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*heerwhore23
writes:So I'm "Facebook married" to my legit crush..one night i was at his house and he proposed to me and gave me a ring and everything..the next day he sent me a facebook marriage request and of course I said yes! we've been really close for over a year now..on our "anniversary" he sends me like 5 page texts about how much he loves me and how amazing I am buttttttt he's just a super sweet guy in general so idk if he's just being nice to his "wife". We use to hang out a lot but his sister moved so now we don't see each other much..I really really really want him to be my legit boyfriend but I feel like that chance is ruined now because we're already "married" I hope this makes sence lol but please I need some advice!!!
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (9 September 2011):
Why isn't he your "legit" boyfriend? Either he is shy about asking you out, or he is gay.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 September 2011):
 ..Aren't you guys a bit old for this kind of stuff ? I got engaged with a ring from a cereal box, but I was in second grade :)
I think he likes you, I don't know but I can't see a guy going along with such a silly, elaborated joke unless he has a soft spot for you.
Serve him his Facebook divorce papers :). Tell him you are sick with the joke, it was cute but now you want to relate to people in more mature ways - so, instead ,you'd like to hang out more in real life, spend some time together outside facebook, -ask him to join your for that particular movie,or to visit that particular shop etc...you know what interests you share ,no ?,... and take it from there.
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reader, cheerwhore23 +, writes (9 September 2011):
cheerwhore23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes lol we're not really married.. It's just a joke..but I'm getting really tired of explaining to people that he's not my boyfriend because he already acts like it!! But I still have this feeling that he doesn't actually like me:/
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 September 2011):
 So you have this pretend marriage going on? The last time I had a mock marriage is when I played house in kindergarten.
Anyways, if you like this guy more than just your mock husband then you need to speak up and tell him. This play marriage isn't a relationship, if it is then you're getting shafted. Tell him to cut the crap and start dating you for real.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2011): Wait. Lolz. I'm confussed. So like, is the whole marriage thing just like a joke for fb? Like your not really married. And your not dating. But u put on fb that Ur married? If that's the case, and you really like him, just tell him you like him. Tell him you think he is really sweet and everything. And see what he does. Maybe you guys could end up together. Just bc fb says your married, doesn't mean that you can't date.
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