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The names Britt! I am 20 years old and I'm currently engaged to be married May 29th 2010! Gotta big wedding coming up! I have two beautiful children! A 2 yr old daughter (in june) and a 7 month old son! He will be 1 in June! I am also currently in college! Training in entreprenural. I am Iowa girl! gonna learn some tricks of the tradeon an organic farm! my fiance is training in sustainable living and organic agriculture! Moving to Fairfeild IA (Vedic City) he will be attending Maharishi University!

I'm studying abroad. I like a girl here but I have only two months left here. Should I ask her out?

Q.   So I have been studying abroad for about 9 months and have almost 2 months exactly left. I am 22 years old, will be 23 in a few months and haven't had experience with dating for the last few years. The last "girlfriend" I had was in High School. ...

A.   9 June 2008: I'd say go for it? I mean honestly what have you got to lose? You could very well end up regretting it if you didn't at least try. If she turns you down, hey you've still got a friend and you've got the dignity on the inside of being able to say ... (read in full...)

Why would you put a picture and you and your ex on facebook?

Q.   Hi all, Me and ex g\f broke up about 3 months ago. We keep in touch every few weeks, just to say 'hi' and catch up. She does not want reconciliation Anyway, i have just logged onto Facebook and she has just posted a picture of me and her o...

A.   3 June 2008: I'd say she did it because you are still friends. But I've put pictures up of me and my exes because I thought I looked really good in the picture. You can't always help it if the ex is in the picture. Did she write a caption about the picture?... (read in full...)

I'm having a baby. I feel my lover is neglecting me.

Q.   Sometimes I feel extremely unhappy with my lover mostly because I feel that he is neglecting me on an emotional level. Physically he cares for me superbly and I could't ask for someone better. He buys me everything I could want and/or need. He has ...

A.   23 May 2008: I didn't write that title sorry if you felt it was misleading. ... (read in full...)

I'm scared my unreliable boyfriend will break up with me again.

Q.   My boyfriend of 9 months, is extremly unreliable. he was supposed to cme to my house after school one day but we fell out becoz he didnt come. We ended up splitting up becoz he said all we do is argue and he's un happy and he cant see it going an...

A.   23 May 2008: Well honestly if you are afriad that he will leave you then if he does leave you its only going to hurt worse. Just remember that you are young and there will always be someone else. But for the time being just enjoy the time you 2 spend together ... (read in full...)

She's expecting our child, and left me, I want to be involved with my new baby, but how can I cope?

Q.   Can any body give me some advice on how to cope and manage only seeing my baby 1 day a week. My ex girlfriend has left me and is expecting our first baby. Basically i have been left out of everything, the ultrasound, midwife you name it i have not ...

A.   23 May 2008: well i don't know persay so if this should never happen don't curse me, but I am 33 weeks pregnant myself and because of the hormones sometimes I feel a lot differently toward people I used to care about. My boyfriend and I have been together for ... (read in full...)

Are women not attracted to shorter men?

Q.   i have heard a lot of times that women naturally are not attracted to shorter men than them or they tend to look down on them maybe with disrespect. how true is this, ladies?...

A.   23 May 2008: i dated a guy that was shorter than me once and it sucked for me because when I went to prom i couldn't wear high heels and I didn't feel as pretty as the other girls because I had to wear these ugly flat shoes cuz i was already a few inches taller ... (read in full...)

How do I make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?

Q.   I have tiny boobs and i have no boyfriend, how do i make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?...

A.   22 May 2008: ummm how old are you? LOl it says ur between the ages of 10-12 omg stop worrying about your boobs your a little girl...stop worrying about relationships...your a little girl. just enjoy your child hood while you can...men are pigs and not worth ... (read in full...)

I think my husband is an alcoholic, but if I leave him I'm not sure how I would support my family!

Q.   Okay, here goes....... I think my husband is an alcoholic. I have been married for 12 years now, and have 2 young children. We started dating when we were 20. We both partied back then, as well as when we first were married. I stopped when I b...

A.   22 May 2008: Personally you are a woman and women are indeed very strong beings! Stay at your parents until you may get on your feet again...or you could use this as a way to get your husbands attention! Have you tried talking to your husband about your ... (read in full...)

My husband has been sending pictures of himself in his underwear to a man, is planning to meet him, and has told me that it's none of my business!

Q.   I'm 27, and my husband's 29. We have two children, a 4-year-old son and a 5-year-old daughter and have been married for 3 years. On Tuesday when I was checking our email to see if a bid I made on eBay was successful, an email came through fro...

A.   22 May 2008: Oh, and I'd tell him it is your business...say it like this with some attitude..."excusssssse me, this is my buisness thank you very much. I forgot that aren't married and don't have CHILDREN TOGETHER and haven't been living a life together!" I'm ... (read in full...)

My husband has been sending pictures of himself in his underwear to a man, is planning to meet him, and has told me that it's none of my business!

Q.   I'm 27, and my husband's 29. We have two children, a 4-year-old son and a 5-year-old daughter and have been married for 3 years. On Tuesday when I was checking our email to see if a bid I made on eBay was successful, an email came through fro...

A.   22 May 2008: could it be that maybe he has always been bisexual and you've just never known it until now? and now he just seems to be more involved with his sexual attraction to men?... (read in full...)

How do I lose weight from my breasts?

