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I am a 20 year old female living in the UK.
Ive experienced many things throught my 20 years of life. My friends and family always come to me with their problems because they know that i will listen and give them any help i can. ive advised them through relationship problems, school problems, sexuality concerns, unplanned pregnancies, money problems and many more. i know im only young and do not have much life experience to offer but ive always been mature for my age and just have a passion for helping people.
feel free to contact me if you would like help with any problem, i will do my best for you
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I am finally pregnant, how come we are not more excited?
Q. Hello Aunts and thank you in advance for any advice. Well Im 24 years old my husband is 27 and we have been married for 2 years. Well this week i found out I am pregnant this will be the first child for both of us. I was shocked to find out I was ...
A. 22 February 2010: im glad to hear you are communicating really well together! good luck with your appointment and take good care of all 3 of you xxx... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend of 5 years but she doesn't feel the same way!
Q. I have a huge problem I have been best friends with a girl for about five years now and I knew from the moment we met I was in love with her all through out the years we have known each other we have been together a lot of the time and I told her ...
A. 21 February 2010: this is a difficult one...you clearly care about this girl an awful lot.
However, she has told you that she just wants to be your friend. As her friend i think that you have a duty to respect this. Unfortunately you cannot make someone fall in ... (read in full...)
I'm Pregnant and he spiked my drink
Q. I'm almost 19 and I've been with my bf since the summer when we met at a festival and turns out he lives only a couple of miles away from me. Its sort of a semi-serious relationship we have. Anyhow we spend most of our time off our faces on dru...
A. 21 February 2010: Im sorry but im going to have to say that i dont think that you should be with this guy.
It is totally unacceptable that he spiked your drink, pregnant or not. This is not the actions of somebody who cares about you. You ended up in hospital... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 21 February 2010: personally i have not heard any research or evidence that semen is good for your skin...i cant possibly imagine how it would be. Did your boyfriend tell you this?!
i cannot see any evidence that swallowing semen will be beneficial in anyway e... (read in full...)
He wants the physical stuff, but doesn't want to use me
Q. there was this guy i dated in 7 grade and we broke up. its now been almost 1 year later and he was starting to txt me telling me how sorry he was and that he always has liked me and he is totally into me and only wants me. this went on for a few ...
A. 21 February 2010: ok hunny, well it sounds to me that this guy is just looking for someone to have physical contact with...it does not sound like he wants to be your boyfriend. He says he cares about you but basically he just wants to use you for physical contact.
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I am a girl and wondering what it would be like to kiss another
Q. I usually date guys and like to flirt around them. I use to have a boyfriend but we broke up because it wasn't working out. I just didn't feel anything when we kissed. But this week i went to a work site at Pet Clinic just for one week. There...
A. 21 February 2010: hi!
try not to worry about this. I think everything your feeling is completely natural for a girl of your age. and it doesnt mean that you are gay. I think perhaps you could be bisexual or maybe just curious. ive had relationships with men and ... (read in full...)
I am finally pregnant, how come we are not more excited?
Q. Hello Aunts and thank you in advance for any advice. Well Im 24 years old my husband is 27 and we have been married for 2 years. Well this week i found out I am pregnant this will be the first child for both of us. I was shocked to find out I was ...
A. 21 February 2010: I do not want you to worry about either of your reactions to this. This is sooooooo normal. Im training to be a midwife (nearly qualified)and i have seen this time and time again. Many people do not feel happy about their pregnancy until after the ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about my period sickness?
Q. Hello, I take to my periods very badly.. Every time I get my periods I experience Dizzyness, Feel very sick, Sore Heads, Bad moods, very sore stomach, and loose my appetite .. Should I be concerned? Thanks...
A. 19 February 2010: hi
i have exactly the same problems and have done for many years. i throw up, faint, im in extreme pain, i cant eat etc. it got to the point where i was literally bed ridden for 4 days every month during my periods which just is not practica... (read in full...)
Sex tips and techniques for a less endowed guy?
Q. Guess you can see from the title, I'm kinda worried that I won't be able to really satisfy my girl 'cause I'm not really endowed down there - and I'm actually still a virgin so I've got no real experience going into my first time. Anyway, I'm fu...
A. 18 February 2010: DO NOT look at porn movies for tips on how to satisfy your girl....
1. they will make you paranoid about the size of your mister because they usually only use men with HUGE ones. they are not representative of the national average!!
