We used to be able to talk but now we can't. WHY?
Q. There's this girl I like. We've been out a few times. We have a lot in common. We can usually send each other over a 100 texts a day but recently she's got where she doesn't text back often. She used to be able to keep a conversation going and when ...
A. 3 April 2010: shes probably not interested anymore or maybe she did get bored tecxting all day can be a bit boring she needs her space and if you were the type of guy that would be texting her 24/7 she probably found that a bit of annoying, stop texting her for a ... (read in full...)
I feel like I want to run away! Do I have a disorder?
Q. Someone please save me :( Deep down I know something is wrong with me. Mentally. I just can't take it anymore! For so long i've gone bottling EVERYTHING up because I don't want to bore people with my life story or for them to think i'm some c...
A. 3 April 2010: you may be going through depression, ive been through the same situation i was at a point where thoughts of suicide would cross my mind everything was so dark and i was so unhappy, when something has hurt you so bad it will be hard to stand back ... (read in full...)
Should I let him go out with his single male friends?
Q. I am happily married. I'm 17 years old and my husband is 20. We're very in love and supported by both of our families. Things have been great. I love it. We do everything together including cooking meals, and just sitting back watching TV. The ...
A. 2 April 2010: its all depending in the what type of night out is he talking about, if its about going out clubbing with the guys in my opinion i would not let him go just for the fact that you guys r married now he needs to have some sort of respect what is he ... (read in full...)
Controlling/abusive boyfriend!
Q. hey there i don't know what to do i have been with my boyfriend a while now and i lost everything because of him my friends don't want to know me and my family don't want anything to do with me anymore. my boyfriend tells me what to do and what to ...
A. 2 April 2010: your in a abusive relationship, you need to get out of that house when he leaves to work because things are going to get worst... I was in the same situation your in and it took me 3 years to get out of that relationship, there is domestic violence ... (read in full...)
It makes me nervous for him to touch me ...i dunno if I should let him...?
Q. me and my boyfriend Fraser are always together at school and we always hug and stuff but he always has his arm around me and touches my arse and touches my tits and tickles my arse too. but i feel nervous when he does it. it may be natural for him ...
A. 24 February 2010: if it bothers you, you should let him know and he should respect that desiscion but its normal if your just nervous cus your feeling attracted to him my best answer wouold b anilize exactly what your feeling ... (read in full...)
Help! I like my brother's friend!
Q. Hello, help me on this please. Is it okay to be sexually attracted to and want to date one of my brothers friend? ...
A. 24 February 2010: hey jezebella, yes its ok to feel attracted to ur brothers friend but you shoulD ASK YOUR BROTHER ABOUT HIS FRIEND CONSIDERING HE KNOWS HIS FRIEND MORE THAN YOU AND WELL ASK YOUR BROTHER ABOUT THIS GUY AND WHAT HE THINKS.... (read in full...)
I'm scared but I want to give myself to him
Q. Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and I've kept him waiting sexually this long, hes starting to anxious but he says he'll wait as long as I need. I know he really cares for me and would wait but part of me too is getting ...
A. 9 July 2009: Hey there!!! yup ur alittle to young for that i think u should wait and since he doesnt mind waiting he should wait too. Theyre can be a problem alittle bit worst rather than looking or smelling bad and that might be if u guys do decide on taking ... (read in full...)
Can I ask her out or is she 'off-limits'?
Q. Hi, I asked not too long ago about a good gift for a female co-worker for her b-day. Well I got something for her, and she really liked it. Like her expression showed it the whole day. A few days ago, I heard some bad news that implied she was ...
A. 9 July 2009: He there well go for it and ask her if she is going out with someone if shes just seing the guy well ask her out tell her that you have been wanting to invite her to dinner and that if she would like to accept your invitation. I mean you have to ... (read in full...)
How do I use tampons?
