Waiting for the right one
Q. i'm 18 and still a virgin. is that weird? my friends tell me it's weird, but i just want it to be with a girl i fall in love with and i'm getting really self conscious about because everybody i'm around seems to have lost theirs early-on in high ...
A. 11 April 2009: First of all age and virginity should really never be classified in the same category. It really doesn't matter what age you have sex, as long as you are ready yourself. I think you are making the right choice to wait for the right person. Ju... (read in full...)
Should I loose my virginity to this guy that's a player?
Q. I'm 31 yrs old and still virgin. I've being a virgin b/c I haven't had chance to loosing it. I'm in the middle of two guys who are military both. One I met and being in love with almost 2 years ago. I consider him the love of my life. Couldn't had ...
A. 6 December 2008: Just out of curiosity, this other guy that you like, are you sure he knows that you like him? Have you talked to him about it. Many times guys will show great care to a girl they like, but feel it is disrespectful to "lust" after them. Or they may ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I think about death and it really scares me.
Q. I have had a very good life and enjoyed all it had to offer. I still very much appreciate and enjoy everything that is around me and every day. I have a very good and happy life. However at my age, I am getting closer to end of my life. I don't need ...
A. 30 October 2008: Why worry about death? Death eventually finds everyone and everything, it is a process that can not be stopped.
You say you enjoy your life? Then you were lucky. This should allow you to leave this existence behind without much regret. Just be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hit me, but now threatens to kill himself if I leave him. Help!
Q. My bf and I get on good normally bt when we argue.. WE ARGUE.. we shout scream evrything but today he punched me.. I was in complete hysterics and tried to leave but he locked me in and I eventually managed to leave when his mate came in. He phoned ...
A. 18 August 2008: Leave!
Firstly he probably won't kill himself because he is using that as a way to control you into staying.
And if by any SMALL (and I mean super small chance) he actually does decide to kill himself, well then this is someone that you... (read in full...)
I need help to get over my past
Q. hmm.. well ive had a really bad past. from when i was like 9, i made the wrong friends, started taking drugs and drinking alcohol, had too many boyfriends though im still a virgin, i moved out of home for about 1 and a half years and i have been to ...
A. 10 August 2008: First you have to sort out your life before you get another boyfriend.
I am hoping you put those things behind you and that is why you call it your "past".
Also you don't want to forget your past because you have to remember it so that you don'... (read in full...)
15 months without sex! What am I doing wrong, and how can I shorten my wait for sex???
Q. It's been a year and months since I last had sex. To start I wanna make it clear that sex isn't the ONLY thing I'm looking for. A relationship would be nice, but lets just say that a one night stand is something I would definitely consider doing. ...
A. 10 August 2008: I haven't sex for 5 years. I am 23. Before that I only had sex once. I am tall, nice, handsome, etc. I even studied abroad for 5 years where my apperance is considered exotic, exciting, and sexy. I thought the same about the girls in that country. ... (read in full...)
I need to be inspired out of my general apathy!
Q. Hi, I would just like some inspiration advice please. Over the period of a few years, I have just become very lazy...sleeping all day, doing nothing when I'm actually up, and am thinking about jacking in my degree. I have no girlfriend, and...
A. 5 August 2008: Hey I feel you.
I don't really like my major at my University and haven't had a girlfriend for 5 years. The girlfriend thing never bothered me too much until I realized I am 23 years old and really have no relationship experience, this includes... (read in full...)
If a guy adds girls from myspace who look like they have nothing on....what does it say about him as a person?
Q. Has anyone ever seen those girls on myspace which get random adds from people all over the world? You know, with the really big boobs and barely any clothes on? Well they have g-string/thong but you cant even see the string bit, so it looks liek ...
A. 3 August 2008: Well it shows that he is sexually attracted to girls.
I know exactly what you are talking about. I added one once because at first I thought it was a real person, but later found out it wasn't. I never took myspace seriously though, I use face... (read in full...)
Do guys REALLY want skinny girls?
Q. ok heres my question do guys really want really skinny gf's???? i know its talked about all the time but nobody ever asks real everyday men! i'm 14/16 is that too big? is that normal? what do you guys think of women and their bodies...
A. 20 July 2008: As others have said, it is all about preference. For me my type is usually skinny (not like a skeleton but slightly above average with a slight athletic build.) I also don't like breasts larger than C cup, and usually like girls with dark hair a... (read in full...)
What approach/scenario would make you women feel comfortable that you would say yes.
Q. Hi. I'm male, 22, who is very shy around women (cliche I know, but true;) never had a relationship, and still a virgin. To be honest, the inexperience and virginity has never really bothered me, until I recently met a girl who I have real, deep ...
