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writes:I been with my girlfriend for 6months. Our relationship is great. We doesn't like to have sex everyday, but it's okay, when we do she gets pains down below after 10mins and I always have to stop as she claims to feel diZy and in pain and it ends badly. I feel unsatisfied yet it's not major problem. I am out of town for few weeks and all she is talking about is sex and how she needs me now. This is incredibly annoying when I have been having shit sex for 6months and than she has the nerve to blame me for not being there to give it? She refuses to go doctor. Rather than arguing I jus say no sex. I'd rather have no sex than have poor sex and than get annoyed after. I told her, again doesn't want doctor. To get annoyed about sex in relationship sounds pathetic, so do I jus put up with it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (10 July 2013):
 And to add to SVC's post, if she's not really aroused and ready, her vagina will not have done the usual expanding and lengthening that accompanies sexual arousal. http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/sexual-response-cycle
Which will make intercourse uncomfortable.
If you are hitting her cervix with thrusts then it's really uncomfortable and painful.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 July 2013):
 is she well lubricated when you have sex? lack of lube can hurt...
are you only using ONE position? if so then it's possible you are "bottoming out" so to speak and when you thrust you hit her cervix which moves her uterus, fallopian tubes and ovaries.. imgaine being kicked in the balls every time you thrust during sex and tell me if you would enjoy that....
sex for women is not about penetration but rather the closeness and the foreplay and the attention... mostly for guys it's about the big finish...
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reader, boogie4 +, writes (10 July 2013):
Hey there,
Sorry to read about this. I've been in the same situation and I would suggest you keep emphasizing that she go see a doctor. It could be an STD, or anything for that matter. And if sex is painful, it won't get any better until you are both more educated and informed of what is happening with her body. Hope this helps!
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