Q. hey im a girl and im a virgin. never even used tampons. i want to but im scared i'll faint cause i read that somewhere. im so afraid of passing out! so any pointers on inserting tampons? also how do i masturbate? like what do i do? what feels really ...
A. 4 July 2009: Well your a virgin so it might hurt n plus loose ur virginity to a tampon lol my cousin did dat while being a virgin n she said dat it hurt a little but if ur down go for it. I use Tampax those have like a grip for ur fingers that way when ur ... (read in full...)
I am craving love, excitement, attention which I don't get from my wife!
Q. My wife and I are 5 years apart in age and have been married for 8 years, we tried to start a family but it did not work ever since she seems angry the whole time, we argue about the little thing and fight constantly (for a year now). without c...
A. 22 June 2009: Hey there!!! Cant have kids why not adoption I mean that may be a reason that shes feeling down. If its not that why not go to counsaling try everything thats in your hands to save your marriage if she refuses tell her how you feeling what your ... (read in full...)
He doesn't keep the conversation going in txting...is he interested?
Q. hey, i have a dilemma, i really like this boy. Im 18 and we have kissed (snogged) eachother twice now ..about 2 months apart..in the same night club. I knew him from my college and ive really started to like him. I somehow gathered the courage to ...
A. 22 June 2009: hey there!!! Honestly it looks like this guy is not interested in you he may act all nice n sweet when u guys go out well duh! he wants something from u at the moment. I wouldnt waste my time with a guy like that. Good Luck!!!... (read in full...)
FWB got pregnant and wants to keep the baby
Q. Hello this girl and me decided to become FWB last october. We agreed to this no emotional attachments, well last week she told she was 6 weeks pregnant and wants the baby. we're both 28 and this would be the first for both of us. I don't know what ...
A. 20 June 2009: Im sure you dont want to kill a baby, wait your baby. Those are the results of unprotected sex but what seems to you as a nightmmare right now will turn into a blessing in the future believe me (I experienced it) watching ur little one taking her ... (read in full...)
His favourite sites are "rape porn"!
Q. I found out that my husband looks up hardcore porn. His favourite sites are "rape porn" where women are shown to be attacked and brutally treated. I'm completely repulsed by this and feel sick to my stomach that anyone would be excited by this ...
A. 20 June 2009: Hey there!!! I know how you feel about your guy watching porn but every guy well almost every guy has that in them I mean its like a fantasy for them but not something they would like to do. I dont think you should leave your husband over this i ... (read in full...)
He seems to lie when he's been with his best friend!
Q. Hello all! So here is my question/problem: I am 19 years old and a sophmore in college. I have been with my boyfriend, who is 20, since 2006. We met in highschool when I was a sophomore and he was a junior. I love him with all my heart and he means ...
A. 20 June 2009: Hey there!!! Well friends r always a problem theres always that friend that tells the other one hey lets go here or there lets hit the club lets drink or whatever you know but you said it clearly you know that your bf will never cheat on you if he ... (read in full...)
How can I get my neighbor to like me more?
Q. Well i just got over my ex a few days ago thanks to my amazing friends who are here for me...well anyway my neighbor that lives across the street from me and has lived there ever since i have moved in...ive been spending time getting to know her and ...
A. 20 June 2009: Hey there!!! Well honestly you just broke up with your girl a few days ago why do you want to get in another relatioship? Its to soon for you right now. You dont have to do anything to try to make her like you. If shes interested in you things will ... (read in full...)
My childhood love is now married, help!
Q. Im 20 yrs old and im dating my best friend for ever. We have been friends for 10 years already when we were younger he asked me if i wanted to be his girlfriend i said no because i was way too crazy for him and i knew i would hurt him. i left for ...
A. 20 June 2009: Thanks everyone that day that i wrote this question i stopped everything that was going on between us he was shocked but i realized that im waisting my time with him and that his wife deserves respect thanks to everyone... (read in full...)
I don't love my future wife what should I do?
