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reader, Annabelle649  +, writes (18 March 2009):
Annabelle649 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionVIA CON DIOS.
What a amazing answer and thank you for your best wishes
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reader, Annabelle649 +, writes (18 March 2009):
Annabelle649 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFor pvtguy In answer to his question: Can you please define "genuine man"?He has values that I admire. He is genuinely interested in what I have to say. He has admirable goals that I would also aspire to live by. He is able to inspire....
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reader, Annabelle649 +, writes (18 March 2009):
Annabelle649 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Denny. Your reply made me want to cry. You know in a good way. He is speaking to me in a very straight way at the moment. It is so hard to know what he is thinking and feeling in this weird cyber world. Words can be interpreted in so many different ways especially through an on line 'relationship'! How do I know how to interpret his comments when I read them purely in an emotional way?
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reader, Annabelle649 +, writes (18 March 2009):
Annabelle649 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everybody. I see the general advice is to be myself and go for it. Very comforting. Much appreciated
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reader, CandyCakes  +, writes (18 March 2009):
All guys who aren't total dicks and who are actually interested in committing aren't cookie cut outs of each other. Every guy is different. Instead of wondering how to attract a man, just be yourself and approach the guys YOU are interested in!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): HiIf you are looking for forming a special friendship....special is not easy to come by,because they are special and quite unique. SPECIAL BEAUTIFUL FREINDSHIPS USUALLY FIND US and if we have to SEARCH be prepared for some that do not live up to your ideal. But all friendships/ relationship's are a great experience challenge, we learn a lot about ourselves good and bad. FORMED IS SHAPED??I wish you luck and a BEAUTIFUL friendship. A beautiful friendship ... can happen like a paper bag blowing in the wind, it does not always have to be formed...it HAPPENS! And that paper bag is on your door step..the wind blew it to you...with LOVE.just hope its not a doggy poop a scoop bag! VIA CON DIOS.
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reader, Annabelle649 +, writes (18 March 2009):
Annabelle649 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the reply Denny.
I have been writing to this guy for about 7 months. I am currently separated and the on-line friendship I have formed with this guy has been magical and empowering. However he says that he only wants to meet up as friends. I feel very sad as I have imagined that there might be more between us. I don't know whether I will just cause myself pain by meeting up with him on these terms. Any advice?
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reader, Annabelle649 +, writes (18 March 2009):
Annabelle649 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat is a really good answer. Thanks. If he says that he only wants friendship, is there ever any chance that this might lead to a loving relationship in the future? Or is it likely that friendship puts a dampener on romantic feelings?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): He'd be looking for a woman who is genuine and decent as well! With little information or clarity of what else you want to know, it is simple...be yourself, be real, be loving and caring!
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reader, Pointblank66 +, writes (18 March 2009):
Just someone that he could kickback with. Most of my female friends are just overall fun to be with and i always have a good time with them. so be yourself and i'm sure you'll make a great friendship
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