Funk on the chunk
Q. I'm supposed to go down on my boyfriend tonight and I don't want to. The first and only time I did it, I decided it should be the last. I've had other boyfriends and had no problem doing it, actually I liked it. But my boyfriend is uncut and there ...
A. 24 April 2009: I agree with everyone else, he just might not be using enough soap on the boys when he showers...Especially since he is uncut it means he should spend more time washing especially under the foreskin because gross bacteria can get trapped in there. ... (read in full...)
Why don't I fancy him? He's Perfect!
Q. Im so inlove with my boyfriend ,he is the sweetest kindest most loving person there is . He absolutly adores me .. we have been going out for three years now .. sounds blissful doesnt it? everyone envys my handsome loving boyfriend ,he is really ...
A. 24 April 2009: It's not uncommon for girls to be frustrated in the bedroom. Sex is easy for men: Insert Tab A into Slot B and hump like hell.
Try being more intimate with your man, this can foster a healthy sexual relationship. So try to kiss him througho... (read in full...)
Her parents are very protective and get in the way of our relationship
Q. I am fifteen and so is my girlfriend, we are both about to turn 16 in a few months, and we have been dating for a few weeks. the problem is that her parents are very protective: ie. we went to a movie and her dad had to stay in the theater, and we ...
A. 24 April 2009: I think it would be a good idea to get together with your girlfriend and talk with her parents. Let them get to know you so they don't think you're some sort of crazed axe murderer.
I bet if you prove they can trust you, they will let you two ... (read in full...)
Prom is in 2 days but I'm terrified of dancing in public!
Q. Sort of vaguely related to relationships, so I figure I'd ask here anyway. I'm 19 and a Freshmen in college, my boyfriend is 18 and a Senior in high school. His senior prom is this Saturday the 25. I am, as his girlfriend, obviously going ...
A. 24 April 2009: Thanks for the replies. I talked with my boy and I feel better about it. He told me we don't have to dance every dance, and that the ones we do dance to we can dance together (ie. like slow dancing but to peppier songs). I like that.
We danced t... (read in full...)
Stretch marks!
Q. I've said this before but I'm going to say it again so that I can get as much help as I can get. I have stretch marks on my boobs, they aren't even big, only a size B and I'm size 10 and have been for a long time, so I haven't gained or lost weight. ...
A. 23 April 2009: Well, my boyfriend doesn't mind mine all that much. I am a size two right now, I was a size 0-1 before I started taking a medication that made me gain 15lbs in about 6months. I have stretchmarks on my hips, my butt, and on the inside sides of my ... (read in full...)
Husband seems unattracted to me only after 1 1/2 years of marriage. :(
Q. I need help with my marriage. I've only been married for 1 1/2 years and I feel like my marriage is already getting stale. My biggest problem is my insecurity with my body. I've always had high self esteem until I got married. My husband LOVES big ...
A. 19 March 2009: I think you and he need to talk. All men love boobies, and it sounds like he likes 'em big. But you know what? It could be that he just loves all kinds of boobs. Guys don't have them so they're not so picky about what sort boobs are, really.
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Why did she suddenly admit that she loves me after all these years?
Q. Hi. I've been friends with this girl since we were teenagers and I've been in love with her since we became friends. It must be thirteen years all in all. She's the most beautiful woman I have ever laid my eyes on, we share the same interests, she ...
A. 19 March 2009: That's great really, that she loves you too. She might have never noticed that you were interested. She might have just put you in the friend category, before opening her eyes and seeing that there was a real opportunity for a relationship there. ... (read in full...)
HELP! What should I do? I really, really, really like him a lot.
Q. Well ... There's this guy at my school and I kinda like him and I think that maybe .. maybe ... There's still feelings between us. We were never together, but my friends and his friends assumed that we were because of the way we acted. We never ...
A. 19 March 2009: It's possible because you like him, you are seeing these things in his relationship, like his girlfriend not acting like she should. Or that he always looks at you. But if you're sure that she's aloof and that he is interested in you, then it cha... (read in full...)
A month after the break up coffee date: First step to winning her back????
Q. So, my girlfriend broke up with me about thirty days ago. After the break things were cool until about a week later when we were hanging out and she was blatantly flirting with another guy. The next morning I explained that I thought it was rude ...
A. 18 March 2009: Uh, it sounds like she's done with you and that she wants to move on. I don't think you'll be getting her back. Possibly she wasn't even trying to hurt your feelings when she was flirting, she's back on the market and likely rebounding.
You s... (read in full...)
What would a genuine man be looking for in a good friendship with a woman?
Q. Any advice about forming a beautiful friendship with a decent man? What would a genuine man be looking for in a good friendship with a woman?...
A. 18 March 2009: All guys who aren't total dicks and who are actually interested in committing aren't cookie cut outs of each other. Every guy is different. Instead of wondering how to attract a man, just be yourself and approach the guys YOU are interested in!... (read in full...)
I am not turned on any more at all!
Q. I am a lesbian and me and my girlfriend have been together for almost six months.... and our sex life is so boring no. Do you think that we should have waited instead of having sex so soon?? It's not her it's really me, I am not turned on any more ...
A. 18 March 2009: Possibly you might be leaning more towards Bisexualism, but you're the judge on that.
Also, it's winter time and the doldrums set in. You and your gal should try and spice your love life up with romantic dates, new toys, new things to try, etc... (read in full...)
After a year of sex, I've never had an orgasm..how do I tell my b/f?
Q. I think all of us girls (and most of the guys out there) are perfectly aware that it is not only normal but common for a woman to only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. But, I think my boyfriend doesn't know that this is the case. Because I am lou...