Q. Hallo, Actually I am sharing this personal matter after getting much frustration. Before 5 years i got engaged with a girl. I stayed engaged with her for 5 months. but during those five months i thought that i was engaged too early and so i was not...
A. 20 June 2009: Hey there!!! Well first of all marriage aint a little game its not like oh "ok what girl can i pick" you didnt say your age but its says between 22-25 your pretty grown up man. I mean your parents dont have to be making your decissions, how are you ... (read in full...)
Husband has been seeing another woman for 1/2 the time we've been married
Q. Dear Cupid, My husband and I recently celebrated (and I use the term loosely) our 7th anniversary. Through the miracle of texting, I found out my husband has been seeing another woman for about half the time we've been married. He says he never ha...
A. 19 June 2009: I agree with pureskinnyposh you really need to talk to a pator or therapist I mean he needs to tell you whats going on you have to ask him whatever you want to know and he has to give you answers i mean if he wants to save his marriage. If you have ... (read in full...)
He cheated! Is he worth a second chance?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and i have been together for over 5 1/2 years. We have a 10 month old daughter and another 1 on the way. I am 6 months pregnant. My grandfather passed away so my daughter and i went overseas for the funeral service for 2 we...
A. 19 June 2009: Hey there!!! Im sorry for whats happening but you love him you can forgive him I mean right now your wounds are still d well sill hurt well obviously, But you have a daughter and one on the way I mean yoou have to also thimk about them. Give it ... (read in full...)
G/f threw me out because I laughed when her bikini top got pulled off
Q. My girlfriend (of 2 years) is really mad at me for not covering her up at a pool party when my friend pulled off her bikini top and all I did was laugh and well me and my friend (we were both pretty drunk at the time) played monkey in the middle ...
A. 19 June 2009: Us girls always expect our bf's to be like our shield against everyone thats trying to hurt us or humiliate us well you did the opposite. I mean seriously just tell her how dumb you were (you wouldnt be lying) and that your sorry dont tell her "oh ... (read in full...)
Summer vacations going to suck for me
Q. Aunties, My girlfriend of 7 months (Yes, i'll keep saying this) has been contemplating breaking up with me over for the summer and has openly admitted it to my face. This breaks my heart so much, but I understand why. She's used to freedom an...
A. 19 June 2009: Hey there!!! Well first of all your still young wich means that youll meet other girls that will actually love you and care for you not like this crazy girl thats acting like a little kid trying to make you jelous. About the guy thats around her its ... (read in full...)
She dumped me but she keeps asking if I'm dating someone?
Q. Hi my exGF dumped me two months ago to go back to her exBF of two years ago.we only lasted like 8 months, sometimes we see online and she starts talking and everytime we do she asks me if I'm dating someone, sometimes I tell her I do and sometimes ...
A. 19 June 2009: Hey there!!! Im totally with ask oldersister she was the one that broke up with you and its not fair that you have to give her information. Shes probably jelous but you know what she made her choice and just as she got back with her exbf you also ... (read in full...)
She says I love you to me, but it just doesn't feel the same
Q. Ok so I have been dating a girl for 4 years. We broke up because she wanted space and than start seeing someone else. After she told me that i stopped talking to her. We were broken up for about 7 months. Not sure how long she was with this other ...
A. 19 June 2009: Hey there!!! Well you really need to tell her what you feel if theres questions that you want to ask her about the relationship she was go for it that way you can clear your doubts. But if your feeling uncomfortable with her and you just dont feel ... (read in full...)
How can I make our sexlife even better?
Q. Me and my girlfriend love sex we do it all the time...but I want to try anal we tried a few times but didn't work....how can I make it better? And another thing is I want to make her squirt all over me. I'm very kinky and I wanna have a 3sum she's ...
A. 16 June 2009: use a lubricant for anal sex and go in slowly and if shes down for the threesom well now just find the person dont want to think hard hey strippers are a good option talk to her and see what she says. Good Luck!!... (read in full...)
