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female
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30-35,
*o_in_love
writes:To cut a long story short, I've liked this guy for over a year and a half now. We had oral sex and I lied about being pregnant and having an abortion because he got back with his ex after, but he doesn't believe me. Since they have split up and we have kissed a few times and done stuff when drunk. But I know it means nothing to him. I'm really in love with him, but he doesn't feel the same, I just know it. Please help, I've just stopped cutting myself and really feel the need to start.
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reader, love-him +, writes (18 June 2007):
 Hia babii, first off, mail me about the cutting, i know youve just stopped but i stopped about 3 months ago and have recently started again.. so mail me to talk about that. Babii just think you and this lad have been through this now.. do you see yourself in a relationship with him in the future? Try and get over him.. i know you realy like him but you lied to him and i think when you do things when drunk (if not together) then it doesnt mean as much as being sober. mail me babii hope i helped x x x
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reader, Blooregard +, writes (17 June 2007):
The only doing stuff when drunk and lying about an abortion proves that this is not a relationship that could be anything other than warped.
You need to make a clean break from this guy and start again finding someone that is not going to push you to those extremities. This is totally unstable and will only end in tears if you don't get out now.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Hunni, he's most likely using you as a rebound and just plain using you. NO MAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS.
And NO MAN IS WORTH YOU HURTING YOURSELF. You're only hurting and scarring yourself. You don't want a scar that reminds you of him, do you?
Look in the mirror hun, you have your own beauty, your own personality and your own life, don't let him control any of that.
Find someone who'll respect you and treat you right.
xxxx Look after yourself lovely xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): Ok hun, I really think you should talk to someone in person, this is a real serious issue - NO boy is worth self-harm. You need to talk to this guy and ask him honestly what he really feels about you. If the feeling is mutual then great, you can start dating properly but if not you must not let him take over your life. I have let one to many guys take over my life and it is not worth it, there are more immportant things in life than guys. But I really think you should talk a trusted friend or relative about this issue because keeping it all bottled up inside you is not going to help you at all. Please please talk to someone before you do yourself real harm. Take care sweetie x
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