We used extra-safe condoms when we had sex but my period is late, could I be pregnant?
Q. Well me and my boyfriend had sex four times. The first time we used a pleasuremax condom. It didnt split. But he didnt roll it off, he pulled it so everything fell onto his bed (I was dressed by the point). The next three times we used extra safe ...
A. 22 March 2008: I doubt you're pregnant, first you were safe and you did it at the end of your cycle, after ovulation. Having sex can mess up your cycle, so can stress. If you're worrying a lot, it will make your period come later. If you do not get your period in ... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant? What's going on with my body?
Q. About 3 weeks ago I had sex with my boyfriend, and my period should be due this week. I've needed to go to the bathroom more frequently than before, and noticed what might be considered a blood spot. I haven't experienced any other signs, Could I ...
A. 22 March 2008: Definitely go to the doctor, if it is anything it will help to find it early... (read in full...)
I'm feeling so sad and insecure right now and I don't know why.
Q. I'm feeling so sad and insecure right now and I don't know why. I've been thinking about my weight a lot and i've been really stressed out and ill and i'm trying to be a support beam for everyone as well as keeping myself standing up. My boyfri...
A. 22 March 2008: You're a people pleaser. I used to be like that. You just care so much about everyone's wellbeing and want them to be happy. Its very sweet and caring of you, but who's looking to see that you're happy? You're the domino at the end of the line that ... (read in full...)
Do men prefer bigger breasts?
Q. ok, silly question but do guys prefair big boobs?! my bf is happy with mine but i just wana know what the general outlook on boobs are?...
A. 22 March 2008: Its all a matter of preference. Also, they'll keep growing til you're about 20. Also when you have kids they'll get bigger. "my bf is happy with mine"-this should be evidence enough that you are perfect the way you are. Be happy and proud of ... (read in full...)
I feel so low, dumped, physically assaulted, my self confidence is seriously damaged
Q. I feel really alone, down, vulnerable and emotional right now. My boyfriend of one year dumped me and asked me to leave the house we shared (he paid all the bills etc). We shared an amazing bond and I really feel that I won't find a relationshi...
A. 22 March 2008: I know it hurts and its hard. Don't stop telling yourself that "I know I'm not those things" Give yourself some time to heal...focus on you. Find a hobby, take a class somewhere (dance, cooking, art, anything and you'll make new friends). You can't ... (read in full...)
Where do dads get their advice???
Q. Where do dads get their advice, I've been coming to this site for about a year, and I hardly hear anybody mention dads. Hope you can answer my question. Thank you Chloe...
A. 22 March 2008: I know what I dad is, I didn't understand exactly what you were asking. Where does anyone get their advice? It's all from experience, opinions. I have seen some posts by older men and fathers, but the majority of posters are women. I think its ... (read in full...)
How do I keep my man interested?
Q. Hello everyone Im wondering how to keep my man interested in me Im 31 and he is 23 Im afriad that he will soon lose interest and leave as Im 8 years older than him what can I do to help him stay interested ?? the sex is great (every night)an...
A. 22 March 2008: Don't worry...if you worry about things and look for a reason to not be "good enough" then you'll create one. I'm assuming the two of you are pretty serious after 3 years. Do you guys talk about the future, marriage? Has he been showing signs of not ... (read in full...)
My husband says I should control my sex drive 20 years after our marriage, what should I do?
Q. I've married to my husband for 20 years. I've always love sex and have high sex drive. Into my late forty now my sex drive has gone down a bit but I still like to have sex though I dont have an orgasm every time we make love. My husband said I am ...
A. 22 March 2008: Sounds like he is abnormal for not wanting it. Maybe he's got a problem or insecurity and doesn't want to admit it. Get a toy or try to talk with him. See if you can compromise.... (read in full...)
Should I just try to forget about him as we're both married, or really open up before he goes to visit his wife?
Q. I have been happily married and with my husband for 12 years. I am in my late 40's, and my husband is in his late 50's. Lately, my sex drive is through the roof and my husband is not interested. In the past few months, I have become friends with ...
A. 22 March 2008: You know you're better off with your husband, don't ruin your life and this man's family just because you're horny. It's lust not love. You love your husband. Just see if he'll try to improve sex life more. If not get a toy or something...maybe ... (read in full...)
