Is it a lost cause or should I give it one more chance?
Q. I started talking to this guy that my sister hooked me up with. We talked a few times a week on the phone for about a month. We would talk anywhere from one to 4 hours! We finally hung out and I thought it went well. We got along and hung out for ...
A. 20 August 2012: dont contact him anymore until he contacts you. you dont wanna sound like the annoying gf before anything even happens between you two. also keep in mind that he might have broken his phone or is just super busy. ... (read in full...)
He's my ex. I accidentally saw him out wearing the shirt I gave him. But he ignored me. Why would he wear THAT shirt?
Q. okay so i havent seen my ex since his birthday last month, where i gave him a shirt. we've only spoken a couple of times since then and they were not pleasant conversations. he started dating his ex before me and i moved on. ive never felt so reli...
A. 20 August 2012: thanks guys! and thanks FA. this really helped... (read in full...)
My father yells at me all the time and I can't deal with it
Q. my dad says i'm stupid. he yells all the time. i have no one to talk to about this. he has always yelled, even if there wasn't a reason. i cry all the time and feel like no one cares anymore. i can't get away form him. i can't talk to a councilor, i ...
A. 4 July 2012: i went through the same thing you did..my dad was sooo hard on me and expected me to be perfect..his "talking" was actually yelling..so he yelled at me all the time and i would just take it..then go to my room and cry..or try to hurt myself..its not ... (read in full...)
We're "Facebook married" but I want him as a legit b/f
Q. So I'm "Facebook married" to my legit crush..one night i was at his house and he proposed to me and gave me a ring and everything..the next day he sent me a facebook marriage request and of course I said yes! we've been really close for over a y...
A. 9 September 2011: Yes lol we're not really married.. It's just a joke..but I'm getting really tired of explaining to people that he's not my boyfriend because he already acts like it!! But I still have this feeling that he doesn't actually like me:/... (read in full...)
My crush is ignoring me!?
Q. So I'm in a totally frustrating situation with my crush right now! Before summer break, we would talk every day at school, and flirt like crazy (verbally, but I also read up on body language and he matched pretty much everything). Through the ...
A. 7 September 2011: Talk to him!!! Both of y'all ignoring eachother is obviously getting you guys no where...make the first move and talk to him... (read in full...)
He's trying to cope with our break up..how can I help him?
Q. Okay I'm gonna try to keep things simple here...Ive liked this guy since 4th grade..and in 8th grade I finally got him. Things were going well for a middle school relationship I guess until a high school boy started liking me..so of course I chose ...
A. 29 May 2011: Sorry for the confusion; not our breakup..his recent break up... (read in full...)
I love him but I'm sure she's after him!
Q. Hi, im 13 and i really like this boy, well in fact i love him, we went out and he dumped me a week later, we talked ans he asked me back out, i said yes and we were together for two weeks then he dumped me again! I really love him, but theres thia ...
A. 29 May 2011: Don't get in too deep with him..y'all are both really young and I bet in a year or so you will be "in love" with someone else..the worst thing you can do is get in a serious relationship at your age ... (read in full...)
He wants to try oral but I don't want to
Q. I just turned 15 in February my boyfriend just turned 14 in may well im a virgin and we have been going for three weeks now. He says he wants to eat me out but the thing is I dont really want him to should I let him do it? ...
A. 29 May 2011: Dude..3 weeks? That's not long enough..and 14 and 15?! Way too young..you said It yourself.. You don't want to do it soooooo don't.... (read in full...)
I don't know how to act on my first date
Q. Well im about to go on my first date. I've never been on a date. Ever. So to me, this is a big deal! I'm going on a double date with my best friend and her boyfriend and I'll be going with my crush. We're going to go see a movie and then go eat to ...
A. 5 February 2011: Act how u do when your normally around people. Don't try to act any cooler or girly just to impress your date. It will scare him. Talk about sports or what u like to do or school. Or if ur shy get ur friend to start up some conversations and just ... (read in full...)
What do I say to these people about my boyfriend?
Q. ok so this is really embarassing, but i have an ugly boyfreind. i mean hes not that ugly, but he had acne (which i know he cant help cuz i have it 2)but what pisses me off is that every ones making fun of me for it. now grantit, hes been suspended ...
A. 5 February 2011: If u like him you wouldn't care what other people think about him. It kind of seems like he embarasses you and of that's the case u need to break up with him or just tell people to get a life and stop caring about yours... (read in full...)
My wife can't have children so she told me to marry her sister!
Q. 1 am 30 years man . I am married with good wife of 28..we have no child ... we consulted a doctor , there is some problem in my wife , so there is no chance of child .. my wife has one sister of age 23 ,my wife ask me marry her , whether i can ma...
