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He started texting me after we broke up. Then just as suddenly he stopped. Why would he do that?

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Question - (21 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm just looking for a second opinion.

A couple of months ago, I slept with this guy a few times. We texted, then i made the tremendous mistake of asking his friend about one of his ex girlfriends.

So he stopped texting me. However, each time I bumped into him afterwards we would catch up (in the middle of the street).

Then for about 2 months i didn't see him and then we bumped into each other in the library. We said hi and the next day i bumped into him again, simply just saying hi.

The thing that confuses me is that he copied one of my facebook status and then proceeded to text me saying "i copied one of your facebook status, haha. how are you?"

I didn't recieve the text until the next day, so texted back quite late on, and then we just had small chit chat over texts.

What i would like to know is why he texted me and why has he now stopped??!?!?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011):

Looks like you had a couple of one night stands with him and he went on his way...I don't think it was b/c you asked his friend about an ex girlfriend. I doubt he even thinks about this and when he sees you just treats you like he would any aquaintance.

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

he is really the only person in the world that can tell you why, but if you are looking for some random reasons that it COULD be, the one that i can think of is that he wants to remain on good terms, not necessarily wanting you back, but just to be casual friends and be nice, he feels ok to text you as an when he has got a bit of time on his hands, but because he is not in any sort of relationship with you he is not obliged to text your regularly, just when he feels like.

just go with the flow, don't stress. if you want to hear from him just text him and see what happens

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011):

I think he may be confuzed on how he feels about you , like he probaly really liked you but then when he found out u asked bout previous girlfrends , he then thought that in the future you wouldnt be ablt to trust him , but then he saw u again and realised that he still liked you and is just worried that in the future are you going to keep doin backround checks on previous things what happened before you 2 :) hope ive helped leave a message to say if ive helped u in any way :p

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