2. the... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant or have caught an STD?
Q. If I had unprotected sex but he didn't not produce inside me, is it possible that I can get pregnant or get an std?...
A. 18 February 2010: yes it is possible!
you must ensure that you use contraception, preferably condoms in the future to prevent these kind of concerns.
i suggest that you go to a sexual health clinic and ask to be screened for STD's.
xx... (read in full...)
I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...
Q. hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up...
A. 16 February 2010: your right, relationships are hard. so full of ups and downs. however, it sounds like your relationship is mostly downs and not very many ups.
i think what you need to do is think about this in a structured way because its clear that this is ... (read in full...)
What sort of weight do guys like for a girl?
Q. Okay, i just want to know what weight guys like. im 5'2 and around 109lb.. is that fat to you guys? i mean i have curves and crap and i feel fat around my friends cause the havnt hit puberty yet and their like 75-95lb.. does it make me fat? i mean i ...
A. 16 February 2010: honey, every guy likes different things. Some guys like skinny girls, some like really big girls. In my experience guys like a girl with curves!
but you really need to stop worrying....any guy that is worth being in a relationship with will lik... (read in full...)
I nearly pass out when I go to finger her! Help!
Q. Scenario: i'm getting 'close' to a girl and I go to put my hand downstairs but my heart races, so fast that I nearly pass out. What do I do? I have serious nervous issues, it's not that i'm afraid that i'll do it wrong, i'm not sure what it is. ...
A. 16 February 2010: this sounds like a classic case of nerves. This is completely natural for a first time.
You need to take things slowly. Make sure that you are both relaxed and comfortable. Try talking to her..there is nothing wrong with letting her know that you... (read in full...)
Teenage confusion over 3 guys.....
Q. Heeey everyone , soo , i kinda like this one guy , and i dont think he has any idea that i do , usually he gets the girls he wants , so because he hasnt hit on me , does that mean he has no interest on me ?? should i "chase" him ? do some guys like ...
A. 16 February 2010: ok the first guy.....do not chase him. if you like him then get to know him as a friend and see how it develops. by chasing a guy you will just end up looking a little desperate and this will probably put him off anyway.
Second guy...he probably... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I am too young to have a baby?
Q. my boyfriends want to have a baby but im only 14 and his 13 we dont even live in the same town, i want to have his baby but not this early. i need help what should i do...
A. 16 February 2010: You should not have a baby with this guy and you need to tell him straight that this is not going to happen.
you are too young to have sex. i dont know what the law is in the USA but here in the UK you need to be 16 to legally have sex. 14 is to... (read in full...)
I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...
Q. hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up...
A. 16 February 2010: you keep blaming the problems in this relationship on you. But you need to remember that he has lied to you. do you really want to be in a relationship with someone you cannot trust? you have every right to be paranoid and jealous because he has ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin at 30, I'm not sure if my moodiness is the result of sexual tension, how to deal with this?
Q. I feel embarrassed to be asking this but I'm so grateful to have the Internet and be able to ask anything anonymously. I worry about this question not being taken seriously and I worry that no one will believe me. I'm 30 years old and I've nev...
A. 16 February 2010: honey, i think you are putting far too much thought and emphasis on sex. i can understand your frustration as you have had years of wondering but i think the more you worry about it the more up-tight you will become and the more frustrated you will ... (read in full...)
I feel like I've been stabbed in the heart...
Q. I feel like I've been stabbed in the heart. My best friend has told me he started dating another girl last night - I'm devastated. i really love him and have never told him because for the past 7 months I've been supporting him over his wife lea...
A. 15 February 2010: hi there,
i know what it feels like to be in love with your best friend and have to watch them be with someone else. its the hardest thing in the world.
however, it does sound to me that this guy just wants to keep you in his life as a best f... (read in full...)
Help! I lied to him about my age and now he wants to meet up with me again. What should I do?
Q. Hey :) so the other night I was out in a bar, now strictly speaking I wouldnt be allowed in there, as i'm 17, but all my friends are 18 and I look old for my age, anyway I wasn't drinking. So yeah I got talking to some people next to me, in parti...
A. 15 February 2010: ok well firstly you know you shouldnt have lied about your age to this guy. if you ever did meet up i dont know how you could have a relationship that started with a lie. i can understand your reasons for lying but it just makes things complicated ... (read in full...)
