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writes:Well ... There's this guy at my school and I kinda like him and I think that maybe .. maybe ... There's still feelings between us.We were never together, but my friends and his friends assumed that we were because of the way we acted. We never kissed or did anything like that. It was just in the way we acted.But a few months ago, a girl confessed to him and he courted her and even though she rejected him the first day, she said yes the next day. They just had their Monthsary (sorry, iunno how to spell it) a few days ago and they didn't even do anything to celebrate it. He just gave her a teddy bear and a hug. She didn't do anything back and even though their already together, she keeps on playing hard to get.Their relationship bothered me at first but then I accepted it and just lived life... That is, of course, until I caught him staring at me.He doesn't always stare at me when his girlfriend's around, he just gives me a glance. But when I asked my friend about it, she said that there were sparkles in his eyes when he looked/stared at me.We don't talk anymore, not much anyway. We're not close. But we're not strangers either.And when he overheard one of my friends talking about this guy that I considered as cute, he looked pissed. Like he was about to hit something. My friend asked him if he was okay and she said he didn't answer and just looked kinda sad ...HELP! What should I do? I really, really, really like him a lot. He's not doing anything to hurt his gf and he's definitely not the type of guy who cheats. I don't know what to do anymore, he's driving me crazy.He always stares at me from a distance but when he goes near me, he panics and ends up ignoring me instead.Please help ....
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reader, CandyCakes  +, writes (19 March 2009):
It's possible because you like him, you are seeing these things in his relationship, like his girlfriend not acting like she should. Or that he always looks at you.But if you're sure that she's aloof and that he is interested in you, then it changes things. But maybe why she seems aloof is because she feels awkward and embarrassed in public doing things with him. I was such a dork when I started dating my boyfriend I felt weird holding hands and kissing, so it could be that.But it could be that he accepted her just to try things out but he really likes you.I would talk to him if I were you, about his relationship. Ask him if he thinks its going well with her and if he really enjoys her company and likes her. If he does, don't break them up just wait to see if it doesn't work out. If he says no, tell him how you feel.
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