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Adding some flavoring to our sexual relationship
Q. What can I do to keep sex interesting between me and and my boyfriend? We're both into romantic things but just cant think of anything. Ideas anyone?...
A. 7 June 2009: Positons, Positions, Positions! It sounds so simple, but there are so many! And even though no matter how you put it, it's sex, positions can be great for different penetration depths. They're great for different views. They give different ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him how lonely I feel?
Q. I have a bit of a problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly three years. 1 had just turned 16 when we got together, it was like we just clicked, everything was perfect. He was always so into his music, and i was so proud of his ama...
A. 6 June 2009: I doubt his band is getting all of their attention from the fact that "he's a womanizer." If I were you I wouldn't put up with that, and especially if you are supposed to marry him soon! His management may not like him openly saying that you two are ... (read in full...)
Would he like it if I did what he is doing?
Q. I'm not a jealous person and ive always taken it well when my boyfriends in the past have commented on a girl on tv or an actress and said how sexy she is. I dont really care, they're celebrities, you cant be with them, i like Daniel Craig as well ...
A. 5 June 2009: You're totally right! I understand that guys have a natural instinct to think women are attractive. And it's even okay to think it, they can't help that. But to blatantly take notice of it right in front of you is rude and inconsiderate and even a ... (read in full...)
Everything is really getting to me..I don't know whether to just pack my things and go away or what?
Q. Hi I basically just don't know what to do. I don't know whether to change my life completely. On New Years Eve I made an oath to myself that this year was going to be good. So far, its been awful. So here goes: 1. My nana died ea...
A. 5 June 2009: Getting up and going somewhere peaceful sounds like the exact thing you need! Go somewhere you love, cold, warm, tropical, city setting, go shopping, lay on a beach. You need some you time. To cope with your losses, your friends' losses, your ... (read in full...)
Snuggling...
Q. Does anyone have any tips on how to 'snuggle' with a girl? And maybe while 'snuggling' lead onto other stuf? thanks,...
A. 5 June 2009: Snuggling! :) One of my favorite things to do.
Like the others have said hold her close. Breath lightly on her neck, don't make it seem like your doing it on purpose, just rest your head near her neck and breath lightly. This will make her so t... (read in full...)
Love triangle among friends - what would you think?
Q. I want to know how different people respond to situations like this. Heres the issue. Guy A, Girl A and Girl B are both your good friends. Good as in the few of your always hang out together. whether it is a gathering, group studies or parti...
A. 5 June 2009: Well first off, don't get mad at any of them. It's their own personal decision of what they decide to do and get angry will do nothing but accidentally make you pick sides. Comfort Girls A, she is definitely going to need all the support she can ... (read in full...)
Wondering how people's 'first times' were?
Q. Okay so I've been awfully curious about how different first times having sex has gone. This isn't like an advice needed thing. I would just like to hear how male and female first times went. Did you regret it after? What made you feel like you were ...
A. 5 June 2009: Thanks guys :) This is actually all very helpful, to hear all different varieties of first times. Please keep responding!... (read in full...)
There's a difference in age and maturity...what should I do?
Q. i like this boy he's 13 and im 16..big age difference.im more womanly and filled out and mature acting and he just seems like a little innocent boy who sits back and listens to his ipod(typical 13 yr old).but he is really attractive to me for some ...
A. 5 June 2009: Unfortunately that will be illegal for the next three years. ... (read in full...)
How can I improve my self-esteem so I can enjoy my relationship to the fullest?
Q. A few years ago, I was involved in an unhealthy relationship. He cheatd on me, though I took him back only to have it happen again. I tried so hard but he just let me down, while trying to keep me running after him. I got out of there and got stro...
A. 5 June 2009: I know how you feel. I remember being so naive when it came to pain and heartbreak. Before my first heart break I trusted everyone. It didn't matter who you were or anything I didn't think one person could truly hurt another person. But I got in a ... (read in full...)
10 reasons its her fault the relationship didnt work
Q. Here are the top 10 reasons that it's HER fault the relationship didn't work. Reason 1: You aren't cool enough. Guys love cool girls, its probably our favorite characteristic for a girl we want to keep around longer than 2 hours. The problem...
A. 5 June 2009: Ginsengmeow:
Ignore him, honestly it's the majority of American men that are cocky and self absorbed like this one. Only seeing the wrong in everyone else, not themselves. They believe they're perfect. Not all, mind you. But QUITE a few. ... (read in full...)
After 11 years together, he got drunk and cheated, can this be fixed?
Q. Dear Cupid.. I've been with my fiance for 11 years. 3 of those years we have been engaged. We pretty much grew together. We met when I was 18 and he was 23. I'm now 30..Anyway, Saturday night he walked down to the local bar, something he will usu...
A. 4 June 2009: I think this is fixable. It will take some time for you to regain your trust but eventually you will. It sounds like he was good enough to actually tell you that he cheated (which most guys arent, so be appreciative!) so he must love you very much. ... (read in full...)
