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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

My ex said we can get back together if things don't work out with her current boyfriend, but I can't handle the thought of her giving her virginity to someone else.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - The relationship with my ex-girlfriend is a long and complicated one so I’ll try to explain it as clearly and concise as possible. (The names used are not the real names of people involved) We first started dating during our sophomore year o...

I'm 13 and feeling pressured by my own longings to have sex with my Bf. But I'm scared of getting pregnant. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - okay so im a teenage girl and i kind of feel pressured to have sex,not by anyone though, i have a certain longing for it.i want to wait till im married because im still a virgin but sex is so tempting to do. And i have the guy i want to do it with ...

I want to have sex with this guy, but I'm scared he won't want to if he finds out I'm still a virgin. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I'm 20 years old and have always been really insecure when it came to guys, so I had never dated anyone until four months ago. Then my attitude changed and I met a nice, sweet guy. I had my first real kiss with him, and I was really ready to explore ...

We are both 18. He's a virgin. But his technique needs work. How do I teach him without offending him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I'm a 18 y/o female, not a virgin. I've only had one sexual partner but he was a lot older and more experienced guy, so the sex was great! He taught me a lot... However I'm now going out with an 18 year old virgin, who hasn't done Anything sexual.....

I'd like to meet a virgin woman but where and how can I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

25 December 2012 (M) - So after coming on this site off and on every few months for nearly 4 years now (mostly for affirmation that I wasn't the only soul in my predicament), I have finally decided to post about my situation and seek help. So anyway, my story is similar...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

He makes me wet and it makes me uncomfortable.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - Okay so I'm 16 and so is my boyfriend. Were both Virgins and we do want to wait till marriage for sex so instead we Dry Hump. Im usually in leggings or sweat pants and hes usually in gym shorts. But he says he wants to try to do it with pants off ...

I'm a virgin, how does porn differ from real life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

23 December 2012 (M) - I'm 23 year old Virgin. When I say I'm a virgin, I mean like I never even kissed or touched a girl in any sexual manner whatsoever. Hell, I can't even look at a girl I find attractive without my body trembling. So... I watch a lot of porn. However...

My LDR seems sweet and gentle. I'm a virgin. Last night I found out he's into sadistic/masochistic sex. How do I deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I'm going to try and keep this as brief as possible. Last night I learned that my long-distance boyfriend is into sadistic/masochistic sex. I'm really surprised, because he's a really sweet and gentle guy. I'm a virgin, with zero sexual activit...

Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - I have been single for years I cant seem to meet women interested in me. Women I have dated all dumped me for other people , they all say I am a "lovely guy" but they always see, to go for arrogant pretty boys who usually treat them like crap.Every ...

Afraid to take a chance on love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

20 December 2012 (M) - I don't know what sex is and I am tired of being laughed at for being a kiss less virgin at 21(22 in 2 weeks) I only want to get physical with a girl I love and people think this means I want the perfect setting before engaging in blissful and pass...

In your own opinion does her behaviour and reactions define her as an easygirl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

17 December 2012 (M) - i have been dating this girl for a while but i know very little of her sexual experience. she claims she has had only one serious boyfriend but dated other people. after my second date with her i was perfoming oral on her but she did not let me h...

I had my sexual experience with my boyfriend. Yet he refuses to believe it was my first time. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - hi everyone, just want to ask some advice or help regarding my own issue. i had my first sexual experience with my boyfriend. At first it was uncomfortable but eventually i became relaxed. I didn't bleed nor feel the pain as they say for the firs...

Why did she bleed when we had sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

15 December 2012 (M) - please ladies, help with this one. i am extremely curious about something that happened to me. i met this wonderful girl and we became roommates, we were only aqcuitences before, but once we were together the first week i asked her out to the movies ...

LDR but I want to have sex! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

14 December 2012 (F) - I have a boyfriend,i truly love him and he luvs me too,we are both virgins and we're planing to spend our life together...the problem is that we are in a long distant relation,recently i started feeling very horny,cant keep ma mind off sex,i really ...

Will I feel this pain every time I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

14 December 2012 (F) - Am a girl age 17 I tried to sleep with my boyfriend for the 1st time in my life, I was a virgin n when we were starting I couldn't stand for the pain, does that mean always when I try to have sex I will feel the same pain?...

I've been married 8 months and am still a virgin. Should I tell my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

10 December 2012 (F) - Hi just thought of finding solution to my problem here .i am 25 years old girl and my husband is 31. I am confused. That my husband is gay or impotent because we are married for 8 months now and till today we have not had sex. He doesn'ttouch me ...

I can't seem to figure out exactly what I'm holding onto with my 'virginity.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

10 December 2012 (F) - I am so confused as to how to view my virginity. I am 20 years old, female, live in London, UK. I would say I am pretty. Long black hair, light brown eyes, taller than average - 5'8, medium sized body. I have met guys in the past, but usuall...

We get on really well, but he said he needs sex, but I'm a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - I just turned 20 a while ago. I'm a virgin. I'm single and always have been. Dated a couple of guys, but things ended horribly and I ended up hurt. Even though I am a virgin, I have done other things, nearly everything that comes before it, su...

I've found the right guy to lose my virginity to and I want to make our first time special, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

7 December 2012 (F) - Hello aunts. I'm not sure where to start really but basically i've been dating my boyfriend for around 3 months and we are yet to sleep together as i'm still a virgin and my boyfriend seems to understand that i'm worried about it but i know he is...

Would I be right to tell anyone I meet in the future that I'm a virgin because I feel like I am, despite having tried to have sex a number of times?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

7 December 2012 (?) - Dear cupids, I do not know how to explain how I feel at the moment. I am disgusted with myself. After I experienced bleeding, I still tried to have sex again like a month after. I bled again and every time I bleed. I believe I am still a virgin cos ...

I am embarrassed by my lack of sexual experience.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

7 December 2012 (F) - I am currently a freshmen at college and go out regularly in the party scene where I meet a lot of nice and attractive guys who seem to be very interested. I'm not afraid to give out my number to a guy after talking to them at more then a couple ...

My best friend's younger sister wants me to pop her cherry and give her a crash course in lovemaking...but she has a boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

6 December 2012 (M) - There's a girl who wants me to take her virginity and teach her about sex with a guy. She's a friend, but not a girlfriend, and I'm unsure about how to handle it. I'm 23 and hope to graduate next May with a degree in marketing. I'm unattached ...

I am dating this girl she is 31+ and still a virgin!! will this bring any difficulty on ever becoming pregnant??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

3 December 2012 (M) - Hey, I am dating this girl she is 31+ and still a virgin!! will this bring any difficulty on ever becoming pregnant??...

The date went really well, but now he's acting rather off with me, is it because I'm a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

2 December 2012 (F) - Hi guys, okay a little bit about me so you can get the gist of my situation afterwards. I'm 20 years old, female, living in London, I'm a virgin, I've never had a boyfriend, I have only one guy before, but things ended extremely badly bef...

I'm a virgin and it's embarrassing. Should I get a male prostitute so I can get the first time out of the way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

1 December 2012 (F) - Probably the most humiliating thread to post. So anon for obvious reasons. Well, basically I'm a virgin girl 21, and for the past year or so I have been teased by literally everyone who found out I was a virgin. It hasn't at all been for lack of ...