A. 24 December 2010: My dad was in the same situation as you... And he did end up marrying his wifes sister.. Who is now my mom. My aunt(dads first wife) still lives with us.. I call her mama and I treat her like a mom. She is very happy with the choice she made and we ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to ask me out?
Q. ok, so Ive known this guy since 5th grade from band class. Im a total band geek and its my life and we have sat by each other in band everyday since then. for years we didnt really like eachother for competision reasons. but since weve been in ...
A. 23 December 2010: If he likes you then go for it!! Flirt with him. Make plans to hang out with him and some friends. Text him, facebook him. Just start talking to him.. Like talking talking. Tell him he's cuTe and you wanna hang out with him more./ stuff like that:) ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for feeling this way or am I really unattractive?
Q. OK i am acualy 175-180lbs and i have a body that makes me look like im at least 130lbs and i look good (so people keep telling me) in a bikini but i dont feel like it. im curvy with a pudge on my stomach and my butt sticks way out from my back ! and ...
A. 23 December 2010: If other people tell you you're beautiful then you're probably not ugly...but you yourself have to think that you're pretty too because if you do, you will feel more confident with yourself:)... (read in full...)
I pretty much ruined his relationship!
Q. Okay first of all I don't want anyone judging or making rude comments on here. I just need some serious advice. Okay. So last night me and my friends got really drunk at this party. My ex was there.. Well.. I don't even know if I should call him an ...
A. 21 December 2010: So should I talk to him about it or what? I'm really scared that he won't even talk to me anymore.. I'd rather have him as a friend than nothing at all. I was thinking about waiting til school so it will be kinda blown over..... (read in full...)
I find out my boyfriend is a girlfriend?
Q. Heyy, Well my problem is seriously confusingg so bracee yourselff guys ;] i wrote a letter on here ages ago about a boy called Noah, he wouldnt talk to me? Even though i was almost certain i was inlovee with him. Well for six months more he c...
A. 17 October 2010: If u love him/her be with him/her. That's that. Who cares what everyone else thinks . As long as your happy:)... (read in full...)
I can tell he cares but is sex all he wants?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now, we're both in high school. Even tho we both know its wrong, we have sex. But lately i wonder if thats the only reason he's with me. We got in a fight about a week ago. But we talked and fixed ...
A. 16 October 2010: He kinda seems a little jerkish... Like he shouldn't ditch you like that ever. And he didn't even care that u left..I would be a little bit pissed off. But that's just me. Sex is fun and stuff but if he's just using u for it that's wrong. U need to ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want to be a dad at 15?
Q. hay I'm 15 and I'm curious if it normal for me to be wanting to be a dad i mean i really really want to be one is it normal or what?...
A. 18 July 2010: most guys ur age would NOT want to be a dad...most 15 year old boys don't want to be tied down and have such a huge responsibility! ... (read in full...)
I have sexual urges but am afraid to act them out does it mean I'm not ready?
Q. i am 14 and i get these urges to do sexual things with guys. i feel like i d8 a lot of guys. but i think im just looking for the right person 2 do it with. i will get 2 the point where i feel ready 2 do sexual stuff but then i kinda chicken out ...
A. 13 July 2010: Just because u have sexual urges doesn't mean u have to like have sex or anything..just do little things like makeout then work your way up..if your not ready for that then u should just wait til your older..people mature differently ... (read in full...)
I made a mistake talking to this older boy about sex and now I am worried everyone at my school will find out....
Q. Hi, I am 13 and all of a sudden I have become like obbsesssed with sex? I know it sounds weird comming from a girl and all ... But yer I am... And i was going out with this and we really really loved each other a lot ! I spent 8 hours talking to him ...
A. 13 July 2010: lie. Just be like omg what the heck that's so gross!!! Stuff like that... Unless he has proof..then idk what to tell u.but when your doing stuff like that be careful..if its over text erase them before school.. But your leaving that school so its ... (read in full...)
FWB sometimes he's sweet, sometimes he's not
Q. first of all I'm 16 NOT 13. Okay. So I've been friends with benifits with this guy for like 2 years..and yes I like him alot..I never told him though cuz I didn't wanna make anything weird..this guy is a major player but when he likes someone he's ...
A. 13 July 2010: umm thanks but I do go to church(: and I'm perfectly fine..I have everything I could possibly want..strait a's, varsity sports, college paid for..I'm not a lost low self esteem girl like u think...but thanks for the judgements anyway... (read in full...)
