My uncle is the 'town nutjob'...what can I do to get him from hurting our family?
Q. My uncle is ruining our lives. He (Let's just call him "Bob") lives on the same street as us and he is becoming absolutely unbearable. I have felt increasingly suicidal due to this man and he is making me ill. I do not want to be related to him as ...
A. 18 January 2008: I agree with you there, going to church every Sunday so that you can act how you like the rest of the week is missing the point altogether! My uncle does indeed do this as you say, he's nice to the priests but as soon as he gets home it's like he ... (read in full...)
My uncle is the 'town nutjob'...what can I do to get him from hurting our family?
Q. My uncle is ruining our lives. He (Let's just call him "Bob") lives on the same street as us and he is becoming absolutely unbearable. I have felt increasingly suicidal due to this man and he is making me ill. I do not want to be related to him as ...
A. 16 January 2008: I do appreciate people taking time to read my question, but the issue is not actually my relationship with God. I wish people could understand that I don't want to become like my uncle and do all the horrible things he does and excuse them away by ... (read in full...)
If he's so attracted to me, why doesn't he want to get physical?
Q. I've been VERY close with my guy friend for about 5 months(we seen each other EVERY DAY and never tire!). We've talked about dating, or fooling around at least, but when the kiss that I expected NEVER came, I called him on it. (I've tried once ...
A. 10 January 2008: I'm glad advice from everyone helped :) would you mail me and let me know how it goes? xxxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is such a flirt with other girls!
Q. My boyfriend has a very outgoing and flirty personality. So when other girls are flriting with him he first of all doesn't see it, and second of all flirts back because he is just being nice. How do I get over my jealousy when he is flirting with ...
A. 8 January 2008: My advice would to be treat him like a child, don't take it seriously. A belittling attitude will put him off it, the next time he flirts with some girl, roll your eyes and laugh or smile mockingly (not a huge cackle, he may think you've lost your ... (read in full...)
Should I be pregnant at this age?
Q. Me and my boyfriend has had sex without a condom loads off times in the past month to hav a baby because last year we found out i was pregnant but got an abortion because we was not ready but now i dont no if i am pregnant now because i hav just ...
A. 8 January 2008: Do you want your boyfriend to go to prison for years? Sorry I don't mean to lecture you, I understand people of different ages get feelings that make them want to have children, however, at 13-15 you should put these feelings aside and realise you ... (read in full...)
If he's so attracted to me, why doesn't he want to get physical?
Q. I've been VERY close with my guy friend for about 5 months(we seen each other EVERY DAY and never tire!). We've talked about dating, or fooling around at least, but when the kiss that I expected NEVER came, I called him on it. (I've tried once ...
A. 8 January 2008: I can understand your confusion, you say he is a ladies man and yet he does not want to get close to you in that way!
I get the feeling that you are possibly one of the only women he respects as more than a "fling" he also does intend giving u... (read in full...)
My husband of 7 years asked me to put my finger in his butt during sex... Does that make him gay?
Q. My husband of 7 years ask for me to put a finger in his butt when i go down on him and his favorite position is doggy style does this make him gay?????...
A. 10 December 2007: No, your guy may have his kinks but that certainly does not prove he is gay. If I were you I would not ask him that question as it may spring to his mind the next time you two are having sex and make things awkward!
My advice is to not read so ... (read in full...)
When my clothes come off I tense up and loose my erection! What should I do??
Q. I have no problem getting erections while masterbating or anytime but when me and my girlfriend are getting into it and my clothes come off i tense up and loose my erection! what should I do??...
A. 19 November 2007: It sounds like nerves, I'm the same with my boyfriend (I'm female) and I just freeze and can't get into it sometimes. It's easy to say "don't put pressure on yourself" but during the actual act, a sort of panic attack happens and nothing can get you ... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid, worrying about the old row we had?
Q. Am I being paranoid? I asked my boyfriend if an arguement we had a while ago is affecting us, he said no, it is dealt with etc...things are really good between us but that makes me even more suspicious I mean what if he is acting nice so he can fool ...
A. 26 September 2007: Thanks, I've forced myself not to bring it up and things seem to be going good, thanks for helping me see some logic :)... (read in full...)
I like him but he keeps pressuring me for sex! Should I dump him?
Q. hey i am 13 years old and same with me boyfriend. on the very first night he kept asking me to do bj's with him and made me feel very uncomfortable. I confronted him about it and he said that he was sorry, but he keeps asking me to like take showers ...