Should I risk losing her, by telling her of my one night stand?
Q. Hi I've been with this girl for a little over a year and I think I've fallen in love with her. We talk about our future, gettigng married one dy and have our own family. In the last month and a half or so I've noticed she's become a little distant...
A. 4 June 2009: Okay, you should definitely tell her. It would be unfair not to. If you two are as in love as you seem to believe you probably can work through your problems. Both of you need to talk about what's going on, you with your cheating, and her with ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my 11 year old cousin that I love her?
Q. Hi i am an 18 year old boy and last week i met my cousin who is 11years old actually i met her for the very first time...we had nice time and became really very close.but i have fallen in love with her i am too much attracted to her. What shall i ...
A. 4 June 2009: I would like to point out that i did not do my research previously and did not know you are from India. Disregard my previous statement. I have no idea what is acceptible in Indian culture. I apologize. But Americans or people of similar cutures ... (read in full...)
Why does age difference make less of an impact as you get older?
Q. Why is it that when a girl is 16 years old and a guy is 19 years old and they are dating, it seems like a large age gap. However, when the girl is 17/18 and the guy is 20/21 it doesn't really seem like a big deal. Is it because at 17 your ...
A. 4 June 2009: I think that it has something to do with the stages that you're in, in your life at that point. A 16 year old is just starting to drive, excited about things like concerts and hanging out with groups of friends. A 19 year old is probably consumed in ... (read in full...)
Why do I question being with him?
Q. Im so confused, im 22 been with my boyfriend 4 years, hes great, always there for me so romantic, loving caring, good job good morals, but ive broken up with him 3 times before as i wanted to play the field as i got with him so young and he was my ...
A. 4 June 2009: I think that though you are safe with him, that's the only thing you really like about the relationship. It doesn't sound like (and this will be very corny, but true) you two have that spark. I think the love between the both of you has run it's ... (read in full...)
He masturbates almost every night but has had sex with me only once in a month
Q. My boyfriend and I just recently been reunited. He was in basic training and has just recently finished in which I moved across the country to be with him. Since we've been back together our sex life sucks. I'm not sure whats wrong but I know he ...
A. 4 June 2009: Maybe in basic training he became so accustomed to that it's like a habit. Really and this may not be very helpful and kind of obvious, but maybe you should just talk to him. Or even you could go out and by some sexy lingerie, suit up and set a sexy ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to think I'll just drop everything and keep running back to him
Q. ere's the situation: We've been dating for awhile. It's a long distance relationship, but we both went into the relationship knowing it wasn't going to be easy. He said we were in it for the long haul; good or bad. We got into an argument t...
A. 4 June 2009: As someone who is in a long distance relationship I find this extremely scary. I understand the kind of commitment you two put into the relationship from the start. Long distance relationships are no two week type deal. You have to really like... or ... (read in full...)
I have such raging hormones...is this normal?
Q. im a 14 year old girl and lately my hormones have been raging(i think). i finger myself literally everyday(clit not inside the vagina..) because it relaxes me and while doing that i look at videos of people kissing or something(i know thats wierd) ...
A. 4 June 2009: This is perfectly natural for someone your age. You are becoming a woman, you're feeling new feelings and your body is starting new processes. Every girl feels these things to different degrees. Some girls feel strong urges and others just slight ... (read in full...)
Why is alcohol so popular? Can it help me become less... shy?
Q. it seems like everybody nowadays loves alcohol. i've never consumed it. can you tell me why it is EXTREMELY POPULAR? also, will drinking alcohol help me socially b/c i'm one of those shy, insecure people and i was wondering if having a drink or...
A. 4 June 2009: I used to consume alcohol but have decided to stop drinking. It was "fun" I guess. I think it will make you less shy for the time being, but probably not in a good way. And it certainly won't make you yourself less shy as a person. From my ... (read in full...)
He does not acknowledge the existence of his ex-girlfriend, any cause for concern?
Q. Should I be concerned if my boyfriend is bitter about his ex-girlfriend? He won't acknowledge her existence. ...
A. 4 June 2009: Thanks so much:)... (read in full...)
Why do people tell you, that you resemble someone unattractive?
Q. I hate when this happens. I am African-American and often, white people or non-blacks tell me I resemble someone who is very unattractive. Today someone told me that I look like Condellezza Rice! That is the worst insult I've ever received. Blac...
A. 4 June 2009: It's not subject to specific races. It's not just white people who think this way of black people. Most races, though they can see that they obviously don't all look alike, think that other races all look the same. With the white race hair color, ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my 11 year old cousin that I love her?
Q. Hi i am an 18 year old boy and last week i met my cousin who is 11years old actually i met her for the very first time...we had nice time and became really very close.but i have fallen in love with her i am too much attracted to her. What shall i ...
A. 4 June 2009: Well being that you are 18 years old and she is 11 and any sexual interactions between the two of you would be extremely illegal I would say no, you shouldn't tell her and you shouldn't act on it. But that would only be an issue if she wasn't ... (read in full...)
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