out there that will cherish you for who you are. They will love you and never want you to hurt as you are hurting right now. They would never do anything to jeopardize your love and trust.
This guy isn't it, and your wasting your time while the man of your dreams is still out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): I can understand why you might be a little put out, But I think you are over reacting to be honest.
If he didnt "goof around" with you and you saw him acting like it with other girls I would be a bit Concerned, maybe even jealous then, but the fact that he does it with you shows me that its just the kind of things he does with his freinds too.
Look if you see him kissing and cuddling the other girls then be concerned, but rest assured that your the only one doing that with him, IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN!.
Just relax a little.
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