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writes:How do I know if he really loves me? Dear Cupid, I am constantly doubting about my relationship with my bf. We have been in a long distance realationship for about 4 years now; but we or I had never felt security in our relationship. 1. he was constantly talking and getting in touch with his ex. 2. he has not been the completely honest guy.3. I don't feel his love. I love my bf deeply, and I had showed him how much I love him through my suport in everything. I have always been there for him. But, I can't think of any moments where he had been supported for me or help me in any situation of my life. I am always sending him txt messages, e-mails, to remaind him that i am thinking of him and that I love him, but I never get any replies or feedback. So, I stop and not sending anything. I am in a state where I don't care, and if he does not make the effort to stay together and focus, I won't. I don't know what to do?
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (17 March 2008):
 Leave. Leave leave leave, and for Pete's sake, find someone who lives nearby you!!!!!!!
You have my condolences.
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reader, Bean317 +, writes (16 March 2008):
Sounds like you're in love with the idea of him. You care about him and want to be with him, but you're not getting anything in return. Thats not fair to you. Can you talk about it with him? If so try and figure things out with him. If you can't talk about it with him after 4 years then I think it's time to move on. Trust me i know it hurts, but its not fair to you to wait like this and get nothing in return. Put you first, he is. Good luck and hang in there
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reader, superbunny  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 Sweetie, you've gotta be strong + crack the whip I'm afraid! If he's not willing to make the effort for someone supportive + loving, he's not very clever, obviously!! Give him an ultimatum: Either he starts pulling his weight or you give him the elbow. I know it's hard to do but you'll feel better for it in the long run. Good Luck + message me if you want to chat. :] x
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