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writes:So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now, we're both in high school. Even tho we both know its wrong, we have sex. But lately i wonder if thats the only reason he's with me. We got in a fight about a week ago. But we talked and fixed it. But since then we've only hung out once. he says he mom wont let him have me over, but a couple days ago we did get to hang out. But as soon as we got to his house, he wanted to hang out with his friends and skateboard. i didnt mind, but i ended up walking while they all skate boarded, so i was left behind. I didnt mind cuz he was happy and having fun. But when we went to go back, i decided i would just meet him at his house. but he didnt come back for a while and also didnt text me to see where i was, that bothered me a little. when he did get home, he had to go straight to work. so on his way i texted him asking if he even wanted me over, he said yes then i asked if he was sure. he said if u dont belive me, just leave. i told him i believed, cuz i didnt think it would be smart to leave while we were fighting, this way we could talk wen he got home. face to face. After work, we had to go to a school thing, so he could play in the band. and everything seemed perfect. When we finally got back to his house, he started to seem distant..again. we were sitting in a long chair him on my lap. he sat up to watch his bother play a game and brought his hand behind him and started to rub my leg( you know where im getting) so i could tell he was happy(we use that instead of horny). But all of his family were around us. He could tell i felt uncomfortable. So we went into a different room away from everybody, i knew where this was going. as soon as we layed down on the bed, he started kissing me..i could tell he really wanted to, so we did. but wen i asked to come back over the next day, he told me his mom said i couldnt. I can tell he loves and cares for me. But is sex all he wants?? help...
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 I'm sorry to say this but it seems as though it was in fact all he wanted from you. He did not even show care when you left him and his friends as they went skateboarding, he seems to neglect you far too often and somehow you still believe that he loves and cares for you? Please do not let yourself be fooled by him.
Stop having sex with him. Find out if he really does love and care for you. To be honest though, I really doubt there is much left in this 'relationship' if you can call it that. Boys his age are more hormonally and sexually driven and they will break your heart if you are not careful but who knows. I may or may not be wrong about him. Just make sure you know what it is you are getting into.
I hope that helps.
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reader, cheerwhore23 +, writes (16 October 2010):
He kinda seems a little jerkish... Like he shouldn't ditch you like that ever. And he didn't even care that u left..I would be a little bit pissed off. But that's just me. Sex is fun and stuff but if he's just using u for it that's wrong. U need to see if he actually cares about you.
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