He left me for harmless online flirting. Why?
Q. I have been with my chap going on 4 years. I have flirted online which was harmless and meant nothing. Just a bit of a joke and no more. I understand i hid it from him,but only so he wouldnt get the wrong idea as we had a break up over it once. ...
A. 15 November 2011: Chick, I have 5 years of experience of online dating/flirting/texting. You need to be honest about it if you met your man in the real world. You should have told him that you and online flirting come as one. Online daters do not approve of attached ... (read in full...)
Attracted to students as a teacher. Help!
Q. I'm a secondary school teacher 11-18 and always find myself attracted to students. I'm 28 and married. I find myself attracted to the older students and sometimes thinking what the younger students will grow up to look like. I have never acted on ...
A. 13 November 2011: Pal, you need to join an adult date swingers site where you can find a match and explore your fantasies. You should not be fantasising over schoolies,its dangerous and you will end up on the dole. Why not get a school uniform for your wife to wear. ... (read in full...)
His ultimatum: Get rid of my online friends and date site profiles,or he is going to leave!
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months has given me an ultimatum. Either I get rid of my on line friends and Date Site profiles,or he is going to leave. I have been on them for 3 years and enjoy it. I feel a bit like he is telling me what to do. Which shall I go ...
A. 13 November 2011: Chick, did you introduce yourself to him as an online dater? I assume you met in the real world and not a date site? First thing is to explain to him that to date an online dater,he has to accept you and the date sites as a package. Its love me love ... (read in full...)
Should I just relax and enjoy the friendship?
Q. I met a guy on an online dating site. We met ofr a first date over two weeks ago and got on great, attraction was there etc. However, after only a couple times after that he said he wants to just be friends. Admittedly, we had by this point ...
A. 12 November 2011: Chick,get back online and find another. You fancy each other? Did he tell you that? Are you thinking for him? If a man fancies a woman,he wont hesitate,believe me chick. Get back into online dating,beware of the players and pic collectors,and who ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling used up and am thinking would I feel more used up if I went over to see him.
Q. Dear Readers, I am wondering whether my disappointment and hurt is warranted in a siutation that has just occurred. I have been in contact with a guy over the Internet for the last 3 years. I was particularly vulnerable when I first started talking ...
A. 12 November 2011: Chick,this guy may be nothing more than an internet predator who has cam sex or collects pics. He may be spending new year with his wife and kids so get back online and dont lay all your eggs in one basket. You should have at least nine guys on your ... (read in full...)
I would hate to fall for her and find out she's playing me.Am I a convenient fantasy or a genuine love interest?
Q. I met a woman online in a chat room. It wasn't any sort of "Adult" chat room. It was just casual. She lives one state over from me, but we have never met. At first we were just friends, but over time our conversations became more intimate and ...
A. 12 November 2011: Oh dear,you have fell for an internet troll. I myself have been taken once or twice. Get back online and get another.... (read in full...)
He's confused me. Why would a guy tell you he likes you and is dedicated to you and then just stop talking?
Q. I recently started talking to a guy online. We hit it off right away and were constantly talking via texting and video calling. He expressed a lot of interest and said he would work really hard to make us work..he'd always call when on break at w...
A. 12 November 2011: Hi Chick, get back online and dont lay all your eggs in one basket. Sometimes people can switch from one online contact to another. It could be she lets him watch her on webcam, so his interest is there for now. I would go back online and get anot... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned that the guy I'm dating is still occasionally logging on to the online site we met on?
Q. I'm wondering if I should be concerned that the guy I'm dating is still occasionally logging on to the online site we met on. Here's the background: - We've been dating for almost 6 weeks - We live two hours away from each other - He told me...
A. 11 November 2011: Chick,this is internet dating not the real world. Dont take a player for his word. Play him back.... (read in full...)
Why do some guys like women to send them nude pictures???
Q. Before I say anything just thought i say that DO NOT judge me for this cause I`ve beaten myself up about it and regret it, plus i`m an adult. Also i have another question which relates to my post so instead of making another post I decided to post ...
A. 11 November 2011: Chick,dont despair,it is part and parcel of internet chat life. Ive seen many,its no big deal. Some chicks even have their kit off before their cam is on. It may be like losing your show on cam virginity. The next time wont be so bad. You have known ... (read in full...)
Internet cheating -- harder to get caught, addictive, what?
Q. I am suprised to read so much lately about internet date sites being used to cheat on partners. I am interested to know what goes through the mind of the one using the site and the opinions of those who have caught their partner doing it. Does ...
A. 10 November 2011: You are listening to an on line dating expert now. We are not all there to cheat. Some just keep their partner until they find better then dump them. Yes,there`s harmless sex banter and exchanging rude pics goes on,but nothing physical,so its not ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is setting up secret online relationships. HELP!
Q. My boyfriend was on the Internet last night and I found out he was index websites and he had set up a profile saying he wanted to meet girls for 1 on 1 sex or secret relationship he says he was only messing but not sure I'd should believe him please ...
A. 9 November 2011: Hi chick, internet date/sex sites are a lifestyle. You are either into it or you are not. When push comes to shove your partner and the dating sites come as a package. ... (read in full...)
How can I cover a bruise on my face?
Q. I have a bruise on my face and i am worried as i have to go out on Wednesday and i don't want people to notice it. i have very short hair so it might be hard to hide it that way. i could put make up on it but i'm not sure if it would still be ...