Q.   How do I lose weight from my breasts? I am a 21yr old female, with a slim build, very slim waist and arms, and curvy hips. When I lose weight, I lose it everywhere but my breasts... they are DD's and I feel like I'm disproportionate. I have gone ...

A.   22 May 2008: Excercising probably will not help your breasts get smaller. You are just genitically big chested. If you are that concered about them you will most likely have to pay money to get them reduced. ... (read in full...)

Dragged into a silly argument, should I ignore her or get even?

Q.   today at school there was a little argument between my freinds i just sat there and let them get on with it becasue i thought it was silly. then i got dragged into it and my freind called our other freind (who wasnt in the argument either) "you are...

A.   22 May 2008: Maybe you should find better friends! I'd ignore it and find people who don't act like that. First of all girls are the meanest of any sex men can be mean but girls just know how to push another womans buttons and somehow alot of girls get thrill ... (read in full...)

Why was I born?

Q.   Why I was born? This life is too hard for me. Only problems and conflicts....

A.   22 May 2008: I think the moral of every ones story here is.....Try not to get wrapped up in the questions you don't know and try to focus on things that you do. For instance, you may not know WHY you exsist but for whatever reason you do! So live your life and ... (read in full...)

Why was I born?

Q.   Why I was born? This life is too hard for me. Only problems and conflicts....

A.   22 May 2008: I have an interesting theory if any one is interested? Ok so every one has heard the big bang boom theory right? And everyone has heard the god theories also? Well according to many different religions god is a jelous and envious god. Imagine ... (read in full...)

Does this mean he may propose? Or is this his way of fantasising?

Q.   Okay, so I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we are both madly in love with eachother, and we are expecting our first child! We have lived together since the day we started dating practically! We have just been inseperable! He h...

A.   22 May 2008: Kittykat your advice rocks! I THINK I LOVE YOU! LOL JK JK but for real your advice is extremely helpful! :D thanks!... (read in full...)

I think back to when we were first together, and great we were and I felt loved, now it's like he doesn't love me.

Q.   Dear cupid, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a bit now, and we recently bought a house together. I know i love him but lately we feel so distant, i've tried to talk about it with him but he justs gets angry and thin...

A.   22 May 2008: Well I have no comment on you liking his brother. But as for him, SCREW THAT! I wouldn't take it! If he gets mad at you just for simply wanting to talk about your feelings then I'd drop him IMMEDIATELY!!! Communication is one of the most ... (read in full...)

I don't want to lose the spark in our relationship, but it's getting that way because of money issues.

Q.   Dear Cupid, my boyfriend and i have just bought a house and we are finding it hard with money, we are coping, just, but can't find the time to save money. We want to go out and do things but we can't afford it, so we stay home and watch the tv. I ...

A.   22 May 2008: why don't you try being creative? Money isn't everything. In fact some of the most intimate and precious moments in life are PRICELESS!! :D Use your imagination. Try surprising him with games you've set up and created. For example, before he ... (read in full...)

What are the tell tale signs of pregnancy after the first few weeks?

Q.   I've been sleeping with a boy without a condom for a few weeks now, stupid i know but he did tell me he's infertile. He only knows this because he's never got anyone pregnant before, including past girlfriends. He's never used a condom and his girl...

A.   22 May 2008: Well I used to think that I was infertile because I never got pregnant and I had alot of unprotected sex with my boyfriend. 4 years later I ended up pregnant! As for him saying that he is infertile just merely based on never getting anyone pregnant ... (read in full...)

Is there any free software for Mac computers that you would recommend I use to block my access to porn websites?

Q.   I get very turned on by porn (but wish I didn't). I will go for a long time without viewing it, but then go through a period where I will view a lot. On the one hand, I like to view it for ideas. I have seen some techniques that I hope to use with...

A.   22 May 2008: Well I think if you are worried about being turned on by porn then you certainly have the power to over come it. Personally I don't think that viewing porn makes you a bad person. I watch porn because it is interesting to watch other beings of the ... (read in full...)

I haven't had an outbreak of my genital warts for two years...could I still pass the virus onto my new girlfriend?

Q.   Ok so about 4 yrs ago i got genital warts from my now ex girlfriend, i havent had an outbreak for about 2 yrs, my question is will they ever return, and can i still pass the virus onto my new girlfriend? thanks!!! ...

A.   21 May 2008: The virus always lays dormint in your skin for the rest of your live. Even though your body has built up an ammunity to the virus which makes it so that you won't have break outs any more you can still pass it on. I recommend doing lots of ... (read in full...)

Do most teenage girls shave the bikini line? I get bumps and irritation.

Q.   do most teenage girls shave or wax down there? i try to shave around my bikini line but get red bumps and intense irritation. what do i do?...

A.   21 May 2008: ok i must tell you girl that all these people are wrong! lol i know exactly how you can stop the red bumps! I had the same problem and I would NOT recommend waxing for it hurts and leaves you red and I would NOT recommend using hair removal cream ... (read in full...)

Why do I have these feelings? Will I ever have them with my boyfriend or any other man?

Q.   Hi there i'm in a bit of a mess, any advice would be greatly appreciated. Okay I will start from the beginning... There's this guy at work, and i slept with him (my boss) and yes he's married, and yes i have a boyfriend. So please, I know it was ba...

A.   21 May 2008: The feelings you are experiencing is lust and passion. You are hot for this man and because of when and where and how your occurences together are happening it surprises you and and it is exciting because you could get caught and he is married and ... (read in full...)

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