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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Your welcome hunni :)
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reader, Lil kitty  +, writes (1 August 2007):
Lil kitty is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx alot. I was talkin to him last night and he don't mind that i don't want to have sex right now. He is cool wit so Thanx for your help
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (30 July 2007):
 If your unsure about it, then you shouldnt do it. You shouldnt have sex with someone to make them happy, plus he doesnt care. Just wait
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reader, ChristyLee  +, writes (30 July 2007):
If he doesnt care then he wont be unhappy.I would say it will be safer if u just donthave sex =) just my advice
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reader, LISAXXXG +, writes (30 July 2007):
 you guys can be happy by not having sex why not go out to places with each other the cinema ect you do seem a little unsure and you know that you are doing something wrong by breaking the law and that is a sensible approach if he is happy not to do it also then you don't have to use sex to keep him have a laugh hang out with friends and wait till the right time untill your sure it is what you want
good luck hun lxx
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reader, Friend1991 +, writes (30 July 2007):
it seems as though you are not ready for a sexual relationship.....14 is a young age and you have your whole life to have sexual partners. Tell him you are not ready but that you still love him
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): Hi there,first of all the main important thing that i have got to say is dont do something to keep someone else happy if you are unhappy doing it yourself its about what you want yes you may feel comfortable but if something is telling you not to then dont because there are alot of things that could heppen if you do it un protected you could catch something or get pregnant and is that really worth it being a young mum if it was me and believe me i have been i nthis situation before i would tell you boyfriend that you want to stop for awhile if hes ok with that then he does care and wont mind and two get yourself on the pill hope that helps
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reader, angel-kate +, writes (30 July 2007):
 you seem to be very unsure about sex, so i think you shouldnt. its good to hear your boyfriend is pushing you and making you do somehting you dont want to do, he must really care about you!
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after all, you shouldnt have sex just to make him happy, if your not!
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (30 July 2007):
If you are really unsure about having sex then I say you should stop doing it. If your guy doesn't mind then great because he'll support you. You are still very young and you may find in a few months or a year or somethings time you feel ready to continue your sexual side.
I wouldn't have sex though just to keep your boyfriend happy.
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