A. 18 March 2009: Firstly, thanks for the hair response, but actually I've dealt with it. I've found something that works really well, but REGARDLESS since I lived for so long with hair, I sort of have a complex about my vagina. I'm not 100% comfortable spreading my ... (read in full...)
My sister wanted me to spy on her fiance..do I tell her what I found?
Q. my sister sent ne on a mission to spy on her fiance. their wedding wud take place in three weeks. well, i got to find out he has an affair wt his coleague at work and when i caught him red handed in an eatery, hugging her, saying bye see u later , ...
A. 17 March 2009: I think, instead of going to her yourself, you and he should talk together and then the BOTH of you go talk with your sister.
It sounds to me like he is really finished with his relationship with this woman. I don't know the time, but it also sou... (read in full...)
Stay with the girlfriend or just keep moving on?
Q. I've been with her officially for 3 months now and I was seeing her for 4 months before we actually got together. The thing is, things were alot better before we actually got into a relationship. Things weren't complicated, we got along sooo so ...
A. 17 March 2009: I have a good friend with a girlfriend much like yours. It might be hard to hear since you love her, but she is a B-I-T-C-H in all caps.
She's using you, possibly to make herself feel better or possibly just because she likes being in control ... (read in full...)
Am I going to bleed or not?
Q. I was molested when I was really small and I'm about to get married in a months time..... and now I'm just worried if I am going to bleed on my wedding night when I have sex? Am I going to bleed or not? And will the guy be able to tell whether ...
A. 17 March 2009: The questions really lies in whether or not your hymen is intact. If you had vaginal intercourse as a child, it could be damaged a little bit or be gone entirely.
If it was damaged, then you will likely still bleed. But it is possible that it ... (read in full...)
I like my daughter's coach!
Q. I am a single mum who has a nine year old daughter. my daughter has recently started tennis lessons and her male coach is very nice very good looking..and single!! Is it wrong to ask him out as he is my daughters coach and how are some ways i can ...
A. 17 March 2009: I don't think there's anything wrong with it. You are two consenting adults and if you are interested in him, it seems like a good idea. Plus,if he is coaching your daughter, then she probably has a good relationship with him too.
Inste... (read in full...)
Pain free & free of charge way to make penis bigger
Q. Hey iam 17 and I have a smal penis and I was jst basicly asking if anyone knows a pain free and free of charge way to enlarge a penis because I have no confidence iam afraid to show my gf and we have been dating for a year So pls someone help...
A. 17 March 2009: There is nothing that will change your penis size for real. Pumps work in the short term, but don't actually change anything...
Really, you need to come to terms with it. Firstly, most men mis-assume that all girls want to take a 10 inch dick. Th... (read in full...)
G/f depressed because she's obese
Q. My girlfriend is depressed because she’s obese. She’s tried quite a lot of diets but nothing seems to work as she gives up after a couple of weeks. Generally I’d say she eats about the same amount that I do and if anything I’m underweight. What can ...
A. 17 March 2009: Firstly, diets don't work. What you need to do with her is see a dietitian. Then the doctor can set up a good diet, not like diet--south beach, but like diet--what you eat.
Try and limit her intake of sweets. Focus on lots of veggies and rice, as... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants her & me!
Q. I am in a dilemna and could really use your help! Where to start. I started dating my bf in February 2005, we had some problems later that year and he turned to someone else. We worked out our problems and everything was great until recently. ...
A. 17 March 2009: Unless you can come to terms with her and share (which is nearly impossible) you have to make a hard decision.
Firstly, you're way too old to be dealing with this stuff. I'm assuming he is the same age as you, shouldn't he be less immature... (read in full...)
How do I break this insane jealousy?
Q. Ive been with a guy for 9 months!! its been amazing the first 2 months.. but then weve started fighting over the stupidest things. the past!! we both had a really hard time getting over the drug use(his more then mine) and sexually past(mine more ...
A. 17 March 2009: Jealousy is a big old trap. I'm pretty jealous, but then again so is my boyfriend.
I think with girls, a lot of jealousy comes from really loving a boy. If you love someone, you never ever want to lose them and it scares you that they might fi... (read in full...)
She says its painful and too much friction
Q. Whenever me and my girlfriend have sex it feels really good for her except for right after she climaxes. Right after that point she says that it hurts and has a "friction feeling" and we are forced to stop with or without me cumming. We try to...
A. 17 March 2009: What happens when a girl climaxes is, simply, that the tissue engorges with blood slightly and becomes a bit tighter due to spasming within the vagina. At that point, your penis starts to scrape because it's too tight for her.
I am in a relation... (read in full...)
I'm bothered by the fact that my boyfriend's not a virgin...
Q. I'm 19 this year, and my boyfriend is 22. After dating for one month plus, I found out that he's not a virgin. I came from a conservative family and I'm quite bothered by it. I don't know what should I do now....
A. 17 March 2009: At 19, I am no longer a virgin. I've only slept with one other person, my boyfriend of nearly two years. He was my first. I was his...second. I knew that he was not a virgin long before we started dating (we were friends for two years before we got ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend watches porn when I'm asleep.
Q. my boyfriend watches porn when i am asleep! i feel like i am not good enough for him or i am not satisfying him. i feel like i cant be as good as porn stars so he will want to finish me!! please help!!...
A. 24 February 2009: See, him watching porn can be a result of many things. Since you're sleeping, he might not want to wake you up to satisfy his sexual needs. It's true he might be unsatisfied with your sex life. He might also have embarrassing kinks that he doesn't ... (read in full...)
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