A. 7 November 2011: if its a black eye theres not a lot you can do chick.... (read in full...)
Need help with online dating.
Q. Has anyone got experience of on line dating? I have met 3,but they have all been less than truthful. Professional was unemployed. Had 1 child was really 4. Single turned out to be in a relationship who enjoyed the thrill. Does it ever get better?...
A. 7 November 2011: Once a dating site chick always a dating site chick. Dating site chicks are not for the faint hearted,they are just as bad as men. Do not let any woman make you feel obligated to marry her just because she`s let you view her on cam,sent you mobile ... (read in full...)
Is it over? Have I been played?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am so confused. I met a nice guy online, I live in UK and he lives in Norway. We started chatting for a few days, all seemed to be going well, so I suggested a phone call, which also went well. We spoke for about an hour, and seemed ...
A. 18 October 2010: Dont hate the player,hate the game.... (read in full...)
I am a mother of three young children and being threatened
Q. Me and my long term partner split up and 6 weeks later i met a guy who was pretty decent but i soon ended it with him as i was still deeply inlove with my ex,since this i have slept with my ex but he now no longer wants to speak or see me and im ...
A. 18 October 2010: Babes,dont hate the player if u started the game.... (read in full...)
I am a mother of three young children and being threatened
Q. Me and my long term partner split up and 6 weeks later i met a guy who was pretty decent but i soon ended it with him as i was still deeply inlove with my ex,since this i have slept with my ex but he now no longer wants to speak or see me and im ...
A. 18 October 2010: Babes,if u wanted someone u dont sleep with others. Thats a sure way to gettin rid permanently. He`s not goin back to u.... (read in full...)
What kind of person does this to someone?
Q. Hi this may seem a little long but bare with me and maybe i will get an answer that fits the profile,I have once again split from my baby`s father for the very last time in nearly 7yrs as a couple,when we got together he warned me that he was a ...
A. 3 August 2010: babes,dont be a player if u dont like the game.... (read in full...)
He dumped me and now wants to talk
Q. my boyfriend dumped me through a txt mssg and i never contacted him or asked for us to sort things out,due to the fact i had enough of his behaviour and attitude towards the relationship,now a month later he has contacted me to have a go at me,but i ...
A. 2 August 2010: babes,ur not sayin this is still goin on ru? just tell him its all in his imagination.i`ll back u up.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have sex after one week?
Q. I have been going out with a girl for a week and we all ready had sex. Is that normal? She talks openly about it on the phone and I feel comfortable talking about it. She trusts me with some of her secrets and I told her mine because I can trust ...
A. 27 July 2010: to some it is normal on the first few minutes.... (read in full...)
B/f found out I slept with his friend while we were broken up, says its my responsibility to make him feel better!
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend in January, we still loved each other very much, but we couldn't stop arguing and things just weren't working. When I broke up with him he got incredibly angry and cut off all contact with me. I didn't think I would ever ...
A. 27 July 2010: you blew it,you cant be the same again now. in his private thoughts he might view u as a bit of a trollop now.... (read in full...)
She is sending out such mixed signals.
Q. I have known a woman for going on 12 months now. We met via online dating. Everything was going great she was even talking engagement. But latley over the past month she suddenly says she doesnt know how she feels anymore she says she loves me dea...
A. 27 July 2010: just go back to another datin site then.... (read in full...)
For the guys... what differentiates between a one-night-stand girl and a keeper?
Q. This ones for the guys... what makes a girl decent for a one night stand? what makes a woman ideal for a relationship? What kind of girls would you consider only good for one night? i'm talking looks and personality. And why do you think that if...
A. 27 July 2010: from my own experience,chicks who drop em right away often do it whether with someone or not. tried to be open bout it but would any man expect a drunk chick who goes out of her way to av a seeing to is only doin it to you an ur the first an last? ... (read in full...)
He accuses me of going on dating sites to meet men!
Q. pls can someone tell me why my partner constantly accuses me of going on dating sites, meeting men and sleeping with them. i have in the past been to chat sites and chatted, flirted a little but that is all its been, and only went there when we fell ...
A. 27 July 2010: chick,did he not see any profile or owt?... (read in full...)
He accuses me of going on dating sites to meet men!
Q. pls can someone tell me why my partner constantly accuses me of going on dating sites, meeting men and sleeping with them. i have in the past been to chat sites and chatted, flirted a little but that is all its been, and only went there when we fell ...
A. 27 July 2010: possibly because he`s seen all your profiles chick.... (read in full...)
Is it a compliment to be told I remind him of his mother or was it a sign he isnt really into me?
Q. I met a man online and we hit it off wonderfully in person. We have a lot in common, are both freedom loving and yet value the friendship and human touch. But, he made a comment and I'm not sure how to take it. He kept staring at me over dinner and ...
A. 17 July 2009: Depends on his own feelings towards his mother. It could even be mean youre doin a good job at takin care of him. Do you have a problem about not having any problems? I wish that was all i had to worry about in my last relationship.... (read in full...)
Is this man not over his ex-wife or is he bitter because of her?
Q. I have been dating a man who is intelligent, secure in his career and with himself. Further, we get along well. However, he appears to have a wall up towards truly expressing his feelings. If I say terms of endearment such as "honey or sweetie," ...
A. 17 July 2009: People are sometimes different so i cant say its wise to act off what you are told. Myself,i found that once you have moved on the bitter memories and anger went away and was never thought about. Only comes back to mind when reminded or people ask ... (read in full...)
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