My girl friend is sending naked pictures of herself to her ex. Is that cheating?
Q. So the girl I've been dating for 6 months now has been sending naked pictures to her ex, and having conversations with him while telling him that she loves him too, and that he should come over to have sex with her, all while telling me that she's ...
A. 18 December 2010: Doing something that you cannot tell your partner could be considered unfaithful. Why? simply because you knew to yourself that it is wrong. keeping those text messages with her ex and sending those NUDE pictures as well can be considered being ... (read in full...)
Is it too soon for me to get feelings for a guy I met on FB?
Q. I met someone on fb but I already knew him from when we was younger. We talk everyday he tells me just about everything. I really like him. I believe I'm starting to catch feelings for him. Do you think it's to early for me to start catch feelings?...
A. 18 December 2010: you two talk everyday for how long? if its like for one week now its too early to catch feelings. You see, you knew each other since you were younger but there's a small possibilities of not knowing everything, and you cannot get to know a person ... (read in full...)
How can I find a decent man that will treat me right?
Q. i seem to be attracted to the wrong type of guy and i don't know what to do.. I love the guy who is always up for a laugh, who can handle himself and who basically knows how to have a good time. ALthough everytime i get into a relationship with ...
A. 14 December 2010: Dont fall in-love to a wrong guy.
And how are you going to do it?
Dont rush everything up. Go have friends to nice guys who will treat you nicely, who will respect and care for you as a girl.
Make a long courting stage, get to know each other w... (read in full...)
Why did he lie about a kiss?
Q. dear cupid,my story is there was this guy i had a crush on for a long while,and my friend was seeing his brother ,so we all went to the movies as friends but finally the guy i liked kissed me and i kissed him back and that was it,then the next day i ...
A. 14 December 2010: Some men are really stupid in making a story if they were being ask on the spot by their friends. Thats the real thing about men. Instead of not answering any questions he just made it worst.
Or maybe he's not so sure about his feelings towards ... (read in full...)
How can I be less possessive?
Q. My bf of 5 months is awesome: loving, caring, smart, open minded, and we match sexually like 2 pieces of lego blocks. We are in love with each other pretty madly. We both value honesty and openness, and since we live in separate cities, it makes...
A. 14 December 2010: Based on what youve said, i didnt think youre possessive.
Its normal for a girl like you to feel jealous, especially knowing that your boyfriend is flirting with other women, even though its only through on-line.
Sometimes we intend to be posses... (read in full...)
Hair on my thighs - how much is too much?
Q. So I've noticed that I have thickish, black hairs on the backside of my thigh, and I was wondering if a women would mind during sex? What's a women's perspective on body hair in general? My butt has hair, but it doesn't seem like the jungles of ...
A. 14 December 2010: women are not all the same. some would mind it and some wont. other women find men with hair on their chest as macho and attractive, and some would find it disgusting.
Try to ask your girlfriend about what she feels about your body hair, and if the ... (read in full...)
My parents found out about my secret boyfriend and now I have to break up with him!
Q. Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged 1. I have a secret boyfriend at school which my parents immediately knew when our adviser heard the news and told them..Since my parents are strict on dating because they're Asians,t...
A. 10 December 2010: You could be 13-15 yrs old, still minor obviously. You dont have any choice but to do what your parents want you to do. It will be better if you will tell him the truth, because there's nothing you could do to defy what they want, sooner or later ... (read in full...)
How do I know if his feelings are true?
Q. Sometimes my boyfriend makes me feel like he is dating me because he feels bad. How do you tell your boyfriend that I mean how do you know if there feelings are true? I trust him, im just insecure. I mean. Like. Okay. Lately ive told him a lot of m...
A. 8 December 2010: it doesnt necessarily mean that when a man talks a lot, he loves you so much. Some men really cant express what within him with so much words. a "yes" can mean "really really so much" and a "no" would mean "really never ever".
If you really want... (read in full...)
How do I improve my chances at dating?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been single for most of my entire life, except for 3 brief relationships of which were not that great. One of those was a setup and the other 2 I met off a dating site. I have never actually asked a woman out on my own. I'm 26 a...
A. 8 December 2010: The problem i can see with you right now is that you dont have enough confidence to talk and be friendly with women. Dont look for a woman whom you want to be your girlfriend but rather look for women whom you want to be your friends. By doing this ... (read in full...)
How can I open myself up to love again?
Q. I don't understand why I am so worried about being hurt or unable to love a girl. I just don't feel anything for any girl, just physical attraction nothing more, I went through a break up which left me confused of who I am, what I want and ...
A. 8 December 2010: You dont have to do anything... Theres nothing wrong if you dont have a girlfriend at the present. Maybe the reason is you are trying to find the perfect girl for you and i dont see anything wrong with it rather than to push yourself to any girl ... (read in full...)