A. 19 July 2008: Easy...well I wouldn't say easy because I myself know that it is hard. Haven't dated a girl for 5 years (I am 23) and just recently decided to go on a date with a girl, basically just to go on a date. I like her but I am leaving the country in a ... (read in full...)
How to get over some nasty people, so I can start enjoying my school?
Q. Hi, Okay so there is this girl at school and she hangs round in a group of 7 with her other mates, i get along really well with the other mates apart from one. Both of them hate me for something that happened in the past but it didnt even invo...
A. 29 June 2008: Yeah, ignoring them can work. It is hard, you have to build a shell around yourself of steel, so that they can't harm you. They only do it because it affects you, once it doesn't you became much stronger than them and they fear you then run for ... (read in full...)
Is it that girls just don't find me attractive?
Q. I'm 24 and I've never had a girlfriend. In fact, I've never even had a date or a girl like me. I'm really not having any luck with this! Kinda getting the feeling I'm doomed to singleville forever at this rate All my friends, including the fe...
A. 29 June 2008: I definitely know where your at. I am almost 23 and have the same issue. Except I think I may be more depressed by it, it really bothers me. I am constantly told, and even asked many times by friends who are girls, "why don't you have a girlfriend?" ... (read in full...)
I'm nearly 16 and never had a boyfriend. I am also shy. Any suggestions?
Q. Im nearly 16, and have never had a boyfriend. Is that strange? I'm really sick of waiting for someone to come along! Im good looking and have a nice personality, and people are always asking me "Why dont you have a boyfriend?" which makes ...
A. 27 June 2008: You're still young, and an attractive female right? I am nearly 23 and considered an attractive male, maybe only for the next 3 years tough right? lol, and haven't had a real girlfriend, or well any serious relationship in my life. The last g... (read in full...)
Everyone is better than me? How do I change this mindset?
Q. I have a very low self esteem! I am very insecure of myself. I am very pessimistic. I slightly paranoid. I always think that I am always at the bottom apex; that everyone is better than me. I know I'm not good-looking. Maybe it's because of my size ...
A. 23 June 2008: Stop comparing yourself to the Norm! I did this for years and it didn't do ANYTHING for me, except make me depressed. I am just getting out of it, and it is hard. I still have these thoughts. "Why does that guy have a girlfriend and I don't, whats ... (read in full...)
Why do nice guys finish last?
Q. I would say I fall into the 'nice guy' catagory and yet everytime I ask a girl out (and I've done this many times) they say no and end up with some jerk who just wants to use them. I don't even think there is anyone even remotley interested in me. H...
A. 23 June 2008: Hey, the past 5 years I have also analyzed this problem. Since when I was 17 I had my last girlfriend, until now (almost 23) where I don't have a girlfriend. Why this 5 year gap?
I am considered a "nice" "kind" "funny" "handsome" guy. I don't us... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and I'm starting to feel I'm missing out on sex and relationships
Q. A bunch of my friends are all having sex. I'm the only one from my original group of friends that can't get laid. I don't think i'm ever going to find a girl. What age do people usually have the most sex at? I'm 19 and starting to feel like I'm ...
A. 21 June 2008: Hey I am 23 and only had sex ONCE when I was 17. My last girlfriend I had when I was 17, a month away from 18. It has been so long I feel I basically forgot what it is like. I am tall and good looking, but truth be told I have just been doing other ... (read in full...)
Why is my life like this?
Q. Hi,I'm 24 and have never had a girlfriend. I've only ever had sex once through an internet advert as well and the whole situation is really getting me down. It's made a whole lot worse by the fact that all my friends are in happy relationships and ...
A. 14 June 2008: Hey, well I am about 3 months from being 23 years old and never really had a girlfriend.
I also only had sex once as well when I was visiting the town I grew up in for 2 weeks. There was a girl that I knew from school and we hooked up and she want... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything if he tells you he wants to remain single?
Q. hi just a quick question. Ok if a guy decides he wants to stay single, through choice do you think that if he met someone he really liked and had feelings for that he may change his mind and give it a go? Like if he knew that the person he liked had ...
A. 9 June 2008: Yeah, some guys choose to stay single and not play the dating game. At 17 years old I had my last girlfriend, which was my second. I am nearly 23 and haven't had a girlfriend in between. I haven't really tried much though. Sometimes I get lonely, ... (read in full...)
Guys say that I'm not good in bed!! What should I do?!?
Q. hi, i have fell in love with so many guys. but it does not last because they leave me at the end saying that am not good in bed. what do i do?...