I need contreception advice!
Q. hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months now and we have both decided that we are ready to have sex. we are both virgins so we are a bit unsure of where to get condoms. i would also like to go on the pill to make sure i dont get ...
A. 16 June 2009: Hey there!! UGH!! the pill is too much troubleyou take it every day at the same time if you forget to take one pill there might be a chance of getting pregnant, the shot is every 3 months and when you get your period you loose alot of blood and ... (read in full...)
I'm 13, Should I wait to have a child with my 17 year old boyfriend?
Q. my boyfriend and i want to have a baby. we are both in our teens (im 13 he is 17) and unsure if we should wait??? please help...
A. 16 June 2009: Having a baby is the most wonderful thing that can happen to you! When your at the right age. Think about it what are you gona do your a minor wich means you cant work youll dropp off school cause its hard being a mom wich means no graduation wich ... (read in full...)
Depressed from the bombshell my wife dropped. She wasn't a virgin.
Q. I recently got married and on our wedding night my wife dropped a bombshell by saying shez not a vrigin. she said she had sex while she was 9 years old and the guy was 20 years old. She didn't have any boyfriend or any sort of relationship since ...
A. 16 June 2009: Your wife was raped buddy dont try to make her feel bad shes trusting you in telling you what happened she was probably scared of telling you too early. Dont be deppressed because its not like she wanted it. Just talk it out. Good luck!!... (read in full...)
I've been having unprotected sex, can I be pregnant?
Q. I've been having protected sex, he rarely penetrates without a condom but never cums inside of me. I have irregular menstrual cycles and havent gotten my period this month Im approximately 7 days late. Should I worry? Can his pre-cum have gotten me ...
A. 16 June 2009: Go to a clinic and get a test done that way you can think about what you want to do adn next time use a condom or use a birthcontrol method. I use the nuva ring its really good no worries about taking the pill at the exact same time get more ... (read in full...)
Hes kisses me then send me a text saying its wrong. Does he like me?
Q. this is the third time ive met this great guy, he was putting his arms around me a lot and kissing my hair, and then he text me later saying he was sorry, he knew it wasnt right that he was over-hugging me as we are still getting to know each other ...
A. 16 June 2009: Hey there!! Yeah theres a chance that he likes you. he probably thinks he disrespected you or something, or probably wants to make things slower like getting to know you a little bit more. Let him know that your thoughts. Good luck!!... (read in full...)
I'm 14, What sex positions can I try out?
Q. what other sex positions can i try out any suggestions???...
A. 16 June 2009: Oh umm how bout ask your mom what positions you can try and let see what she answers you. This is a site where we help ppl with prob. or doubts or minors that have made mistakes and dont know what to do cause theyre now pregnant it aint a site where ... (read in full...)
I'm still letting this girl get to me... help!
Q. I'm feeling so sad and confused that I'm starting to make myself sick. Me and my boyfriend had a pretty big fight yesterday, but it eventually just turned into us having a conversation about our relationship and everything. It was good, we both got ...
A. 16 June 2009: Ok wtf is wrong with that girl and your man i mean i dont wana be rude or anything but it aint right for your bf to be going out with other girls like that yeah he wants to have friends there are alot of guy friends out there he dont need to be ... (read in full...)
I can't find love... What do I have to do in order for it to find me?
Q. Hi. I'm here tonight because I'm losing hope in love. I can't find it. I've been in 4 relationships in as many years. The first one was my first ever. It was long distance and lasted for 2 years. Since then, the longest relationship I'v...
A. 16 June 2009: Hi im 20 as well and just like you i was single for a pretty long time(2 yrs) you know what i learned is that the more you look for it the more it takes to get to you. Be patient it will come i know your a nice guy otherwise you would be like other ... (read in full...)
My father is the father of my baby... I'm falling into depression... help!