I've been emotionally cheated on, is it possible to move on?
Q. Anyone out there ever been emotionally cheated on? Is it possible to move on. I work with my husband and the girl and have to see them on a regular basis. I found out he had been secretly flirting with her, and they even had a secret handshake. He ...
A. 22 March 2008: He didn't actually cheat on you. Are you the jealous type? To me it just sounds like he didn't know how you would feel about him having a female friend. Talk to him about it and find out if its purely a friendship or if he's interested.... (read in full...)
Where do dads get their advice???
Q. Where do dads get their advice, I've been coming to this site for about a year, and I hardly hear anybody mention dads. Hope you can answer my question. Thank you Chloe...
A. 22 March 2008: What do you mean?... (read in full...)
Should I try to make him feel better, or just let it go?
Q. I have this teacher who always seems to put himself down, but i'm not sure if I should try to make him feel better. At the beginning of the school year, my teacher was talking about how he coudldn't wait to get home and see his puppies because ...
A. 22 March 2008: I know its sad and hard, but its really not your responsibility. I always feel like I want to help people too, everyone should be happy, but there is a fine line. If you're really that concerned, I'd talk to a guidance counselor or another ... (read in full...)
Affair update: What do I do now?
Q. This is an update on Is he having or had an affair? posted on 28th January. Thank you Tuatara for your excellent advice. Not much has been happening in recent weeks, i even asked my husband if anything had happened, he strongly denied it and i ...
A. 21 March 2008: If he would be open and honest, it would be completely different. BUT he's not being honest with you, he's being selfish and stringing you and your son along. Thats not right... (read in full...)
I feel so lonely after my wife has admitted her affair and need somebody to talk to...
Q. Hi there, Unfortunately, I never expected (or hoped) to have to ever write something like this.. However, I have found out today that after months of fearing the worst, my wife told me that she has been having an affair and I believe the only...
A. 19 March 2008: Ouch, I guess a lot of the outcome depends on the type of affair, just physical or has she fallen for someone else. And before progressing you need to know if you're willing to work through this or not. Then you need to have a talk with her and ... (read in full...)
It really turns my boyfriend on to think of me having sex with other men - he even wants me to tape it!!!
Q. Well I really need some advice I've been dating this guy for 2 years. I fell in love with him everything amazing he was my first the sex amazing the bond pretty much everything I ever wanted but all of a sudden we started opening up and it really ...
A. 19 March 2008: Is he a trust worthy guy. Normally when guys really care, they don't like to share. My first thought is maybe he wants to see if you'd really do it and then if you do he'll just get really angry, kind of like a trick to see how faithful you are. Or ... (read in full...)
Wife is thinking about cheating
Q. Recently my wife of more than 12 years has been flirting via email,phone and in person with another married man who is a friend of ours. The relationship between me and my wife has been solid -- neither of us has ever cheated on the other. I ...
A. 17 March 2008: Have you talked to your wife about this?... (read in full...)
When is the right time to tell her my proper age?
Q. I have recently met a very attractive lady that I really like (and from the look of things, she is very much into me as well). The only problem is that she is 5 years older than me. I don't have a problem with the age difference because i have dated ...
A. 17 March 2008: The advice given sounds good, only DO NOT lie about your age and then tell her how old you really are later down the road... that's a set up for failure. I would not bring up the subject, but if she does, you cannot lie.... (read in full...)
Any young husbands have good advice for a guy that's been married for 4 years and wants to balance friend time with wife time?
Q. Any young husbands have good advice for a guy that's been married for 4 years and wants to balance friend time with wife time? I'm ready for it to not be a hassle to go play a video game with a guy for a few hours. As far as my pre-marriage fri...
A. 17 March 2008: Have you talked to your wife about this? Maybe she feels the same way. Explain it to her flat out. Open with what you said about loving her and how its forever, but you miss your guy time. Sometimes guys just need to be around guys. Maybe agree that ... (read in full...)
Should I stop all communication with her?
Q. I'm a happily married man who loves his wife of 3 years a lot. Just last month, she bore me a beautiful son too. I started at a new job in January 2007. Later that year, this lady colleague, A, joined. She was quite attractive looking and I wa...