A. 9 June 2008: Stop having sex with them so fast. You are what 17? Had sex many times with different guys that all leave and say "ur not good in bed." Find better guys who don't just care about using you for sex. So what you should do is stop giving guys sex ... (read in full...)
What do 23 yr old guys want? Just sex or a relationship?
Q. At 23 years old do guys just want sex or are they ready for a relationship?...
A. 9 June 2008: I am almost 23. I want both. But I don't want to get married.
Let me explain, the last 5 years have been pretty lonely. (Zero Girlfriends, sex, dating, whatever.) Been busy with other things, like school and work. (i.e. not much of a social l... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him due to his age?!? Or stay with him? He's everything I could ask for!!
Q. not to long ago i met a guy and he was everything i wanted,we really understood each other.up until last week i never asked him about his age but i recently did and he told me he was 16 thing is im 20 so i said i needed time to think about us and i ...
A. 9 June 2008: Although you should wait to have sex with him because it may be illegal, make sure to check your state's law. No you shouldn't break up with him. If you love him, by all means love him. 4 years? Pfft that is nothing! If he was 16 and you were 28 or ... (read in full...)
Relationship problem's--he hit's me sometimes! Is he fixable?
Q. Hey i have a question, now i'm sure you've heard this god knows how many time's. But Let's start out short. I have a boyfriend and i'v been dating him for the pass 7 month's ( NOT THAT LONG ) And i really super love him, i feel that ther...
A. 9 June 2008: Listen, he can't really love you if he abuses you. He needs to get his priorities straight and learn if he treats you and people badly you and others will not stay around with him.
Some people are terrible although they trick you into staying ... (read in full...)
General tips about traveling alone and exploring inexpensively?
Q. I'm travelling on a budget - first stop in America. What things are there to do in Los Angeles and how can I travel around and explore cheaply. Please can anyone give any tips. Or just any general tips for travelling alone and things to look o...
A. 9 June 2008: I traveled to both China, Korea and Japan pretty cheap.
First of all, remember to stay safe, if something will cost a little more but is less "shady" spend the extra cash, it will be worth it in the end. Especially if you are traveling by yourself... (read in full...)
I'm 12 years old and depressed!
Q. im depressed.im 12 years old.i've already wrote a poem that said i would run away and never come back.i dont know what to do.my dad can die any time now.my family treats like im a nobody.i dont have much friends.the ones i have never thinks of me.im ...
A. 9 June 2008: Hey, I have been depressed. I am 23 years old and remember when I was your age I wanted to run away all the time. Many times I felt the same as you. Then things got slightly better over time, I just hung in there. Sometimes now I still get depressed ... (read in full...)
I blocked him on facebook but I'm still worried about my safety! Should I notify the police?
Q. alright so there's this boy who was really socially awkward so I tried to talk to him every now and then to help him out of it. Then he asks me out through facebook so I say that I'm not interested but he hunts me down and tells me in person, I tell ...
A. 5 June 2008: Most likely he was just hoping you were playing hard to get. He may have got the wrong idea about you helping him out and talking to him. Got some mixed messages. Some guys can be lame and push it too far, and it is just uncomfortable.
Feari... (read in full...)
I would just like to know why no guys have asked me out?
Q. I don't get it alot of guys like me and i mean ALOT but yet no guy has asked me out and I'm thinking that it is me. My mom says that guys are affraid of me saying no if they ask me out. I feel really down about that. I don't know ehat to do about ...
A. 3 June 2008: Probably just because they are nervous. I am 22 and still have issues asking out pretty girls. Basically I don't and it is regretful.
Seriously, don't leave it all up to the guy. Either ask one out you like. Or always talk and flirt with one you ... (read in full...)
My question is, is it intimidating to a guy to know that I am a virgin at 20? What would the first impression be?
Q. Alright heres the scoop: I am going to be a junior in college and I have never had a boyfriend nor have I kissed a guy. Honestly, there have been plenty of guys that have wanted to do stuff with me but I have not really liked any of them enough, ...
A. 2 June 2008: I had sex once when I was 17 with a girl that I knew, border line friend status/lover status. I only did it once because I was visiting for only 2 weeks but knew her from before. She was definitely the more aggressive one because she had experience, ... (read in full...)
My divorced BF wants to take our relationship to the next level, how will I tell him I'm a virgin at 38?
Q. Hi I think my divorced boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level but i dont know how to tell him i am still a virgin at 38, what do i say to him as i am not sure how to tell him, i dont want him to think there is something wrong ...
A. 2 June 2008: Hey don't worry about it at all. Most men like virgins as others have said. Just tell him and that you are happy that he will be your first. He will probably be honored. Maybe a bit more nervous, but nonetheless honored. Virginity is not a c... (read in full...)
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