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writes:This is more like a quiz for you guys ... I spoke to my BF and we kinda disagree on:"WHO WANT'S SEX MORE OFTEN IN A RELATIONSHIP .. GIRLS OR GUYS?" So guys and girls ... hit me w some fun answers :) Lierin Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): Married women want more sex then married man...it is hidden and mostly joked about by married men, that they do not get enough sex..but every married women I know, says the same thing..we want more sex....unfortunately for us, we need them to do it right (at least for those who enjoy male parts vs batteries) Women want more sex then men...it is just not spoken about..as dr.s who pushed for viagara - married women.......
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reader, Alexsavisertavis +, writes (9 March 2008):
Most likly its girls that want more sex because masterbation for guys is much more satisfying thatn girl masterbation
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Who 'WANTS' sex more often in a relationship ?
Generally speaking but there are exceptions , it is the men who want more sex.
It is the male hormones testosterone which fuels his sex drive as well as that in women.
Some women have a higher level of testosterone and this makes them want more sex.
Our body produces two types of hormones, in the male, more testosterone and some estrogen and the females, estrogen and some testosterone.
When they are young , it is the men but when they gets older, it is the women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): Twenty times a day. You want to kill him? LOL
When I was in my 30s and 40s, I would wonder why my gf would seldom initiate sex. She said, "When do I have a chance? You want it 4 times a day." So for us it was me who wanted it more. She was the only woman after my first wife who I spent entire days with, so I don't know about other women who I dated, except I had sex with one woman 4 times one night, but I don't know if she liked that or not. I have read some posts on other forums where women complain that their boyfriends can only do it 3 times a day and they are disappointed with so little sex. As others said, it depends.
Being over 60 now, my wife no longer has to worry about me wanting it 4 times a day. :( Well, maybe still WANTING it. LOL or COL (crying out loud)
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reader, eddie  +, writes (7 March 2008):
 I think it depends on some things but in general, men want more sex. The proof is easy to see too. Women have the power to get sex any time they choose. Most of them do not use that power nearly as often as a man would. This may change, depending on the age group but in general, men want more. This is an age old fact and that is what keeps us going. If we both had equal sex drives, nothing would ever get done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Hi Hunny
My fella n me never argue about that one cause we are both as bad as each other all the time sweetheart there is neva a no its GRRRRRREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hope that helped LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Well, I'm a guy in my mid-20's and I have to say that my girlfriend (also my age) has a much larger sex drive than I do. Different folks, different strokes.
The fact is, not every man is a sex craved "hunter" and not every woman is looking to be "chased." I've known plenty of women who have done the chasing in my life and I've known plenty of men who have a "take it or leave it" attitude in regard to sex. It really depends on a variety of factors, including physical/mental health, job/life stress, sleep (or lack thereof), upbringing, etc.
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (7 March 2008):
LIERIN is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yeah, I personaly can have sex 20 times a day ... my BF gives it to me mostly every day (sometimes couple of times) but sometimes he is just too tired .. or he doesn't feel like it .. I still do think . that guys want it much more often than girls ... :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): yeah a lot of factors have to go into it.it differs not only from person to person but from relationships as well so it's not the easiest question to answer but speaking for myself i admit i am a pretty horny guy lol i can control it though as im still a virgin but it does get hard at times haha(but i have met some pretty horny girls before so i think it's about even.)
-michael
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Well, social pressures still dictate that women be chased. The man hunts, the woman is hunted. This can easily lead to the idea that the man has a huge sex drive, a hunter may have to chase hundreds of critters to make a single kill, a critter on the other hand needs only ONE hunter to get killed.A man has to ask 100 times if he wants sex once. A woman if she wants sex twice only has to say yes twice.However in a relationship, the woman may all of sudden find that her boyfriend who was constantly hunting for sex now turns out to have a far lower sex need then a sex drive.Crocodiles have a very high hunting drive, if an object moves to close to them in their strike zone, they WILL attack. This in disregard that they have a very low hunting need, crocs can go for months between meals.A cat has a far lower hunting drive, I can dangle a string in front of its nose and it will barely bat an eye, but a high hunting need, a cat needs to eats daily. Its hunting instinct will kick in sometimes, causing it to catch birds when it has no need, but it ain't as controlled by it as a croc.A shrew has a very low hunting drive, a shrew who is well fed will not chase anything at all, but it needs to feed almost constantly, sleep is a dance with dead.What I am trying to get across here is that a single male may seemingly think of sex constantly but that is because he needs to to get any. When he has a steady partner, he doesn't need to think about it constantly anymore to get the same amount. For many women this comes as a bit of a shock as you can easily see on forums like this. As for the answer, part of wanting sex is making yourselve attractive for the other, so ask yourselve honestly females, just how many hours do you spend each day in pruning yourselve for the mating ritual compared to your guy? Yes, washing your hare, shaving you legs, buying clothes, that is ALL part of your hunt for sex. If you go out on a date and spend an hour in front of the mirror while he still wears the same clothes he wore to work, then who exactly wants sex more?The sad part for women is that for full intercourse the guy needs to be in the mood, a woman can just go with the flow even fake intrest, a guy cannot. In a steady relationship for sex, the woman is depended on the guys need. A girl can put up with a man who has a higher need then she as, but the reverse does not apply.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): I have more of a sexual appetite than my bf, he can take it or leave it whereas i would like to have sex everyday, most days i do have sex but sometimes we give it a miss because he says he's too tired!!
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (7 March 2008):
 Your boyfriend will be surprised to know the truth, that it changes from relationship to relationship, and it changes with age too. Women in their 30's and 40's go through phases where they are as driven sexually as an 18 year old guy. I guess that would explain the reason for Cougars as well! The differences in sexual drives also changes with outside influences, jobs stresses, and changes with childbirth and family concerns, like exhaustion! Lol! It's not really a contest between the sexes, is it? Because the only conclusion that I have ever come to about the differences between men's and women's sex drives is that God likes to play quite a few practical jokes on us, doesn't he...
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (7 March 2008):
 Well, for my particular relationship - my boyfriend is all over me. I think he must have like, a gallon of extra testosterone or something. I, on the other hand, was not blessed with such a libido, so I'm less inclined to jump in the sack at moments notice.
However, some of my girlfriends are always complaining that their boyfriends can't keep up with them, or that their boyfriends are always "too tired" or too invested in playing Halo 2 or whatever...
I think it depends on the person!
Enjoy the survey, sweetness!!
xx India
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): I would say guys :] obviously its different in every relationship, but in my relationship I would say that its him that wants sex more. Not that I dont like it though, I think it's amazing what he does, but he innitiates it a bit more than I do :]
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reader, 17Irish17 +, writes (7 March 2008):
It depends if you are married or not. Before marriage, the girl does. After marriage, it is the guy by default because the girl doesnt want sex at all, lol!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): i have to say i love sex with my boyfriend. he is amazin but then i think it depends on the person, boys are more horny lol but both girls and guys should want it just as much, you need one of each at the end of the day?!
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (7 March 2008):
 hmmm...well there is no easy way to answer that really. it all depends on the relationship, the people in it, their sex life, and wat they like etc. in my relationship its kinda equal. sometimes he wants it wen i dont though - which is not a problem. but i have to ask - why does it matter? is there a problem with your sex life?
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