FWB sometimes he's sweet, sometimes he's not
Q. first of all I'm 16 NOT 13. Okay. So I've been friends with benifits with this guy for like 2 years..and yes I like him alot..I never told him though cuz I didn't wanna make anything weird..this guy is a major player but when he likes someone he's ...
A. 13 July 2010: well actually... We've been really good friends since 1st grade..idk how to explain it cuz like he can be a really good boyfriend..all of his relationships are like super long..hes only a player when he doesn't like anyone but everyone thinks he ... (read in full...)
Will she think my penis is too small?
Q. My best friend and I decided that we should have sex, just to see if we should be together. I'm worried that she might think my penis is to small. I measured my penis and it is 4 and a half inches. I just wanted to know from a females opinion is ...
A. 17 June 2010: personally I like a smaller penis cuz it doesn't hurt as bad!!! And girls really don't care about size!... (read in full...)
Is this guy interested in me based on tonight's actions?
Q. So today, my friend had a birthday party. He invited some people I knew (they're all upperclassmen; i'm the only freshman there) and there was this one guy who came late. We were all tired from the dancing and everything, so I saw down and I laid ...
A. 1 June 2010: maybe u should text him or something cuz he might have thought that it was nothing at all..I mean I do that to all of my guy friends...any guy likes it when a girl gives him attention so if u want it to go further try talking to him more or hang out ... (read in full...)
He hugged me...does he like me or was he kidding around?
Q. So i'm in tennis. There's this guy on my tennis team, he's korean and i'm viet/chinese. He's a sophomore and i'm a freshman. On Friday, my friends and I stayed after school to practice and play, and he showed up, since he always stays after scho...
A. 31 January 2010: don't jump right in..text him or something and become good friends first... (read in full...)
He is gone, and I'm falling apart, what do I do??
Q. i have been invovled with a guy for almost 2 years. and i just found out he is moving to another state thats far away. and i am fallin apart. i have gotten close to him and i dontknow what to do. how can i cope with this?he may never come back. does ...
A. 30 January 2010: just keep in touch with him.. Call him text him..its not that bad..my very first serious bf moved to another state.. Its hard but its better than losing him forever..one of my very close friends died last year so moving isnt the worst that could ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and want to know..why do I want to have a baby?
Q. I am fifteen(10th grade) and I want to be pregnant. Plz don't say I'm stupid cuz I'm not going to become pregnant I just want to know why I feel this way. My bf and I are very serious, like engaged serious, we are sexually active and everything and ...
A. 25 January 2010: watch "the pregnancy pact"... (read in full...)
How do I break the news that I'm pregnant to my mom? Is what I did so bad? Am I a fool?
Q. Im 16 years old im in 10 grade. I just found out i was pregnant for my boyfriend whos 17. I kno im to young to young to raise a child but it wasnt my fault. My boyfriend wanted a baby so i wanted to make him happy. Becuse he been so good to me so i ...
A. 3 December 2009: I'm honestly not trying to make u feel like crap but if ur boyfriend really loves u he would understand that u are too young to have a baby..no matter how amazing and cute it sounds its really stupid to have a baby that young ..I'm in 10th grade too ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be gay or bi, but what if I am?
Q. Hey aunts. I need some help. Im a straight male teen, and i just turned 15 recently. And i know i like gurls but i've always had this bi-curiousity since i was younger.idk..im just confused. Cuz i've never really had a girlfriend...so i wouldnt ...
A. 29 November 2009: u don't really need a girlfriend to see if ur gay...I'm not saying like go have sex but mess around with a few people and see if u like it then u can even kiss a few guys and see how u feel... (read in full...)
How do I get my guy friends to stop seeing me as one of the guys?
Q. i'm 16. ok so heres my problem, i got lots of guy friends. i got more guy friends then girls. and well since i hang with mostly guys, my guy friends dont see me as someone there date. they treat me like one of the guys, and well now i dont really ...
A. 15 November 2009: I'm not telling you to change how u look but u can try to like dress cute and talk about other hot guys when he's around..it makes them know that u actually like guys..ask him to hang out just yall two and get to know what he likes and stuff :)... (read in full...)
Friend doesn't talk to me since we were intimate.
Q. ok so I have this bestfriend.. Or atleast he was.. Anyway..we were crazy close and talked everyday!! He started messing with me like grabbing my ass and stuff and I started liking him.. I knew he was a huge player but I still liked him.. One night I ...
A. 27 August 2009: but we have been best friends since I was in first grade.. Thats why its so hard for me.. Its not like I just got close to him this year..... (read in full...)
How do I show him I want to do stuff with him when we are alone?
