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writes:My husband's ex in 2006 took their daughter to Indiana, to live closer to her boyfriend (who was in prison for child molesting)...When she came back a year and a half later she sued my husband for child support.DHR agreed with her.She should have gone to jail, but didn't.She always wants their daughter home early, every weekend, we have her.This past Christmas she lied to my hubby and told him she had scabies, knowing that if she said that he would say she couldn't come.Not only is that gross, but his Grannie is 90 years old, and he can't chance her being around his Grandma.He was suppose to get his daughter for a week at christmas, and his ex said NO!I could go on forever about her, and the stuff she has done. Now she is saying that their daughter needs braces, she is 9 and at least 3 of her teeth haven't even grown back! His ex owes him almost $2000 for an old Alltel bill she never paid, and it is on his credit.Do you think he should tell her to use that $2000 towards the braces?? ( The Alltel bill is in the divorce decree also)I know this is a lot, but i need someone to tell me i'm not crazy, and that it is her!!!!
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reader, alljackedup777 +, writes (23 January 2011):
Wow thanks to both of you...Ecp Merilee sometimes I need to get kicked back into gear! I will def let him start handling it more and not get so worried all the time....and thanks to you CG for not thinking im crazy!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 January 2011):
No disrespect, but your husband needs to start standing up more. All this stuff that she's doing is good, solid evidence and with proof (i.e. tape recordings etc), he could walk over her in court. His daughter sounds like she's being abused, and it's time your husband kicked some serious ass. Mention the money, the scabies, the child molesting boyfriend - everything you can and sue the hell out of her for custody.
Oh, and you're not crazy at all. But your husband is because it doesn't sound like he's doing what needs to be done.
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reader, Merilee  +, writes (22 January 2011):
First off ... you need to stay out of this. This and every other matter about the child, is between him and his ex. As is the monies owed from there union. Your job is to be supportive to your man,and loving kind and giving to the child.
Second, if she isnt willing to give your husband what he wants, and they cannot agree, go to court. Once in a court order, she cannot withhold the child from him, or shes in contempt and can be charged with parental interference.
They either agree, or dont, and if they dont, court. Easy as that. And you can bring up the finances at that time.
As for whom his ex sees, that is none of your business or his, you are definetly putting your nose where it doesnt belong. If her boyfriend is a child molester then he wouldnt be allowed legaly around a child and would be sent back to prison for violing his orders. If he is around the child and there is no conditions on him to stay away from kids, then you are being very judgemental and making alot of assumptions.
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