A. 17 March 2008: Stop for a minute and step back...How would you feel if your wife was carrying on like this with a male colleague? What if your wife was A and another man was you...how would you feel? It's not fair to your wife or your child. Something like this ... (read in full...)
My thoughts are keeping me up all night and I can't get to sleep...
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. I've been really sad and feeling depressed lately. And I just let too much stuff get to me. Yes, I speak to my family about how I feel. I see a counseller once a week. But my thoughts are keeping me up at night. I'm having ...
A. 17 March 2008: It is really easy to over think things. I went on depression medicine when I was about 12. I had problems sleeping and awful anxiety. Thats what it is, anxiety. You can have no reason to be anxious, but yet you are. Read some meditation books. I ... (read in full...)
How do I take this relationship to the next level?
Q. Hey, Im 21 male and have really liked this girl (Age 20) for over a year now and we have recently started dating :D I have to be honest, im havnt been in a serious relationship before so Im not really sure what to do. This isnt serious yet but...
A. 17 March 2008: The fact that you care so much is amazing. She's a lucky girl to have someone like you care so much. Seriously, you need to just be yourself, relax and be you. If you want it to work and be long term then you have to be you. You can't put on an act ... (read in full...)
Has the love gone or am I just tired of trying?
Q. How do I know if he really loves me? Dear Cupid, I am constantly doubting about my relationship with my bf. We have been in a long distance realationship for about 4 years now; but we or I had never felt security in our relationship. 1. he was...
A. 16 March 2008: Sounds like you're in love with the idea of him. You care about him and want to be with him, but you're not getting anything in return. Thats not fair to you. Can you talk about it with him? If so try and figure things out with him. If you can't ... (read in full...)
Is my ex having second thoughts, or is it just wishful thinking?
Q. My ex split up with me in Jan and keeps on texting me. Either to see how i am, ring me up to ask if i'm with anybody else... He recently fell out with two of his best mates because of me. One of them tried to chat me up on a night out when i saw ...
A. 16 March 2008: Thats really confusing, talk about mixed signals. Have you talked about the whole situation with him? If you truly want to get back with him and actually see it going somewhere, its your decision, your happiness. Just think about it logically as ... (read in full...)
I am very worried the violence will start up again if I have this baby...what can I do??
Q. I am in a relationship with a very controlling (sometimes abusive man)... we've been together since we were both 22... I got pregnant when I was 23, and I moved into his apartment so we could raise the baby together. When I was about 3 months p...
A. 16 March 2008: Can you contact your parents and live with them for a while? I would hate to see you abort a baby...I know you're in a pickle though. You can't live your life in fear and keep your children in an unsafe environment like that though. I would really ... (read in full...)
If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?
Q. If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?...
A. 16 March 2008: Really, it depends on the guy...there's no way of knowing... (read in full...)
I have really bad stretch marks...are they bad and ugly??
Q. hi, I am 14 years old and on my boobs I have bad streach marks. I weight 103 and I am 5ft. 1in. I am in a bra size 32 C. I'm super white and the streach marks Are very see able. I have had a recent boyfriend and he didn't seem to care. I an kind of ...
A. 16 March 2008: Honestly girl, boobs are boobs. Everyone has a flaw, you're definitely not overweight and it's a more common problem than you think. I know it seems like the worst thing to you, but i doubt a lot of guys would notice, they'll just be excited to see ... (read in full...)
Can I consider my teacher a friend??
Q. Well, there is this male teacher whom I've had a crush on since I was a sophomore but this year my junior year, I have gotten to know him better and about his personal life experiences and I also have had a few bumps on the road in my life. He is ...
A. 16 March 2008: I think it's best to have a teacher-student friendship inside the school. Anything outside of that would look strange you being a female and him male. And the fact that he's married with kids. It's just not appropriate. Maybe after you graduated you ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me after three years...what to do when I haven't seen him because of the distance
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years,this year will b the 3rd but he broke up with me a few days ago after an argument we had in which he was the wrong one,ive never seen him yet coz we have a long distance relationship but ive spoken to him and ...
A. 15 March 2008: I know its hard. I met my boyfriend on the net, but we had an in person relationship, however 6months into it, it became long distance for another 2 years. He just ended it a few weeks ago because the distance is too hard and there's not way of ... (read in full...)
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