Q. i dont really know how to put this, most of you will probably be utterly digusted, and wont even be able to find the right words.. but i really need some advice. about a month ago, my mom was out of town for a business trip. i am a only child ...
A. 15 June 2009: Wow! ummm Girl you need to ask for help i mean tell your mom about it its obvious he abusing from you because hes not letting you tell anyone and hes still trying to get at you, go to the doctors or do some research about what r the risks of having ... (read in full...)
Mother trying to force her religious views on me and break up my marriage
Q. My mom (she's christen) doesn't like my wife (of 3 years) because she's atheist. My mom has been on my case about it since she read her facebook religious status. She says if I don't find someone who believes god or I'll cut out her will and I'll go ...
A. 15 June 2009: Wow you dont believe in god? why? J.k Dont worry im christian too but just not into it as i used to be so you really want your mom to stop telling you to divorce your wife? Tell her to read the bible new testament, Jesus is agints divorce. That the ... (read in full...)
Self esteem issue--I don't understand why he likes me?
Q. My ex boyfriend recently came back to me. Our break up was mutual - it was not like he cheated on me or something like that, we were just sick of arguing a lot. Well, before we got back together, there was some "competition" - one of his exes ...
A. 15 June 2009: Hey there! That happens i think to all of us. Like you said your pretty but ther is this other chick that wants to be with your man who has alot of qualities, but get this straight the man is in love with you!!! i mean dont torture yourself like ... (read in full...)
Married co-worker is like a drug to me
Q. 8 months ago I started a new job and everyone was talking about the Rob the cute married guy that has a bitch of a wife . She would show up at our office and yell at him in front of everyone, and he just seemed to allow her to do it. Within the ...
A. 15 June 2009: Hey there! Well ask yourself do u really want to let him go? Cause according to ur msg it seems like you dont. What you need to do is talk to him about what is going on between you guys. Im 20 the same thing happened to me i was with my best friend ... (read in full...)
Is there the slightest possibility that I could be pregnant?
Q. I don't have sex with my boyfriend, though I give him a blow job and he fingers me. But there's no erection going on, no sperm or whatsoever. Sometimes we dry hump with clothes on and still, whenever I ask him if he has an erection, he'd tell me, ...
A. 11 June 2009: you cant get pregnant giving oral sex i asked a doctor because i do that alot and swallow the sperm doctor said no you cant get pregnantin the other hand if his magic stick went inside you cave lol its best to get a test done if he just rubbed it ... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to take a pregnancy test, I don't know what to do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up about 3 weeks ago i am 16 very soon and he's 17 in a few months. The last time we had sex was when we were going out and now im 22 days late. I haven't told him as he has just gone on holiday and i didn't want to ruin it ...
A. 11 June 2009: well your 22 days late you didnt say if you were on a birth control method if you were, that may be a reason sometimes you dont get a period for being on a method oh youll just be spotting but the best advice is getting a pregnantcy test because if ... (read in full...)
Girls lose their virginity without having sex
Q. is it true that girls loss their virginity with out having sex? my girl friend with whom i studied high school have no virginity and told she never dated with anyone before me.and now we are living in different worlds and about to get married with ...
A. 11 June 2009: Thats true about what pebbles is saying my cousing lost hers with a tampon i make fun of her telling her "u aint no virgin u lost it with a tampon" but she hasnt been with anyone so yeah theyre still virgins in that way.... (read in full...)
Why did she pause and get nervous just telling me her name?
Q. am 20 years of age and cute too. there is this girl of abt 17 who was just sitting in front of me during our class examinations and for the 1st time am seeing her.i just opened up a chat just asking some questions about herself and where she comes ...
A. 11 June 2009: Well she is probably a shy person, just like me! wich means when a cute guy starts talking to us and shows us that theyre interested in us we get super nervous. S0 yeah she might be interested in u, ask her out on a date! Good luck!... (read in full...)
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