Can I get her back?
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me for another guy, we were together 5 months. When we met we had this major connection between us, alot of chemistry, something that i never felt before with another person and i felt that from her cause she had tryed ...
A. 8 December 2010: I believe it is very difficult to be with someone whom you do not like, and if she really enjoys your company she will be longing for you. You had your chance but you ruined it. We guys shouldnt show our girlfriends that we pissed off coz thats not ... (read in full...)
I can't do anything without my mother questioning me!
Q. First, I apologize for even asking this question because it's really weird. But here goes.... I'm in grad school where everyone is either already in a serious relationship or married. So the chances of meeting someone is slim to none. As a last ...
A. 5 December 2010: Youre old enough to have a date but since youre living with your parents, you are bound under their rules. Its either you talk to them about dating out since youre at the right age or living out in your own. I believe your parents will understand ... (read in full...)
I want to console my friend but I don't know how
Q. i have a (chat)friend, she is 20, she had lost(passes away) his best friend 4 yr ago,although she is OK in normal times, but she feel lonely whenever anything wrong happen with her,she feel depressed and says no-one likes and try to understand her, ...
A. 5 December 2010: well, maybe 4 years is still fresh for her so she still needs even longer time to fully recover from such tragic experience. She will get over it, just dont get tired of being there for her. She may not be so strong as you are, thats why she really ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend never wants to be home anymore.
Q. Why does it seem like she never wants to be home anymore? She always comes home so late the last couple nights shes come home when im already in bed. And tonight my gramma is babysitting so we can have a night alone but she says she doesnt know if ...
A. 5 December 2010: Obviously she is no longer interested to you. Anyway be strong and let her go. You deserve someone who will not hurt your feelings especially in your situation right now. Always think that when you lose someone, there is someone better is about to ... (read in full...)
Tips on how to flirt without looking like a skank.
Q. can i can some tips on how to flirt with a guy wen ur in highschool without looking like a skank?? i go to a school with a total of 50 students in my class so they are very judgmental. ...
A. 5 December 2010: make friend to a guy whom you want, its the safest thing to do and it wont make you look like skank. If the guy turns out to like you,good for you. But if you found out that you are not the one his type its a little painful but atleast you dont have ... (read in full...)
When we're away I miss him but when together I worry I wont miss him
Q. I am 45 and have been chatting with a guy from another city and he is 10 years younger. We've seen each other twice in the past 6 months and we've been intimate; but i am unsure of my feelings for him. When I am not with him I miss him but I w...
A. 4 December 2010: I really dont know what's your reason of feeling that way. The only reason i can see is that because he is 10 years younger than you. But age is not important in friendship and in love, it is not an issue. Coz these has no expiration...
Get to know... (read in full...)
My girlfriend never wants to be home anymore.
Q. Why does it seem like she never wants to be home anymore? She always comes home so late the last couple nights shes come home when im already in bed. And tonight my gramma is babysitting so we can have a night alone but she says she doesnt know if ...
A. 4 December 2010: If we see such a change of behavior to our girlfriends or wives. We believe that there's something wrong. But what? The only one who knows about it is your girlfriend. The best thing to do is to become strong and ask her about it. Talk to her, som... (read in full...)
What can I do about my girlfriend's weight gain?
Q. Hi Ive been with my partner over two years now, and over that time she seems to have gained a lot of weight. When we first met, she was a 14-16, curvy, but absoloutly fine. Since then, shes gone to a size 20. And is eating lots/ not doing...
A. 3 December 2010: It is normal to feel that way for your partner but it is really difficult to tell her that "i like you the way you look the first time we've met although i still love you the same way". But you see all you have to tell her is that "I want you to be ... (read in full...)
I want to console my friend but I don't know how
Q. i have a (chat)friend, she is 20, she had lost(passes away) his best friend 4 yr ago,although she is OK in normal times, but she feel lonely whenever anything wrong happen with her,she feel depressed and says no-one likes and try to understand her, ...
A. 3 December 2010: Well, the best thing to do is to listen to her everytime she's in this mood. Simply by listening to her you are already consoling her. avoid to interrupt her while she's talking. when she's finished that's the time for you to talk. Tell her that you ... (read in full...)
Almost two year old wont listen what do I do
Q. My almost two year old is driving me crazy she wont listen at all. Ive tried spanking time out everything even when i spank her and tell her no i say this is why u got in trouble i dont want u doing this anymore she still does it. Help idk what to ...
A. 3 December 2010: its normal for a toddler to have such behavior, they cant seems to understand you well yet. A 4 yr old child is even harder to handle. You really need extra patience. That's why being parents are not easy.... (read in full...)
