I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is making my life hell!
Q. Okay, here goes.... I found out just under three weeks ago that I was pregnant. I'm 22 and have been with my boyfriend (whose also 22) for nearly five years. It was a complete shock as I was on the and using protection, can only pin it down to a ...
A. 17 August 2009: First of all, I applaud you for being incredibly brave and standing up for what YOU wanted.
Secondly, my heart really goes out to you. I wish you lived in my city so I could give you a hug. I cannot even imagine how hard this is for you. And for ... (read in full...)
The deadline for telling his wife has come and gone. How do I tell her anonymously?
Q. I have been carrying on an affair with a married man. He is going to leave his wife, I do believe that. The thing is, the original timeline for him leaving her has already come and gone. Circumstances have just naturally happened that have caused ...
A. 17 August 2009: not sure why you would want him to leave her... haven't you ever heard "if he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you"?? he obviously doesnt have much regard for the commitment he has with his wife...so why are you expecting one from him?... (read in full...)
Is a bed and breakfast a good place for having sex?
Q. I have been going with a good man. he asked me to get away at bed and breakfast for a few nights. We have not make love/had sex. Is a bed and breakfast a good place for making love/having sex? Other romantic places and ideas for us? A conce...
A. 17 August 2009: um.. YES! my guess is that is WHY he is taking you there...
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He still doesn't call me his girlfriend. Won't even refer to us as a couple!
Q. Theres this guy that I met in January.We initially met online in December,and then met and had dinner together a month later.Anyways,we have been going out since that time.Usually on weekends because of our work schedule,and also because of ...
A. 17 August 2009: Are you exclusive? Has it been made clear that you two are NOT seeing other people? ... to me, thats what makes a "couple".
The first thing i thought of was your kids - i appreciate that you are protecting them. however, maybe he feels that beca... (read in full...)
Am I not good enough for him if he wants to look at other girls?
Q. I am in a 3 month relationship, with this guy i really do love. i am having jealousy problems, i think. when i first got together with him, i knew he had playboys. but it did not bother me at the time. well later on in the relationship, i would get ...
A. 15 August 2009: well, personally, i have zero tolerance for any kind of porn. just my personal belief and i know not everyone agrees with me, but i think it is hurtful. i would ask him that very question: "why do you feel the need to look at other girls?" if it ... (read in full...)
I think I'm bi, but when I make out with girls it doesn't feel completely right. How can I be sure?
Q. hey evrybody out there.i am actually fairly young but i think i am bi.i make out with girls and it doesnt feel right.i like doing it but half of my wants me to stop.is there anything i can do to find out for sure?...
A. 15 August 2009: i think its more likely that you just havent found the RIGHT person to make out with yet. if you dont feel a strong emotional connection with someone, it is common for kissing to "not feel right" ... (read in full...)
Fiance has profile on online dating website, does that mean he doesn't love me?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for three years. The other day, his mom called me and asked if I could have him reply to her e-mail she had sent him a few days ago. We know each others passwords to our e-mails, so I thought I would just check his ...
A. 15 August 2009: stop reading this and go ASK HIM! now! i appreciate that you didn't jump to conclusions, because that would have been very easy, but please be prepared for the worst. was there any time you guys had a fight and broke up for a night or something? ... (read in full...)
I am sick of his abuse!
Q. Oh gosh, I have this boyfriend who is now my fiance. I want to break up with him. I just don't love him any more and I am sick of his abuse. He mentally and emotionally abuses me. He swears me and calls me names all the time for nothing and tells me ...
A. 18 April 2009: Thats exactly right, if its this bad now, its only going to get worse once you marry him. Get out now! I would think that if you sit down with your family and explain the situation, they will understand. But even if they don't, it doesn't matter. ... (read in full...)
Signs of pregnancy?
Q. I had sex with my bf a couple of weeks ago. We used protection but we have used protection in the past and I still fell pregnant. I had an abortion but that is a different story. I had what a believed to be my period last week but it was ligher and ...
A. 18 April 2009: first of all, stop being paranoid. until you get a "positive" reading from an at-home test, you are worrying about nothing. Especially if youre on the pill, your periods can sometimes be shorter and lighter than normal - and its normal for them to ... (read in full...)
He wants to 69 but I have an "appearance" problem
Q. OKay so my boyfriend wants to 69 but I'm embarrassed cause I have butt crack hair. I've never talked to anyone else about this...is this normal? Does everyone have it? and if not should I shave it?...
A. 18 April 2009: I use hair-removal cream because I have super-sensitive skin and can't shave down there - but yes, I do think most women have it. Have fun! :o)... (read in full...)