A. 28 August 2007: I'm glad to hear it, this experience shows waht some guys can be like and I'm happy you came off better than some girls do :) ... (read in full...)
I'm 28 and a virgin. Sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't wait for someone special?
Q. Hi, I´m a 28 yrs old female virgin too (seems that are a lot of us around here). In my case, it havent´t happened for lack of opportunity. I´ve been always been too "right". With my first boyfriend, when I was about to do, he dumped me. Then nev...
A. 28 August 2007: This is something to look at positively, not negatively: you are not a victim of an STD, you have no unwanted preganancy and have no bad reputation. That's the good part. It feels right for people at different ages, I think you should indeed wa... (read in full...)
Our friend is a liar, and a self harmer and we are at the end of our tether! Please advise..
Q. okay how can i put this, well one of my best friends is, lets say an attention seeker, but its getting quite serious she makes up stuff fo attention and now belives it herself. She used to self harm really badly but we got her to go an see a coun...
A. 28 August 2007: This girl sounds very troubled. Counselling doesn't help everyone, but what has she got to lose by trying it? Maybe you should encourage her? I used to self harm but told nobody except people I knew who would not spread it around, so I can see an ... (read in full...)
I like him but he keeps pressuring me for sex! Should I dump him?
Q. hey i am 13 years old and same with me boyfriend. on the very first night he kept asking me to do bj's with him and made me feel very uncomfortable. I confronted him about it and he said that he was sorry, but he keeps asking me to like take showers ...
A. 17 June 2007: If he can't get it through hii head a few times he will just keep pressurrisng you. He said he was sorry but still kept asking...it doesn't add up, he clearly is not sorry at all and is just biding his time until you agree to do what he wnats. ... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex back ? He said that I have abused him for too long.
Q. I did not get any responses to help me in my torture at the moment! So, posting another cry for help! Thanks for your patience and time to read again! How do I get my ex back ? He said that I have abused him for too long and that he was OUT of i...
A. 17 June 2007: This sounds like an unstable relationship I'm sorry to say....maybe if you both took the time to calm down and act rationally rather than abusing eachother you could make a go of this.
Calmness is the answer.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
She's a lesbian and I love her but I'm not ready to come out of the closet.
Q. dear cupid, a good friend of over 3 years has just come out and has now said that she is in love with me and has been for a while..we are now involved in a very intense relationship, we have a major problem, she wants me to come out, and i told her ...
A. 17 June 2007: oK, if you're saying you don't feel like a lesbian maybe you just feel an intense friendship for this girl and have been through a lot with her?
I have had girlfirend sbefore (I am female) so can easily distinguish between love as afriend ... (read in full...)
I lied to him about an abortion. He got back with his ex. I still love him. We've kissed but he doesn't feel the same way! What should I do?
Q. To cut a long story short, I've liked this guy for over a year and a half now. We had oral sex and I lied about being pregnant and having an abortion because he got back with his ex after, but he doesn't believe me. Since they have split up and we ...
A. 17 June 2007: The only doing stuff when drunk and lying about an abortion proves that this is not a relationship that could be anything other than warped.
You need to make a clean break from this guy and start again finding someone that is not going to push you... (read in full...)
After me and my gf broke up, I feel like my life is falling apart. Please give me some advice.
Q. Hey guys, My life is slowly falling apart, i'm depressed and really don't know what to do from here, hope u guys can give me some advice... I just broke up with my gf of 2 years, im 22, shes 21. She says she lost feelings for me, that her feeling...
A. 3 October 2006: My heart goes out to you. It's easy to say "time heals" but I recently broke up with a boy of 2 and a half years, I couldn't go to work I was so down. Do you know what i did? I stopped being close-minded and looked at how lucky I was to have such ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being overly paranoid about my bf?
Q. Hey everyone My problem is that im being majorly over paranoid and im not sure what to do My bf is away at the moment and will be for roughly another 3 weeks He is great and sometimes sends me really sweet texts but if i dont here from hm i beg...
A. 3 October 2006: I think if he is normally sweet, then you have nothing to worry about, but if he is sending these "sweet texts" completely out of character then he could be hiding something.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure how to tell my parents that I'm expecting a child, I'm still their baby...
Q. I am a 21 year old female and my partner is 26 and we have just found out that i am expecting our child. I was scared at first but soon came around, we are both madly in love with eachother and we both know that we will always be together but i ...