He text me to say he has "good lean meat now"!
Q. Hi, my partner of ten years walked out on me when I was unwell about a year ago. We kept in touch and we talked all the time and he talked about getting back together. Then he suddenly switched on me. He has always complained about my size. I ...
A. 15 February 2010: firstly....there is nothing wrong with your size. be happy for who you are.
secondly....this guy doesnt sound like he has ever treated you right. He has always put you down about your size, walked out in you during illness and is now sending ... (read in full...)
Like a virgin every time!!!
Q. I feel Like i have a problem every time i have sex it feels like the first time and it hurts and the next day I'm really sore, is there something wrong with my vagina?...
A. 15 February 2010: i think part of the problem could be that you are worrying about it too much. when you worry, you tense up and its more likely to hurt. i would suggest that you make sure that you take things slowly, make sure you are comfortable and relaxed. lots ... (read in full...)
Why do I sometimes think of girls when I'm feeling horny?
Q. A lot of times when I have sex or masturbate I think about having sex with girls. I'm not attracted to girls usually and have always gone out with men. I slept with a girl once a few years ago. It was good but I didn't really fancy her, we were just ...
A. 15 February 2010: this is perfectly normal! dont worry about it at all.
you have had sex with a girl in the past so i do wonder whether you are still a little curious and thats why you have these thoughts. but being curious is fine. Its perfectly fine to think ab... (read in full...)
I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...
Q. hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up...
A. 15 February 2010: this guy is clearly your first love and i dont think anybody ever fully forgets their first love. the way you are feeling is completely natural. but this relationship is not healthy for either of you. you say that he has even said that he doesnt ... (read in full...)
I'm gay, she is straight! An unrequited love story!
Q. Hiya, I'll try to make this short (and not too boring for whoever is reading!) It's a pretty traditional story of unrequited love with a best friend, the problem is that we are both girls. I'm gay, she's straight. I told her I was gay a few years ...
A. 15 February 2010: hi,
ive been in the exact same position as you now so i know exactly how you feel.
she knows you are gay and still cuddles you and has intimate behaviour with you which does to me sound like she may like you too.
You need to talk...sh... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my gf because I am attracted to my friend - even tho she does not 'do' girls?
Q. I'm 14,female,and bi. So, I have a gf who I've been dating for almost 2 weeks, and I like her but at times my feelings for her fade away and come back later on. I've been a bit distant at times and I know that it's affecting our relation...
A. 15 February 2010: ok well firstly i think you need to end your current relationship because its not fair on your girlfriend when you have feelings for someone else. dont string her along-you say your feelings for her come and go, i really think you need to end it. it ... (read in full...)
Help me out here! What would you do in this situation?
Q. I broke up with the guy I was seeing a few weeks ago. There were alot of reasons that broke up with him, even though I cared about him a lot I couldn't see myself with him in the long run, and our personalities were not compatable in the least. Here ...
A. 15 February 2010: hi there,
i completely understand your dilemma. you cared a lot for this guy and feelings like that dont just disappear.
However, you broke up with him for a reason. you said that you were not compatible and cannot see being with him in the ... (read in full...)
MY boyfriend is telling his ex he loves her!!!!
Q. Hmm, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we've done everything. However, i went through his chat logs today and i saw that he's telling his ex that he loves her and she is saying the same back (even though she has a boyfriend ...
A. 14 February 2010: you deserve better than this. This guy does not love you if he is saying these things to his ex.
There is also no trust between you which is important for successful relationships.
End it now and move on. you will find someone who treats you w... (read in full...)
I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...
Q. hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up...
A. 14 February 2010: Ok, this relationship is not going to work if you do not trust each other. It is clear that you have no trust for him, which is understandable because he has been lying to you. you deserve better. I do not think you should be together. You ar... (read in full...)
How should I express myself?
Q. I'm a heterosexual straight guy who loves women and everything associated with them but lately there has been a guy who has me interested. we are best friends and we talk all the time( aim ) etc we go to the same school and we trust each other. im ...
A. 14 February 2010: Hi there! you are clearly curious about being with men so are probably bi-sexual but labelling yourself gay or straight will just confuse you. You say that a major attraction is that he is supportive to you. are you physically attracted to ... (read in full...)
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