Questions about first time sex, with emphasis on the penetration
Q. Hello, I'm a virgin and I never had sex before. I've heard a lot of great tips about foreplay and about the importance of listening to your partner etc. But I've not heard much about the actual penetration itself, surely it's not just sticking it in ...
A. 18 April 2009: well, you have to be gentle at first - especially if its your lady's first time, too. and i think all women are different, just try different things with her and ask what she prefers.
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I had underage sex and now I'm worried that I'm pregnant
Q. hey im underage n i slept wid my bf about a week ago and im really worried i could b pregnant because ive been feeling sick in the mornings and ive been getting worried and im too scared to tell my bf or go to a chemist to get a test in case they ...
A. 3 March 2009: if it was only a week ago that you had sex, you wouldnt be having morning sickness already, if you are pregnant. that is in your head. you are most likely paranoid, especially if he didnt cum inside you. give it a few weeks and if you miss your per... (read in full...)
I like him but he only calls when he wants to have sex!
Q. I've been "hooking" up with this guy for a little over a year now, and before I never really thought a relationship would work between us and just enjoyed merely having sex with him. Lately he hasn't been returning my usual late night calls and ...
A. 23 February 2009: you're giving him everything he could want: sex whenever he wants without an actual relationship. why would he want anything more? you are a booty call... (read in full...)
We're both married, having a purely sexual affair - why lately has he gotten so clingy?
Q. I am having a sexual affair with this man. We are both married. The affair is nothing but sexual. We meet about once a month for no more than 2 hours. There is no calling in between meetings or any other form of communication. No lunches or ...
A. 23 February 2009: you are being used. and also ruining a marriage while ruining your own. congrats!... (read in full...)
Even though I have an STD, that STILL isn't enough to make me hate him.
Q. My ex boyfriend and I dated for quite some time. For the most part, we had a good relationship. I fell hard for him, I'd have to say and well I can't seem to get back up. Our break up was very horrible. We basically said every rude thing ...
A. 23 February 2009: You don't need to hate him to not be with him. You just need to realize that he may not be what you deserve. You deserve someone who treasures and cherishes you. And trust me, if you wait for him who does, you'll never regret it!... (read in full...)
I've had two abortions, and still want a baby... I need guidance, help me!
Q. Hi im 15 like all girls that came on this page i want a baby too...but my situation kinda different from everyone elses on why i want a baby ... my boyfriend is 17 now he just turned 17 ...and a year ago i was a pregnant twice and got two aborti...
A. 23 February 2009: well, after an abortion (especially one you were pressured into), a lot of healing needs to occur. Don't mistake your sadness for longing for a child. You are 15 and have absolutely no business having a baby - I encourage you to see a doctor and ... (read in full...)
At the end of the day boobs are boobs and vajayjays are vajayjays so what's the big deal???
Q. Hiya :) I feel stupid asking this but this site has always answered my questions and really helped before so anyway.. I have never got naked in front of a guy before (or girl for that matter lol) Reason is because I've never been intimate with a ...
A. 22 February 2009: i used to have this issue, too.
but really, a guy is gonna be so excited with the fact that you are naked, that he isn't going to be critiquing you....at all. the fact is, if hes seen you with clothes on, hes not going to be surprised by seei... (read in full...)
How can I tell my shy girlfriend that her pubic hair is turning me off sex?
Q. Hey I've been with a girl 18 months now, And everything is ok. Only thing is I REALLY have a thing against pubic hair, I'm not a shallow guy or anything it's just a REAL turn off for me. Everyone has things with make them excited and turns them off ...
A. 22 February 2009: well, do you shave? if youre clean and tidy, and she continues to neglect the area, i would say its ok to casually say something.
if not, then you should shut up :o)... (read in full...)
Where do I go from here? We have different goals!
Q. Hi! This is my first time asking a question ..its going to be long but bare with me please. here it goes. I am turning 21 next month. I have been with my boyfriend, 21, for 4 years now, we have never broken up once, nor have we ever taken a b...
A. 22 February 2009: Wow...this is common situation, I think. I noticed several times in your post that you said "i let it go" or something like that. I think you need to stop letting things go. In a 4-year long relationship, a lot is invested for sure. What did you ... (read in full...)
My friend's girlfriend threatens to harm herself if he leaves her, what can he do?
Q. My friend is in a bad bad situation. So im here to ask your advice that i can pass onto him because no matter how many times i tell him to come on here hes like... stubborn. lol Ill cut this down so its a long story short but i hope you understan...
A. 22 February 2009: Your friend's girl has some serious psychological issues. This is a tough situation, but it definitely isn't fair for your friend to feel obligated to be in a relationship with her just because he fears what she will do if he ends it. Is your friend ... (read in full...)
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