A. 4 May 2006: You are 21 years old. It is YOUR life not theirs and you should tell them you hope they are proud that you are going to be a mother soon... (read in full...)
What is my "sweaty" date doing in the toilet?
Q. Everytime me and my new bf go on a date to a restaurant he does the same thing. Well as soon as were seated; he looks uncomfortable and then excuses himself to go to the bathroom. He's usually in there for about 10 minutes; and then we he comes ...
A. 4 May 2006: If he is maybe take it as a compliment?... (read in full...)
I seperated from my husband and now I'm attracted to our mutual friend. What should I do?
Q. My husband cheated on me and we separated earlier this year. My divorce is almost through and I now find myself attracted to some one else. The problem is that he was a friend to both me and my ex. I've kept in touch with this gut since the split ...
A. 4 May 2006: Honestly, I think that your husband betraying you should remain in your mind here. He cheated on you, end of, he has NO right to complain if you date ANYBODY. This guy you talk of sounds like a lovely person, he is also great with your children ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got a pig and now I'm being ignored!
Q. Hi, I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 28. Recently he got a new pet pig, and has become obsessed with him, spending all his free time with the pig, taking him out on rides, and playing with him. I feel upset; he seems to be ignoring me, and our relat...
A. 4 May 2006: Well have you ever had a new pet? He's not used to having the pet, and the worst thing you can do is complain as he will see it as uneccessary jealousy. Let the novelty wear off and soon things will be fine.... (read in full...)
I found out he keeps texting his ex's and other girls. I can't live like this!
Q. I can't help feeling like I have to snoop on my bf. We broke up before when I found out that he was texting his ex and when I asked him about it he lied...we had another break up when he was texting some girl all nite when he told me he had no ...
A. 4 May 2006: The fact that he feels the need to lie proves that something is amis, however, I am not taking sides by any means, but have you made him feel like he has to lie? Texting someone of the opposite sex is not classed as cheated, yet he lies about ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin at 29. I want to lose it, what should I do?
Q. Virgin at 29 Years I know this may seem weird but it is true. I am 29 yr old woman, who is asking for your help. I am still a virgin. I go out sometimes. In a month i may go out 3 times. I work, l have a good job good life. But i am ready t...
A. 4 May 2006: Why do you want to lose it so badly? Look at the problems cause by sex: diseases, hurt, betrayal etc. You are worth more than the simple category of "virgin/non-virgin" do it when it feels right for YOU not when society says you should lose it. ... (read in full...)
He wants his ex back, but I like him. Should I go for it?
Q. I really like this guy, but he is still totally hung up over his ex and he is after getting back with her. Do i make a move or wait?...
A. 4 May 2006: Oh dear...if you make a move, you could end up getting badly hurt as he could see you as an oppertunity to make her jealous. Therefore you will just be used and end up hurt. Don't be used, wait for it, and if he shows no signs of getting back with ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl, should I go for it?
Q. please publish as i am desperate for an answer. two yesrs ago a girl and i relly liked each other, each night we would talk to each other. after a while she aquired a new number but i never bothered to ask her for it. i dream about her a few times ...
A. 4 May 2006: Maybe you not asking for her new number made her think you were not interested? Ask her for her new number and gradually build up to asking her out, as if you ask her out point blank she may not expect it. Become good friends again would be my ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants arthritis, I'm not quite sure what to do about this.
Q. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 20. He wants arthritis and insists: "People with arthritis have the best sex lives and lives in general. Arthritis is cool" What should I do? Our relationship was good up until now. Dannii in Leeds...
A. 4 May 2006: My grandmother has arthritus, and it has made her an INCREDIBLY bad tempered woman. Your boyfriend, if he did have arthritus, would most likely be in extreme agony for a long time and be too moody to have sex anyway! I sure have seen the fights her ... (read in full...)
He had an affair with this woman, and I don't know how she could do this...
Q. My husband had an affair. We are working through the aftermath of pain and we are happier than we have been for a long time. However, I am having a problem with my anger at his mistress. She has set herself up as an agony aunt for betrayed women. ...
A. 4 May 2006: I understand your anger as she is comforting numerous betrayed women, yet she has betrayed YOU and quite possibly a FEW other women herself! I know from experience that there is nothing worse than a homewrecker pretending to be an angel. However, ... (read in full...)
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