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writes:My boyfriend of 9 months, is extremly unreliable. he was supposed to cme to my house after school one day but we fell out becoz he didnt come. We ended up splitting up becoz he said all we do is argue and he's un happy and he cant see it going anywhere. Staying on the same phone call we got back together and he came to my house the day after. I Wrote him a letter as he has now left school and i started to cry, he said it was cute. We ended up having sex (not the first time) but i said i didnt want to do it if he is going to break up with me and he said he promises he wouldnt but i am scared he will xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (23 May 2008):
Well we can't really advise you either way.
You can either gamble and stay with him and keep having sex and hope for the best, or split up and protect yourself from getting hurt.
To be honest at your age I would split up with him and stay safe. It's very easy for him to make promises if you are offering him sex to say the right thing. Keeping them is another matter.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, babymamma626  +, writes (23 May 2008):
 Well honestly if you are afriad that he will leave you then if he does leave you its only going to hurt worse. Just remember that you are young and there will always be someone else. But for the time being just enjoy the time you 2 spend together now. You must not live life in fear because the only thing to fear is fear itself. You have to live above it. Or if you feel that you don't want to waste your time with him, then simply cut him off. It is not worth the pain and agony to just continue in something that you are feeling unsatisfied with in the first place! I'm sure you are a lovely gal and it shouldn't be hard to find magic elsewhere! :D
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