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writes:My ex boyfriend and I dated for quite some time.For the most part, we had a good relationship.I fell hard for him, I'd have to say and well I can't seem to get back up. Our break up was very horrible. We basically said every rude thing to eachother in the book. We made tons of threats and he involved other people in our break up so I felt I had to play the same game.One minute he loves me and the next he hates me. Ever since the break up, we can't stay on the same page and everything ends up into an arguement.Despite all this, I've tried to stay strong, it's clear to me he doesn't feel the same way I do about him, or maybe it does but he says he doesn't want to get close to me because of the 'long - distance'No matter what he does, I feel like I can never stay mad at him. I can't be strong for myself and completely cut him off, and I'm not sure why, I want to hate him so much but I just can't, I always miss him, apart of me wants him back, but I know that I can never have him back, despite if he wants me back or not.Last week I discovered I had a STD, my mom was absolutely devastated seeing how I am only fifteen and immediately put me on the pill. Even though I have an STD, that STILL isn't enough to make me hate him..Someone please help me..
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (25 February 2009):
cease all contact its hard at first but its the best thing
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reader, AllisonDro  +, writes (23 February 2009):
You don't need to hate him to not be with him. You just need to realize that he may not be what you deserve. You deserve someone who treasures and cherishes you. And trust me, if you wait for him who does, you'll never regret it!
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reader, JuJuxo +, writes (23 February 2009):
you say u guys have a love hate relationship ...well maybe he just scared to really open up to u ..things like this takes time ...u say u have an std .. if he really loves u ..that wouldnt matter to him ...eventually you guys wont be breaking up and making up ..u guys will overcome everything n realize how much love u guys have for eachother ...just try to work things out slowly
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