STD HPV2.. tell him or not?
Q. I have hpv 2 and i'm starting to see this guy. Should I tell him? I really like him, and i want him to leave his girlfriend for me. But I have this issue, and I think if I tell him he wont leave her for me. But we have been hanging out and talking a ...
A. 3 December 2010: You should start to see a Dr first so that your problem will be properly treated. There are lots of guys out there, why trying to snatch someone else's boyfriend? ... (read in full...)
How can I make him stop wanting so much sex?
Q. How can I make my boyfriend behave the way he used to? Ever since we started having sex, that's all he wants, and he's not happy until he gets it. It's gotten to the point where the only way I can even talk to him or be happy around him is if he's ...
A. 3 December 2010: The best solution to your problem is to talk to him. Youre a girl and you deserve respect. Relationship doesnt only focus on sex, You should not tolerate his bad manners about sex. sex is good but it should be done in a passionate way.
ask him if h... (read in full...)
We broke up but I miss him so much
Q. About a month ago me and this boy broke up.. He said to go our own ways.. He's 18 and I'm 15..the thing is even though the super painful heartbreak is almost completely gone, I miss him so much..we don't even talk anymore. I really miss him, I just ...
A. 3 December 2010: It is bad idea to contact him, you see if you will do that it will only boost his ego and believe me you will never like the effect of that. Youre only 15, there is still a lot more out there for you. When you turn 16 the pain could no longer there ... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian? Will my dream of finding my prince come true?
Q. I'm a 17 year old girl who is worried about my sexual orientation. obsessionally worried. and I really want help. So first of all let me lay down the basics, I have always only felt oriented to guys. Ever since I was as young as 2nd and 3rd grad...
A. 3 December 2010: I understand your situation, but you see youre only 17. things would still change as you get older. I have a friend and he's gay. Since childhood i have had witnessed how he was so interested in girls stuff like dolls and flowers. As we grew up ... (read in full...)
After all that's happened how could I still love him?
Q. Ok so I'm with this guy for 2 1/2 yrs, we live together, we have roommates, dogs, the whole nine...anyway, we do fight a lot but I can honestly say I was too uptight. But also about other things like him cheating and then me cheating on him just to ...
A. 3 December 2010: 2 things:
First: he is really in-love with you but he cant refuse sexual urges with other women. (you really need to guard him well.)
Second: he is just playing with you.
you get hurt everytime you see a picture of them because you are jealous... (read in full...)
My bf's a drug dealer and also very agressive but I still love him
Q. My bf and I have been together for 9 months. I thought I'd be happy with him but guess what? I'm not! I want him to stop dealing with drugs but no one on earth could stop him. The more i try to stop him the more agressive he gets. I love him so much ...
A. 3 December 2010: You said youre not happy...
Happiness can never be bought by any amount of money.
Love is good or even great if you are happy with it, but what if not?
Go find someone who will make you happy. Sooner or later he will leave you anyway, beca... (read in full...)
Delayed ejaculation or not?
Q. I ve been with my current bf for almost year and a half.i m 19 and he s 24.Its a long distance relationship,and we see each other every week or two.He is the first guy i ve slept with,so i dont have lots of experience with this but 4 almost a year ...
A. 3 December 2010: well its better to talk about it with him or try to ask him about his sexual fantasies. Most couple dont talk about sex because they dont want to feel embarrass. But im telling you., its one technique to have a better sexual life, And dont feel shy ... (read in full...)
Advice needed ASAP!
Q. Yesterday i had sex with my bf and his condom popped i heard but i didnt realize it till he came in me. should i take the plan B pill or just wait next week to see if i am pregnant and deal with this issue from there???...
A. 3 December 2010: Do something as early as possible to avoid a bigger problem. its better to be so sure rather than to regret.... (read in full...)
Too much sex...how can I ask her to tone it down?
Q. Ok so this is an odd situation. Me and my girlfriend just moved in together. And we we were having sex like 7 times a week. And we used condoms everytime, and I brought up the pill and having more sex. She said ok and she went on the pill and we ...
A. 3 December 2010: there are different kinds of sex... it does not only pertain to penis insertion. you can also do oral sex or stimulation using your hands or finger. I believe it can also make her enjoy so much. and you can spare your penis.
in connection to this... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my girlfriend will cheat on me on cruise!
Q. Well, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months. She has a history of lying sometimes, and its hard to trust here. Well anyways her and one of her friends are going on a cruise together. Well i'm concerned about her cheating on me on ...
A. 3 December 2010: your girlfriend had a history of lying from you, i dont have any idea how big her lying to you was, but still you have forgiven and accepted her. If she will be doing it again to you,You have all the reason of leaving her and you've got nothing to ... (read in full...)
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