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How can I maintain an erection?

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Question - (23 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *nomonous661991 writes:

Hello, I'm a nineteen year old lad who is currently in a relationship with a older woman who has kids. Everything is going well, we are both in love an me an her kids get on really well, there is only one problem. When me an my girlfriend have sex I can't last very long, only about two or three minutes an I feel really bad on my girlfriend as I feel I'm not satisfying her sexually. There has been times where our sex has lasted longer an I've felt I've pleased her, but this is often. Sometimes I've not been able to get hard either from time to time an this makes me feel so embarrassed. I sometimes think that my cock doesn't get hard enough an thats why it goes on flop an i cant get hard again. She tells me that it doesn't matter an she loves me but I don't want her to feel like that so I need some advice on what to do. Should I see a doctor an tell him the same as what I've said here? I have tried takin pills to help, horny goat weed which does help me to get hard but doesn't stop me from cuming so fast. I have tried herbal Viagra which does help but I get a rash from using it an I don't want to have use pills. Any advice u can give me would be a great help. Thank you an hope to hear from you soon

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010):

See a doctor would be the best advice, don't worry - this is normal, lots of people suffer from it. Hopefully your doctor will help you

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A male reader, boogie4 United States +, writes (23 November 2010):

Yeah, the only way to make yourself last longer, is you have to do "self-stimulation"...then stop before climaxing. Treat it like an exercise. Then after a while, you will notice it will take you a little longer and longer to climax.

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A male reader, Welsh Uncle Dave United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2010):

in terms of premature ejaculation, try getting her to masturbate or suck you off until you cum first. Then when you have sex a bit later on you should last longer.

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