Q. So there's this guy that I dont know if i like or not.. Its so frustrating.. Like he always wants to do stuff in public like when I hug him he always lifts up my shirt and grabs my ass and I just laugh and move his hand. But when we're alone in his ...
A. 14 August 2009: I need advice.. Not people telling me that I'm too young and he's too old.. He's 16 and has a car.. Is that out of the ordinary?? No its not..im 15.. Not 12..I don't want sex.. I'm smart enough not to do that! I just want advice on my question ... (read in full...)
How do I show him I want to do stuff with him when we are alone?
Q. So there's this guy that I dont know if i like or not.. Its so frustrating.. Like he always wants to do stuff in public like when I hug him he always lifts up my shirt and grabs my ass and I just laugh and move his hand. But when we're alone in his ...
A. 14 August 2009: he's 16 and a junior I'm I sophomore so its fine.. I dont want to have sex with him at all.. I mean he holds my hand and hugs me and stuff when we're at his house but like he's more of a PDA person and I'm not so idk what to do... (read in full...)
I flirted, he took it seriously, now I want out, what should I do?
Q. hey everyone, ok so one day i was bored at my house, and i was in the mood to flirt with any guy, so i went on myspace and i started flirting with one of my guy friends. back then when i knew that guy,he was a player, but when i started flirting...
A. 6 August 2009: sounds like something I would do lol.. How bout next time you talk to him be like you know I'm kidding right or tell him your talking to another guy. That always works and its not mean.. If u wanna be friends with benifits then go for it! Lol ... (read in full...)
How do I let my best guy friend know I am in love with him and not risk our friendship?
Q. I have this guy friend who i am very into but i dont think he is into me.....we are always flirting and stuff he has always been there for me when my rents were fighting he was there when i feel down a hill a spraned my ankle he carried me to the ...
A. 6 August 2009: omg how flippin adorable! Lol it kinda seems like he would be into you but guys are so confusing you never know what they are thinking so if I were you i would just throw hints that you like him and after awhile if he doesn't get it tell him... (read in full...)
How can I make this LDR work?
Q. I fall in love quick. But you kno what different about this time? When I'm not with Brandon my my heart hurts. I met him a few days ago when I was on a camping trip with a friend. And he lives 3 hours away from me.I have his number but he hasn't ...
A. 3 August 2009: Hmm..I know how you feel about the long distance thing.. And the truth is that 3 hours is kinda far.. Maybe when u get ur lisence u can drive out there? That's about the only way it will work.. Or u could go to the same place yall met and tell him ... (read in full...)
How can I explain what was going on to my friend? And what can I do about my guy friend?
Q. hey guys I have 2 problems here..I was at a party last night and one of my friends kept grabbing me and messing with me. He always grabs my ass and boobs and stuff but that's just how he is.. I'm almost sure we don't like eachother cuz he's talking ...
A. 2 August 2009: thank you! :) ... (read in full...)
How can I explain what was going on to my friend? And what can I do about my guy friend?
Q. hey guys I have 2 problems here..I was at a party last night and one of my friends kept grabbing me and messing with me. He always grabs my ass and boobs and stuff but that's just how he is.. I'm almost sure we don't like eachother cuz he's talking ...
A. 2 August 2009: I don't know if I like him..I use to in 6th grade but now we're like close friends..I regret not making out with him cuz maybe that would have told me if I like him or not... (read in full...)
Does this boy have a crush on me as well?
Q. sorry for the length but i need a little help i have this crush but i dont see him often only when i go to my friends house his sister calls us love birds and we both laugh at it but when i see him we play b ball and it seems that he is showing of. ...
A. 28 June 2009: well since u don't have a phone,anytime u see him you have to talk to him or flirt with him. Maybe you can try to get him alone..but not in a creepy obvious way lol but u need to spend as much time with him and talk to him since u can't text or ... (read in full...)
Does this boy have a crush on me as well?
Q. sorry for the length but i need a little help i have this crush but i dont see him often only when i go to my friends house his sister calls us love birds and we both laugh at it but when i see him we play b ball and it seems that he is showing of. ...
A. 28 June 2009: well since u don't have a phone,anytime u see him you have to talk to him or flirt with him. Maybe you can try to get him alone..but not in a creepy obvious way lol but u need to spend as much time with him and talk to him since u can't text or ... (read in full...)
Does this boy have a crush on me as well?
Q. sorry for the length but i need a little help i have this crush but i dont see him often only when i go to my friends house his sister calls us love birds and we both laugh at it but when i see him we play b ball and it seems that he is showing of. ...
A. 28 June 2009: it seems like he might be a little interested..but you can never be too sure. You should text him and try to get to know him better and see where it goes... (read in full...)
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